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sxftdeep

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Originally posted by: sugar
interesting that the "for's" outnumber the "against's"

For those who are for it, ask yourself this:

When your child gets to be a teenager/adolescent (a very influencable age) would you want them to spend the night a friend's house who's parents are gay?

Do you think that may have an impact on the lifestyle your child may choose?

Why? Should I be afraid that the gay parents are going to try and pull something on my son/daughter? Most homosexuals aren't trying to "recruit" people. Homosexuality isn't a cult or a religion. Sh!t, I'd be more worried about my child spending the night at some Mormon or Jehova's Witness house.
 

Crypticburn

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Originally posted by: Aztech
The point is, it's being taken a step further all the time. TV shows like the ones I mentioned are only on because too many people said they didn't care or thta it didn't affect them. Other people, including myself, are trying to draw the line at every juncture as to what is acceptable. It's deviant behavior and has no place in the public eye.

Yes, and while we're at it, I think we've overstepped the bounds a little. "So many shows throw in the 'requisite' black guy now." We need to get back to times when black people were treated as second class citizens just as homosexuals are today. And as long as we're 'fixing' things, we may as well subjugate people of asian, jewish, irish, native american, etc. decent as well. WHITE SUPREMECY!@!

Ok, yes I've taken it to far. But again, just like those opposing inter-racial marriages, your ignorant viewpoint will dwindle with time.

Thank you for your opinion (eventhough I disagree with it, and can't wait until it's mostly gone from society),
Crypticburn
 

Crypticburn

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Originally posted by: Aztech
Originally posted by: Gooberlx2
Originally posted by: Aztech

Who says it's not? How often does it happen in the animal kingdom? I'm for equal rights (excluding marriage) but that's all. I totally disagree with all the gayness on TV these days. So many shows throw in the "requisite" gay guy now. And "Queer Eye", oh my God! It's the kind of stuff that can influence a child struggling to find themselves. TV is making it cool to be gay for cryin' out loud!

Clearly you've never witnessed dolphins or manatees as they "play" together. Or certains members of the primates....or a ridiculous plethora of other species in the animal kingdom. If anything, the animal kingdom is one big swinging community.
BS. It rarely happens in the animal kingdom. Usually only when males are held in captivity without females. It's not at all as commonplace as you make it sound. Dolphins are the only other animal that have sex for pleasure, but still, not homosexual sex.

Yes, because we are still completely subject to nature. We haven't developed (crap, I assume you're a creationist as well?) well beyond the born-eat-procreate-die phase :(

Crypticburn

Again: sarcasm
 

MAME

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This title is synonymus with "Equal rights for all Americans, for or against??"

They shouldn't be treated special, so let them have the same rights as everyone else.
 

DWW

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Originally posted by: CrazyDe1
Originally posted by: DWW
I'm against.

Now hold on. I think them there gays and lesbians should get equal treatment for jobs, tax benefits and so forth. But I'm against them marrying. I think they should invent a new license ...something like "Unions For Ambiguous and Gays Outside Traditions" that allows them the benefits of heterosexuals but I do not think the term "marriage" should be polluted because it comes from a religious sense.

I'm not a homophobe and I've met some gay people before and they aren't all that different of people--they still contribute to society in some ways. But I just think that marriage should be respected as a holy thing in nature. Then again come to think of it, divorce has ruined marriage too. Why not let everyone get married.

They should invent a sort of new marriage license that can only be given by a religious faction, and that can't be broken (divorce). That would be nice for those who don't want the term to lose its value and merit IN THEIR VIEW.

Where does this stop? Are black people not allowed to marry and should there be a "Unions for Colored folk outside traditions". It's this intolerant attitude that is the root of racism and all hatred of things different.

There was a time when people said drinking fountains should be respected as well. If you don't want it to lose merit then keep it sacred for yourself and don't get divorced and don't marry someone gay, don't enforce your beliefs on others.

But see, marriage was meant for a man and a woman IN the religious context. I do agree that gays/lesbians/others should have the right to dedicate themselves to each other somehow and get a tax deduction and all the benefits of hetero married folks. I just don't like the term to be twisted. But the US is changing anyhow... it was founded on Christianity forefathers and everything has been bent and twisted to separate every single little detail of religion and state. I'm not saying they should be absolutely together but some overlapping SURE. Thats what USA was founded on so why not? Why does the US currency say "In God We Trust", why must you swear on the Holy Bible in a court of law, and now then they removed the 10 commandments from that courthouse? stupid.

I just want it to remain a sacred union between a man and a woman as it was meant. Like I said, I don't want to deprive others, just of the name of their union that is all. What is wrong with that? This is not descrimination. There is tons of things like this in everyday life thats okay. There is the ACLU and "Give African Children College Money" groups nationwide and thats not descrimination towards whites. There are certain clubs (not nightclubs) where its a "mens club" and only men can join and that is accepted and understood by everyone. Why can't there be this one tiny name difference just to signify the meaning which the majority want to keep? There is so much bull going on today about what is politically correct. There is nothing wrong with what I propose. I'm sure there are an abundance of dedicated gay and lesbian couples who want to stay together forever and would make good parents (thats another topic) and yes thats GREAT I say. But why must the Christian-overtone marriage be trampled on?

Once again the rights of the minority outweight the needs of the majority. Sad state of affairs but hey thats 2004...
 

JoeKing

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So denying the rights of a minority in the name of moral justification for the majority is how things should be?

So how do muslims get married? Jews? hmm guess they don't get married at all
 

Jzero

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Like I said, I don't want to deprive others, just of the name of their union that is all. What is wrong with that?
Do you really think the Constitution should be altered over a matter of semantics?
But why must the Christian-overtone marriage be trampled on?
Heterosexuals of all religions have already done a fine job of trampling on marriage. Why not let the gays have at it, too? Are you afraid it will decrease the divorce rate?
Once again the rights of the minority outweight the needs of the majority. Sad state of affairs but hey thats 2004...
The NEEDS? What "NEED" does the majority satisfy if they manage to succeed in pulling off this shenanigan? At the end of the day, this is a right that can be granted to the minority without having ANY impact whatsoever on the majority. Your life and your marriage will be no different regardless of the outcome.
 

Aztech

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Homosexuality is a crime against nature. It's not what was intended. What's next? Pedafile rights? Draw the line. When anything goes, you get things like AIDS.
 

Eli

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For, without a doubt.

The government has no say. They should have no say.

Marriage as a religious thing has no place in the government.

I have not heard one good reason to make it against the law. It's discrimination, plain and simple.

There is no good reason.
 

CombatChuk

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I'm for it. Whatever tickles their pickle :p Like so many people saying, it doesn't affect me. Besides Bush's attempt to outlaw it is just a diversion. He wants people to focus on this instead of his war (which turned up nothing in the end)...

 

StageLeft

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I have not heard one good reason to make it against the law. It's discrimination, plain and simple.

There is no good reason.
I haven't heard a good one either, because there isn't one.
 

Eli

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Originally posted by: Aztech
Homosexuality is a crime against nature. It's not what was intended. What's next? Pedafile rights? Draw the line. When anything goes, you get things like AIDS.
A crime against nature, huh? Ok.

So what exactly is that supposed to mean? Cutting down a tree is a crime against nature, but that certainly isn't universally against the law. Spewing pollutants is a crime against nature. Both of those things can be against the law, but aren't universally. It's looked at on a case by case basis. Does the positive outweigh the negative?

In the case of same sex marriage, there is no negative. It simply promotes equal rights. If two people of the same sex want to live with eachother, file taxes with eachother, and enjoy all the other social benefits that a "conventional" marriage brings, who is anybody to say they can't?

What's next? Pedophile rights?

What does homosexuality have to do with pedophilia? That's right, nothing.

The line is already drawn, my friend. Pedophilia has nothing to do with homosexuality, and will always be against the law.

When anything goes, you get things like AIDS?

I wish I would've read this first, I probably wouldn't have even bothered to respond to your post.
 

bozack

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Originally posted by: Eli
For, without a doubt.

The government has no say. They should have no say.

Marriage as a religious thing has no place in the government.

I have not heard one good reason to make it against the law. It's discrimination, plain and simple.

There is no good reason.

simple solution, change all legal references from marriage to union for everyone, gay or straight...there is no mention of marriage in the consitiution to the best of my knowledge so ammeding it would be moot....just reclassify every straight couple that currently stands from married to "united" and refrain from ever using the term "marriage" again...not only do you get equal rights for everyone under the law, but now there is a clear distinction between church and state, no longer will a term with a duality be used.
 

TechnoKid

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Marriage by definition is a union between two people. Now, that being said, at the time that marriage was conceived or invented, the union between the same sex most likely would not have been thought of. In that sense marriage is commonly and through the ages known as the union between a man and a woman as husband and wife. If marriage is to become everything, then what is marriage? It becomes nothing because everything is like it (in a broad sense).

The meaning of marriage shouldn't be changed to suit the likes of unorthodox people. Why is the hope diamond what it is? Why is a chicken a chicken and not a duck? If society were now to readily accept the union of same sex couples into marriage, then what marriage has come to be since it was first conceived means less and less, if anything at all.

I think the whole situation has escalated to whre it is because gay couples were making a big statement about how they were not receiving the same rights as a heterosexual marriage did. If a couple doesn't fit the meaning of marriage, then why should they recieve those rights? Should an individual get presidential rights or top level securitly clearence even though that person isn't the president? It's just like illegal immigrants who wants the same rights as American citizens. Take for example the drivers license issue in California. If the illegals are going to take that much time to put up a fight for their drivers liscense, what prevents them for applying for citizenship and requesting legal status? If the illegals spend that much time studying for their drivers license test, why can't they do the same and apply for citizenship and request for legal status in the US? The aliens came to the states illegally in the first place, so why should the law change for them when they broke the law coming here? New laws are not excusable for the fact that laws were broken by the people who'd be benifitting from the new law.
 

CrazyDe1

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Originally posted by: DWW
Originally posted by: CrazyDe1
Originally posted by: DWW
I'm against.

Now hold on. I think them there gays and lesbians should get equal treatment for jobs, tax benefits and so forth. But I'm against them marrying. I think they should invent a new license ...something like "Unions For Ambiguous and Gays Outside Traditions" that allows them the benefits of heterosexuals but I do not think the term "marriage" should be polluted because it comes from a religious sense.

I'm not a homophobe and I've met some gay people before and they aren't all that different of people--they still contribute to society in some ways. But I just think that marriage should be respected as a holy thing in nature. Then again come to think of it, divorce has ruined marriage too. Why not let everyone get married.

They should invent a sort of new marriage license that can only be given by a religious faction, and that can't be broken (divorce). That would be nice for those who don't want the term to lose its value and merit IN THEIR VIEW.

There was a time when people said drinking fountains should be respected as well. If you don't want it to lose merit then keep it sacred for yourself and don't get divorced and don't marry someone gay, don't enforce your beliefs on others.

But see, marriage was meant for a man and a woman IN the religious context. I do agree that gays/lesbians/others should have the right to dedicate themselves to each other somehow and get a tax deduction and all the benefits of hetero married folks. I just don't like the term to be twisted. But the US is changing anyhow... it was founded on Christianity forefathers and everything has been bent and twisted to separate every single little detail of religion and state. I'm not saying they should be absolutely together but some overlapping SURE. Thats what USA was founded on so why not? Why does the US currency say "In God We Trust", why must you swear on the Holy Bible in a court of law, and now then they removed the 10 commandments from that courthouse? stupid.

I just want it to remain a sacred union between a man and a woman as it was meant. Like I said, I don't want to deprive others, just of the name of their union that is all. What is wrong with that? This is not descrimination. There is tons of things like this in everyday life thats okay. There is the ACLU and "Give African Children College Money" groups nationwide and thats not descrimination towards whites. There are certain clubs (not nightclubs) where its a "mens club" and only men can join and that is accepted and understood by everyone. Why can't there be this one tiny name difference just to signify the meaning which the majority want to keep? There is so much bull going on today about what is politically correct. There is nothing wrong with what I propose. I'm sure there are an abundance of dedicated gay and lesbian couples who want to stay together forever and would make good parents (thats another topic) and yes thats GREAT I say. But why must the Christian-overtone marriage be trampled on?

Once again the rights of the minority outweight the needs of the majority. Sad state of affairs but hey thats 2004...


The difference is in your above examples they're private institutions and private interests. If you're a private company and dont' want to sell to gay people fine. It's wrong when the government tells a company they can't sell to a gay person. It's fine if people want to be against gay marriages and when a church does but when the government tramples people's rights in order to tell them what they can and cannot do it's wrong. I don't care that you believe marriage should between a man and a woman...that's fine. I'm against amending the constitution, something meant to uphold people's rights in order to remove someone's rights because some people feel gay marriage isn't "right".

When you start telling people they can't do it...that's what pisses me off. You're going to deny someone their rights because of some "christian ideal" of marriage you have. I'm not saying it should even be recognized, but it definitely should not be outlawed.
 

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Originally posted by: aRCeNiTe
who gives a sh!t

i don't really much give a sh1t about this thread, but Junior threatening to amend the constitution to PREVENT gays from marrying is a very very slippery slope and one that ANY reasonable individual will oppose with all their minds.
 

CountZero

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The basic problem is that the government took marriage as a religous idea and turned it into a government institution, complete with laws governing it.

While I sort-of feel for those that don't want marriage to be between a man and a man the fact is that since marriage is now a government issue and not a religous issue it is no longer optional to use the religous view to regulate it.

Religions of course have the option of making their own new hetero only marriage should they so desire thats their choice but religion no longer owns the term marriage the government long ago took it for their own.

I voted for btw, in case it wasn't obvious ;)
 

LAUST

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Originally posted by: cheapbidder01
Here are some arguments I've heard so far against Gay marriage:

1. It allows for two 50 year old pediphile men to adopt a 12 year old boy.

2. If we allow gay marriage, then the population would decrease since it takes a man and a woman to reproduce.

3. Hey, we have equal rights, I can't marry a man and he can't marry a man. That's equal rights under the law.

4. Marriage is a Christian right, not a gay right.

5. Nothing will happen now, but two generations later, something bad could happen.

6. Slippery slope effect.

7. (From CA's Governor, Arnold, himself) "..There are riots in the streets, ... People will get killed."
1. That would be bad, but there are also men that are married to women who also do this and also men of sworn faith (priest)

2. Thats actually a good thing, humans are going to reproduce theirselves out of existance

3. Thats not how it works, I can drink from the Whites only waterfountain and Blacks can drink from theirs huh?

4. Marrage is a piece of paper after a ceremony, a tax break and a name change. If you want to make it a religious thing it's up to your God to decide their fate right? isn't that how the book of BS goes IIRC?

5. 2 Generations ago Christians were not in the "Dime a Dozon" on divorces

6. How old are you? have you lived long enough to see the effects of anything in life yet?

7. So who will riot? The gay man afraid to break a nail, or the ever so "humble" but often hypocritical Christian?
 
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Crypticburn

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Originally posted by: DWW

But see, marriage was meant for a man and a woman IN the religious context.

Marriage by your church is a religious context. In this case, this is a joining of two people in the eyes of the government.

Originally posted by: DWW

I do agree that gays/lesbians/others should have the right to dedicate themselves to each other somehow and get a tax deduction and all the benefits of hetero married folks. I just don't like the term to be twisted.

Separate but equal!!!!@!@! Please refer to your history books, and hopefully realize this idea is insanely retarded.

Originally posted by: DWW

But the US is changing anyhow... it was founded on Christianity forefathers and everything has been bent and twisted to separate every single little detail of religion and state. I'm not saying they should be absolutely together but some overlapping SURE. Thats what USA was founded on so why not?

I guess you've never actually read anything written by the fore fathers. Most were deists (believing in a supreme being, but something completely different than your god), to be specific, Thomas Jefferson was a deist, and the "creator" that he was refering to is not the christian god, but rather the deist god.

Originally posted by: DWW

Why does the US currency say "In God We Trust",

A push by a socialist, coupled with an application of the 50's mentality of "KILL THE GODLESS COMMIES"

Originally posted by: DWW

why must you swear on the Holy Bible in a court of law,

I do not have to swear on the "Holy Bible", no one has to. It helps with your credibility though, since most people ignorantly believe that doing so will make you tell the truth....

Originally posted by: DWW

and now then they removed the 10 commandments from that courthouse? stupid.

The 10 commandments belong in your church, not a government building dedicated to justice for all, including those who do live by the 10 commandments.

Originally posted by: DWW

I just want it to remain a sacred union between a man and a woman as it was meant. Like I said, I don't want to deprive others, just of the name of their union that is all. What is wrong with that? This is not descrimination.

Separate but equal is not discrimination? I guess learning from mistakes in the past is too much to ask of you :( You can keep your sacred union with your significant other, but you also must realize that heterosexuals haven't really kept this "union" sacred. Most second marriages are for finacial reasons, many other marriages are about power, money, allegiances, or publicity. All of these marriages are recognized, what about homosexuals that actually love eachother, much more than people marrying for money/power/etc. These homosexuals would perserve the sancitity much better than so many heterosexuals.

The institution of marriage as controlled by the state is about legal contracts and financial links. Anything beyond that is created by those in the marriage, be it hetero or homosexuals.

Originally posted by: DWW

There is tons of things like this in everyday life thats okay. There is the ACLU and "Give African Children College Money" groups nationwide and thats not descrimination towards whites. There are certain clubs (not nightclubs) where its a "mens club" and only men can join and that is accepted and understood by everyone. Why can't there be this one tiny name difference just to signify the meaning which the majority want to keep?

Private organizations ("mens clubs") are allowed to discriminate, as they are PRIVATE ORGANIZATIONS. Thank you for pointing out something that doesn't help your cause. As for the ACLU, I have no idea what you're talking about. They are dedicated to defending the rights of the individual.

Originally posted by: DWW

There is so much bull going on today about what is politically correct. There is nothing wrong with what I propose. I'm sure there are an abundance of dedicated gay and lesbian couples who want to stay together forever and would make good parents (thats another topic) and yes thats GREAT I say. But why must the Christian-overtone marriage be trampled on?

This is not political correctness. You're ignorant and do not understand history, nor the fact that this is a state supported institution, and discrimination can not be tolerated.

Originally posted by: DWW

Once again the rights of the minority outweight the needs of the majority. Sad state of affairs but hey thats 2004...

You're right! The rights of the minorities must be protected. Especially from ignorant beliefs held by the majority. Otherwise, so many "progressive" ideas would have been shot down by "the needs of the majority", whatever that means. A very very short list:

Slavery
Women Voting
Blacks Voting
School Integration
Shared facilities (ie, not separate)

These things were not popular with the majority, does that mean they should have been shot down?

Crypticburn
 

waylman

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Im 100% for it. Im disgusted an intelligent group like ATOT has so many against votes. Pure ignorance.