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My wife could use some new clothes. What size was your fiance? I'll pay shipping.

EDIT - if you offer me the clothes, be prepared for Nik to tell you to post this in FS/T
 
Originally posted by: kreactor
so a few months ago, i broke up w/ my fiance of 5 years by email and said i'll
UPS her stuff back

she email back it's just trash, junk it

hmmn what's next?

trash it
return her duffelbag of clothes thru a mutual friend
ebay her complete outfits


edit: TIP OF THE ICEBERG
plan was to buy residence together aug 04 first then get marry oct 04 (registration)
official ceremony was tbd

aug 2k4 ~9 hours before we head to lawyers office to purchase condo, she
ask if i can handle all the finances for a few months because she needed
to quit her job again (she quit verizon about a year ago) and get cisco
certified (IT field is not exactly in great demand)

broke up for about a week

sept 2k4 ~she went to live her gf (divorced w/ kids) in kentucky for intense csco
study, came back not ready and no timeline on when her unemployment/
no-ambition twilight zone will end.....ask her about postponement of marriage
til mar 05

oct 2k4 breakup after her b'day and my b'day passed in silence...angry silence
- started to read dontmarry.com


my sis's bf broke up w/ her the same way before
and my ex's sis thought that was hilarious

it's almost as if he is trying to tell us something! if only we could decipher this strange and unintelligible code.
 
I find it odd that you were engaged to a girl who went out with your sister's ex bf. That must be akward (if you guys have mutual friends).
 
got an email from her today

hi *****,
how are you?
can we meet for lunch sometime?

*****


what to make of this? is she gonna ask to reconcile or gonna stab me?
 
Together 5 years and after a month of her being without a job, you're ready to postpone the wedding?

I'd say she's well rid of you.
 
Originally posted by: kreactor
so a few months ago, i broke up w/ my fiance of 5 years by email and said i'll
UPS her stuff back

she email back it's just trash, junk it

hmmn what's next?

trash it
return her duffelbag of clothes thru a mutual friend
ebay her complete outfits


edit: TIP OF THE ICEBERG
plan was to buy residence together aug 04 first then get marry oct 04 (registration)
official ceremony was tbd

aug 2k4 ~9 hours before we head to lawyers office to purchase condo, she
ask if i can handle all the finances for a few months because she needed
to quit her job again (she quit verizon about a year ago) and get cisco
certified (IT field is not exactly in great demand)

broke up for about a week

sept 2k4 ~she went to live her gf (divorced w/ kids) in kentucky for intense csco
study, came back not ready for exam and no timeline on when her
unemployment/ directioniless twilight zone will end.....

sept30 - she knew something was bothering me and told me to spill it
she got very upset after i suggest we postpone registration til march '05
cried and said 'maybe it's never goin to happen'
dropped me off at work and that's the last time we spoke
until i email her oct 25, 04

oct 2k4 breakup after her b'day and my b'day passed in silence...angry silence
- started to read dontmarry.com



edit: when my sis's bf broke up w/ my sis thru email
my ex's sister thought that was lol hilarious
--------------------------------------


in our 5 yrs, we've had plenty of fights and breakup, so much so we've
agreed that we'll probably have a great marriage as all major fighting
is over, mission accomplished.....kinda like what bush said bout iraq

Leave her alone and move on with your life.

 
correction:

explain the thought process a woman has to quitting her job T minus 9 hours to buying property.....her second time quitting her job @ verizon w/i 2 years (1st from union
to management, now from management to unemployed) in a bad market
with no prospects in sight......what would u think if yr fiance pulls this sorta
stunt?

antimarriage site sees this trend as women's machination to resume their
'traditional' role to stay home n raise the kids....not that there's anything
wrong with that cept there's a limited time frame between a woman getting her
degrees/certification and marriage/motherhood
one of my friend's wife (who's an attending doctor) said alot of her interns
vocalized about can't wait to get married so they don't actually have to practice
 
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