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Poll: the right thing vs. friendship UPDATED!
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fvck your friend. stop talking to any of them and be gone with everything. i was on the side of the fence, where i knew someone who confessed to be cheating with my friends SO. i totally ignored it and my friend eventually found out... i actually even warned the two to stop cheating and stabbing my friend behind his back. needless to say, my friend was pissed off when he found out that i knew about it. he actually yelled at me and stopped talking to me for a long period of time because i did not tell him. of course, this is different being that the person that you might tell will be someone you really do not know too much about. it is your call. i would actually just tell the SO of your friend, fvck him, fvck MRS. R, all of their lives, and stop talking to them in general because you hang around some bad immoral people. ;p might as well redeem yourself and do the right thing then. fvck everybody else over in the process 🙂
If you were good friends with the GF then you would be obligated to tell her. Since it seems like you barely know her, you should probably just cut off ties with all involved parties and move on with your life.
The dude sounds pretty scummy. Unless she's an idiot, the gf probaby knows what she is dealing with.
The dude sounds pretty scummy. Unless she's an idiot, the gf probaby knows what she is dealing with.
Geekbabe
Moderator Emeritus<br>Elite Member
Your friend is merely dating the girl,he's a single man and can do as he pleases, dating does not imply any sort of commiment or promise of exclusivity and for all you know he and the girl have agreed to this.
The simple act of dating means you've got somebody to bone if a better option doesn't happen along.. it doesn't carry any sort of ownership rights !
I'd be more worried that the married woman's husband would find out and go after your friend... and possibly hurt anybody he was hanging out with,I'd just stay clear of the whole mess.
The simple act of dating means you've got somebody to bone if a better option doesn't happen along.. it doesn't carry any sort of ownership rights !
I'd be more worried that the married woman's husband would find out and go after your friend... and possibly hurt anybody he was hanging out with,I'd just stay clear of the whole mess.
HeroOfPellinor
Lifer
Where's the option to vote for "blackmail"?
Bro's before ho's.
Throughout the years my friends and I have been through many girls. The girls come and go, but your guy friends last forever.
If you take the current gf's side on this, you're going to lose the trust of your friend. Eventually the gf will most likely leave him anyway, and you'll have lost a friend for nothing.
Bad move.
Throughout the years my friends and I have been through many girls. The girls come and go, but your guy friends last forever.
If you take the current gf's side on this, you're going to lose the trust of your friend. Eventually the gf will most likely leave him anyway, and you'll have lost a friend for nothing.
Bad move.
Thats BS.... How do you expect anyone to ever have a healthy relationship if both parties are free to screw whomever they want whenever they want? Your theory simply doesnt work in real life. When you're in a relationship that implies some semblance of loyalty. Otherwise you are continuously damaging the relationship, and you can never develop trust. Yours is a recipe for continuous disaster.
-Max
This isn't true. Most relationships are exclusive. I wouldn't even date a girl if she told me that she was going to date other guys while we were together. In return, I don't date other girls while I'm with her.
Getting married is not this magic thing where you suddenly become faithful. That doesn't carry any ownership rights either. Most marriages end in divorce. I think you even said that you've been divorced 3 times. Cheaters are going to be cheaters, whether it's on a bf, gf, husband or wife. Just look at this case- you have one guy cheating on his gf, and one woman cheating on her husband.
Again, this is false.
I think people with a religious upbringing are taught that marriage is this magical thing that makes unhappy couples become happy, and makes cheater become faithful.
This is simply not the case, and statistics prove it.
Someone with that "Free agent" state of mind is going to behave that way whether they're in a long term relationship or if they're married. It's the person's mentality and actions which count. If they can't be trusted to remain faithfull in a long term relationship, they can't be trusted in a marriage. This is the reason that most marriages fail.
I don't mean to sound rude, and I don't mean this as a personal attack, but I believe that one should be qualified to speak. You're trying to give relationship advice yet you've been divorced three times. I've been with my current girlfriend for 7 years and have remained faithful. Talk is cheap. It's the quality of the person that counts in the long haul. The kind of person that feels that one should be able to break their word and be a "free agent" just because they don't have that ring isn't marriage material.
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