Originally posted by: wiredspider
Originally posted by: swbsam
I've learned to stop talking about my recent closing - friends get jealous and .. well. it's a lot of work.. especially since i have tenants
why did they get jealous? what did they do? maybe I should stop talking about my home shopping...
Jealous is the wrong word - many of them are recently laid off or otherwise have to minimize/cut corners. We're young (28, my wife 27), so lots of our friends are also still in that transitional phase between college/grad school and adult life, so they think that we're either spoiled or sorta gloating about how good we have it... We did get a loan from my parents to help with closing but have a repayment plan already in place, but it still makes us seem like brats since we don't talk about our finances, just the end result. We don't mean to brag, we're just excited, so some of it rubs some people the wrong way. We *are* fortunate for what we have, and feel blessed and are very grateful.
So we don't talk about it unless we're asked, and the people who ask are true friends who are excited about our move.