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OMG I'm so depressed......

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Sorry you're so bummed out right now 🙁

But hang in there. Don't do anything rash! This too shall pass.

At 15, you're way too young to be so sure about anything. Your life is just starting in high school (and won't really get rolling until college). You've got a lot to look forward to.
 
i know when i said this, many people here would agree with me....
"it's not going to work out"

being 1) you're only 15, 2) she's only 15, 3) you live so far away from her, 4) she lives so far away from you.
that's 4 things that can screw this relationship up... and looks like it already has...
relationships like this tends to be unhealthy... (and looks like it's taking a toll on you already)...

just go watch some 'scrambled porn' on cable and throw your hammer around for now.... tomorrow..find you a local chick...
 
you are both 15?! give me a break


tell yourself this, "i am still a child, i dont know what the hell im talking about, my horomomnes are running rampant and until i turn 18 i am legally incompentent"
 
Originally posted by: Ameesh
you are both 15?! give me a break


tell yourself this, "i am still a child, i dont know what the hell im talking about, my horomomnes are running rampant and until i turn 18 i am legally incompentent"


JEEBUZ! ameesh laying the smackdown! hahahaha 😛 at least i offered to buy him porn 😎
 
Originally posted by: Ameesh
you are both 15?! give me a break


tell yourself this, "i am still a child, i dont know what the hell im talking about, my horomomnes are running rampant and until i turn 18 i am legally incompentent"

:|

did you even read what I wrote?? hate to tell you but this has nothing to do with hormones. for the first time in my life i am actually thinking with my head and my heart rather then my dick! :|
 
Originally posted by: John
If you think you are really depressed, drive out to where the transients hang out and ask them how they cope with depression.


Transients smells bad and they're a public nuisanes.
 
ILikeSprite: I feel for you.. Love hurts when you're 15, it really does. These are powerful emotions, and you don't yet have the life experience it takes to temper them.

It will all work out, it will just take some time. Please don't do anything rash, and remember that there's absolutely nothing wrong with you for feeling the way you do.

(I assume you've verified that she's not actually a guy named Mort from New Jersey who's 45 and balding..)
 
this "girl" you are in love with is a 35 year old bald fat man.


you need one of two things.

1. a REAL woman
OR
2. Counseling.
 
Originally posted by: Astaroth33
ILikeSprite: I feel for you.. Love hurts when you're 15, it really does. These are powerful emotions, and you don't yet have the life experience it takes to temper them.

It will all work out, it will just take some time. Please don't do anything rash, and remember that there's absolutely nothing wrong with you for feeling the way you do.

(I assume you've verified that she's not actually a guy named Mort from New Jersey who's 45 and balding..)

hehe

 
Originally posted by: ILikeSprite
Originally posted by: Ameesh
you are both 15?! give me a break


tell yourself this, "i am still a child, i dont know what the hell im talking about, my horomomnes are running rampant and until i turn 18 i am legally incompentent"

:|

did you even read what I wrote?? hate to tell you but this has nothing to do with hormones. for the first time in my life i am actually thinking with my head and my heart rather then my dick! :|

from a guy who has gone through puberty, and i think i speak for many of us, weve all gone through this, im telling you are insane for the next couple of years when it comes to girls, when you get a little older you'll look back and think to yourself, "man, i'm such a dumbass"


i promise.
 
ILikeSprite,

Kid, you feel what pretty much all of us have felt. Losing the first love is always the one that hurts the most. And you'll remember this for the rest of your life. But you know what...no matter how much you think this hurts and no matter how much you think you'll never find anyone else, you'll get over it and you will find someone else.


If it were earlier, I would suggest the cure-all for things of this nature; a quick trip to Baskin' Robbins 31 flavors!



 
if you 2 really do love each other and it was meant to be and all that mushy stuff, then by the end of your natural life you will be with this girl, if not another. Live your life, and see where it leads you.
 
You're only 15, you shouldn't be that worked up over this. You're probably tired of hearing this but is only infatuation. Have you even met this girl in person? The girl is right to break this off. When you're older you'll look back on this and laugh.
 
oh boy...i don't even know where to begin on this one..

just listen to Ameesh

I?m willing to give up everything for her.... *sigh*
Dude.... c'mon, the only thing you'd "give up" at 15 is your future... and many more poons to tang

 
IlikeSprite, have you ever been completely obsessed with a girl for TEN years? Such that you can't do anything because all you can do is think about her while lying around lovesick? Yup, that was me, starting fourth grade.

I'm 25, with a steady gf for 3 and a half years. I love my gf very much and it took her to get me over the girl I wanted for ten years...

My point is, love isn't what you think it is. It's impossible to gain perspective on it when you're looking at it from within. And that has very little to do with age - but rather, the experience of knowing not to trust these incredibly intense emotions and feelings after having them for the second or third time.

I'm not saying what you're feeling isn't love - but the people on this board tend toward American culture, where you throw around words like "love" and have ten sexual partners by the time you're 22 and be divorced twice by the time you're 33.

If thats you, where you would have a pretty liberal sense of the topic, I'd advise you not to pursue it. On the other hand, if you're like me, and the conviction you feel is that deep where you've never had it before, don't let age get in your way. Stay freinds with her and stay in contact till one of you have the facilitie to meet up. If you care about her that much, its not about the sex - in which case you don't have any urgency in meeting.

The reason I'd go against what most people here are saying which is categorically dismissing your feelings as horniness, is that I've been there before and in a more desparate way. The girl I liked never liked me back, but if she did, I would have given the world for her.

Disclaimer: In retrospect I'm glad she didn't, because I love my current gf very much, and I can pretty much guarantee I will never want to be with anyone else.

 
Yeah Sprite dude, you've got to chill... 🙂 I'm 28 now, and believe me there are MANY women out there. You just need to go and get them. I know you think this particular chick is the end-all and you never want anyone else, but trust me, you will. There's nothing better than the first kiss (and the first of the other bases), and you can't do that with the same chick but once. Give yourself some time, and you'll be big pimpin' in like two years dude 😉

Obey your thirst! (LOL sorry I couldn't resist) 🙂 🙂
 
Originally posted by: Nocturnal
have you been to a therapist? a psychiatrist, or a psychologist? perhaps you need to talk to someone?

LOL - a classic line from "Joy Ride" just came to mind...

"You're gonna need some serious mental therapy, pal! Oh, and get a psychiatrist, not a psychologist: you're gonna need some drugs!"

nik
 
Originally posted by: Jerboy
Originally posted by: John If you think you are really depressed, drive out to where the transients hang out and ask them how they cope with depression.
Transients smells bad and they're a public nuisanes.

I wholeheartedly agree, Jerboy. But they're people too; they have feelings too. Asking them how they cope really isn't a bad idea. Maybe he'll realize how good off in life he is. Or maybe he'll realize how bad off in life he is.

nik
 
hey little buddy... from the look of it... she has obviously realized that she's too young to get in to a long distance relationship like this... that's why she's breaking off... smart on her part.

can you imagine what your life will be like if you're so devoted to her and yet won't see her except for a short time every year? you life will be meaningless out of that short time.

go to a grocery store and ask the cashier to blow you... you'll feel better 🙂
 
Ahh it's so sweet a young male on his way to becoming a homosexual after his heart is broken repeatidly. I heard sniffing glue while choking yourself with pantyhose can make it all go away. 😛

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