Originally posted by: kreactor
so a few months ago, i broke up w/ my fiance of 5 years by email and said i'll
UPS her stuff back
she email back it's just trash, junk it
hmmn what's next?
trash it
return her duffelbag of clothes thru a mutual friend
ebay her complete outfits
edit: TIP OF THE ICEBERG
plan was to buy residence together aug 04 first then get marry oct 04 (registration)
official ceremony was tbd
aug 2k4 ~9 hours before we head to lawyers office to purchase condo, she
ask if i can handle all the finances for a few months because she needed
to quit her job again (she quit verizon about a year ago) and get cisco
certified (IT field is not exactly in great demand)
broke up for about a week
sept 2k4 ~she went to live her gf (divorced w/ kids) in kentucky for intense csco
study, came back not ready for exam and no timeline on when her
unemployment/ directioniless twilight zone will end.....
sept30 - she knew something was bothering me and told me to spill it
she got very upset after i suggest we postpone registration til march '05
cried and said 'maybe it's never goin to happen'
dropped me off at work and that's the last time we spoke
until i email her oct 25, 04
oct 2k4 breakup after her b'day and my b'day passed in silence...angry silence
- started to read dontmarry.com
edit: when my sis's bf broke up w/ my sis thru email
my ex's sister thought that was lol hilarious
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in our 5 yrs, we've had plenty of fights and breakup, so much so we've
agreed that we'll probably have a great marriage as all major fighting
is over, mission accomplished.....kinda like what bush said bout iraq