Dude, whatever scholarship you
think you qualified for, it wasn't a
National Merit Scholarship. Merely scoring in the top 1% of the PSAT doesn't get you one.
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About 50.000 students each year qualify
to compete to become a Semi-Finalist by dint of their PSAT scores, as you apparently did. This does not qualify any of them for a scholarship. It just qualifies them
to compete for one.
Of these, only about 16,000 make it to the semi-finals.
In the end, only about 8,000 students nationwide
qualify for Merit Scholarship awards. You weren't one of them. They're only a couple of thousand bucks,not the full scholarship you claimed you qualified for even though you never even got as far as the finals, anyway. There are some additional corporate scholarships and such, from big corporations. I sincerely doubt your Dad's body shop was a sponsor. In any even, not even most of these scarce college, corporate and special regional scholarships are full boat anyway.
I know all this because I earned one. ...