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Oral Sex is it Sex?

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Originally posted by: iamme
Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
Originally posted by: Trikat
I say you don't lose your innosence (sp check) so I said no. Even though the term oral sex does have sex in it.

Bull Fvcking Sh!t. Lose your innocence? Dude, if you're a chick and you're blowing some dude or if you're a guy and going down on some chick you aren't innocent.

i agree. sure it's semantics......but as a girl, once you've had a guy's dick in your mouth you've pretty much given up all virginal qualities. i mean, it's rather silly for a girl to go around saying she's never had sex before and she's still a virgin, yet has given head to half a dozen guys.

or if you're a girl, and a guy has gone down on you.......it seems silly to still call yourself a virgin.
honestly, i believe intercourse is the only way i consider a girl's virginity gone. the hymen has to be broken for her to lose her virginity.

 
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: iamme
Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
Originally posted by: Trikat
I say you don't lose your innosence (sp check) so I said no. Even though the term oral sex does have sex in it.

Bull Fvcking Sh!t. Lose your innocence? Dude, if you're a chick and you're blowing some dude or if you're a guy and going down on some chick you aren't innocent.

i agree. sure it's semantics......but as a girl, once you've had a guy's dick in your mouth you've pretty much given up all virginal qualities. i mean, it's rather silly for a girl to go around saying she's never had sex before and she's still a virgin, yet has given head to half a dozen guys.

or if you're a girl, and a guy has gone down on you.......it seems silly to still call yourself a virgin.
honestly, i believe intercourse is the only way i consider a girl's virginity gone. the hymen has to be broken for her to lose her virginity.

i suppose in the end, like someone mentioned above, it's really up to the individual.

but, if i met a girl who claimed to be a virigin, but gave blow jobs to multiple partners and had climaxed orally, herself, it'd be tough for me to look at her as a virgin. (disclaimer: not that it matters whether she's a virgin or not, but in my mind it'd be tough for me to think of her as a virgin. maybe a better way to think of it would be, she might technically be a virgin, but i wouldn't see her as "virginal"? i dunno.....i just wish i had been in high school when the common girl thought she would retain her virginity by giving blowjobs 😛)
 
Technically no, it's not intercourse. But it says a bit about the person involved if they'd consider giving/receiving oral sex as a way of trying to work around the whole virginity loss factor.
 
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: iamme
Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
Originally posted by: Trikat
I say you don't lose your innosence (sp check) so I said no. Even though the term oral sex does have sex in it.

Bull Fvcking Sh!t. Lose your innocence? Dude, if you're a chick and you're blowing some dude or if you're a guy and going down on some chick you aren't innocent.

i agree. sure it's semantics......but as a girl, once you've had a guy's dick in your mouth you've pretty much given up all virginal qualities. i mean, it's rather silly for a girl to go around saying she's never had sex before and she's still a virgin, yet has given head to half a dozen guys.

or if you're a girl, and a guy has gone down on you.......it seems silly to still call yourself a virgin.
honestly, i believe intercourse is the only way i consider a girl's virginity gone. the hymen has to be broken for her to lose her virginity.
What if she let every guy fingerbang her or use some kind of dildo on her?

Its all semantics...
 
Originally posted by: sandorski
Originally posted by: IAteYourMother
Originally posted by: sandorski
Originally posted by: BigToque
To me, virginity is innocence from any kind of sexual activity. That means when you give/receive manual, oral, anal or vaginal sex you've lost your virginity.

The HS cheerleader who's blown the football team might never have had vaginal intercourse, but she's no virgin.

Masturbation?

so you're saying 99% of ATOT is sexually experienced?

Hot chick: Hi!
ATOT member: [zomg!!!!] uh, hi
Hot chick: I need an experienced man, you experienced?
ATOT member[hummina hummina hummina] Uh, yes!
Hot chick: Let's get busy!
clothes fly off, touching ensues, then ATOT member jumps back
ATOT member: OMG! Where's the POLL????

😕

:laugh:

 
Originally posted by: GuideBot
Oral sex. Sex.

Fishing pole. Pole.

There are lots of kinds of poles. Fishing poles are a kind of pole; they're still poles.

There are lots of kinds of sex. Oral sex is a kind of sex; it's still sex.
You get it completely. :thumbsup:

This is a stupid thread. Might was well ask if a cheeseburger is a burger! :laugh:

 
Originally posted by: Crazyfool
Originally posted by: GuideBot
Oral sex. Sex.

Fishing pole. Pole.

There are lots of kinds of poles. Fishing poles are a kind of pole; they're still poles.

There are lots of kinds of sex. Oral sex is a kind of sex; it's still sex.
You get it completely. :thumbsup:

This is a stupid thread. Might was well ask if a cheeseburger is a burger! :laugh:
What about a tadpole?

Is it a kind of pole also?
 
Originally posted by: GuideBot
Oral sex. Sex.

Fishing pole. Pole.

There are lots of kinds of poles. Fishing poles are a kind of pole; they're still poles.

There are lots of kinds of sex. Oral sex is a kind of sex; it's still sex.

then Bill Clinton *DID* have sex... with that woman... Monica Lewinsky.
he lied and while under oath. :shocked:


 
Originally posted by: her209
Originally posted by: Crazyfool
Originally posted by: GuideBot
Oral sex. Sex.

Fishing pole. Pole.

There are lots of kinds of poles. Fishing poles are a kind of pole; they're still poles.

There are lots of kinds of sex. Oral sex is a kind of sex; it's still sex.
You get it completely. :thumbsup:

This is a stupid thread. Might was well ask if a cheeseburger is a burger! :laugh:
What about a tadpole?

Is it a kind of pole also?
Tadpole is one word where as fishing pole is two words with the first word designating the type of pole. 😛

I am officially burnt out on this thread, lol


 
This is a stupid argument of semantics. No, it is not sexual intercourse. Yes, it is sexual activity. No, it does not cause you to lose your virginity, as that refers to if you've had sexual intercourse.

/thread
 
Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
Semantics...:roll:

Edit-If bodily fluids are exchanged I rule that it is sex.

/thread

WTH, I can tell you that having just made out with my gf, "bodily fluids[...] exchanged" is NOT sex.
 
Originally posted by: CalvinHobbs
Originally posted by: sandorski
Originally posted by: IAteYourMother
Originally posted by: sandorski
Originally posted by: BigToque
To me, virginity is innocence from any kind of sexual activity. That means when you give/receive manual, oral, anal or vaginal sex you've lost your virginity.

The HS cheerleader who's blown the football team might never have had vaginal intercourse, but she's no virgin.

Masturbation?

so you're saying 99% of ATOT is sexually experienced?

Hot chick: Hi!
ATOT member: [zomg!!!!] uh, hi
Hot chick: I need an experienced man, you experienced?
ATOT member[hummina hummina hummina] Uh, yes!
Hot chick: Let's get busy!
clothes fly off, touching ensues, then ATOT member jumps back
ATOT member: OMG! Where's the POLL????

😕

:laugh:

Glad someone got it or found it funny. 🙂
 
Its a step above making out, a step below sticking it in. I'd say on a scale of 0 to 1, 1 being sex, 0 being not sex, I'd have to say its 0.
 
It's because society is so fvcked that teens are actively having sex that school nurses and the community are preaching oral sex as an alternative.

 
Originally posted by: Crazyfool
Originally posted by: BigToque
To me, virginity is innocence from any kind of sexual activity. That means when you give/receive manual, oral, anal or vaginal sex you've lost your virginity.

The HS cheerleader who's blown the football team might never have had vaginal intercourse, but she's no virgin.
100% agreement. :thumbsup:

I never really thought of it that way, but I'd have to agree as well.
 
Whether giving or receiving, oral sex is sex because the giver or receiver has to be responsible for any potential diseases of the mouth or crotch, respectively.
 
If some young man was trying to get a daughter of mine to do that, by telling her it was not considered sex....

he would never eat with his own fvking teeth again and would spend the rest of his life as a gimp.
 
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