The problem with that idea, like with all others is cost.
64GB Optane is quite pricey. If you want developers to code for it, then you'd want it widespread. You would want it not just on GTX 1060 class cards, but much lower. Literally every new discrete GPU out there needs to have it on board, so of course AMD's as well. Look at what's happening with RTX and DLSS.
How much would a wider bus (that is similar to HMB HBM perhaps) increase latency?
Optane's media latency is dominant over any DRAM technology's latency so that's not really an issue.
As you can see Phase change memory (PCM) has lower latency than DRAM.
We don't really have anything other than 3D XPoint for mass produced storage class memory. There are some promising alternatives, but right now the others are available in capacities that are quite negligible. Some have densities that are even worse than DRAM! Until its available in usable capacities and at somewhat marketable prices the only available PCM is 3D XPoint.
Western Digital had a slide showing that as memory speed becomes closer to DRAM, volatility also decreases. Tape storage is excruciatingly slow but proven to have long term storage characteristics. We know with NAND it can theoretically only hold it for a decade before the data degrades to an unknown state. With Optane, Intel said on AMA that NAND or HDDs may be better for cold storage.
Micron had a slide where they could split 3D XPoint into two different devices. One for fast SSDs with long cold storage, is affordable, and the latencies may be 10x better than NAND and endurance closer to NAND. The second is with much higher volatility, but performance and endurance much closer to DRAM and price higher as well.
So DRAM being the ultimate fastest memory and endurance may just be the result of its volatility.