omfg i'm going to fvcking kill someone

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IHYLN

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quit posting 7900 times a year and you might notice her cheating on you next time :D
 

Red Dawn

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I can imagine the thought of some other guys hairy nads bouncing off the chin of your SO (at the time) would be rather unnerving.

The best was to deal with it Nik is to get yourself in shape, find another gal and live well! Use the anger you feel now as your motivation!
 

BigToque

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Nik, I don't know if this was in a previous thread, but did you break up in march when you found out she was cheating? Or are you still together (and trying to work it out) and then found out that she had been cheating for a longer time then she had said?

Whatever the situation, it will be better for you in the end. This will give you a chance to find someone who truly loves you and not some person who will take advantage of you. I have never had someone cheat on me, so I can't say I know exactly how you feel (although I can take a guess), but I would recomend not killing your ex-gf. It will just cause you more problems in the end. Just get loaded and let the healing begin :D

Here's a :beer:
 

BigToque

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Originally posted by: Red Dawn
Wow, all this time you thought you were taking an off beaten track when in reality you were traveling down a well worn path.

Originally posted by: Red Dawn
I can imagine the thought of some other guys hairy nads bouncing off the chin of your SO (at the time) would be rather unnerving.
...

You certainly have a way with words... :)
 

CPA

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Originally posted by: PowderBB3D
Originally posted by: CPA
Originally posted by: PowderBB3D
Originally posted by: CPA
It's your EX, move on.

It still bothers you. I don't know about Nik but I'd feel like I was a total idiot if I couldn't see that my gf was cheating on me for 3 years.

Nik: don't worry about it. Girls like her end up getting tossed from one guy to the next; nobody marries the "easy" ones. Soon she'll realize that the inadequacy in her relationships that led her to cheating was not by fault of her partners but by fault of her.

Have a :beer: on me buddy.

That's irrational. How is it constructive to view yourself as an idiot for something essentially out of your control? Let it goooooooooooooooooo.

That's twice you miss the mark CPA. It ISN'T constructive, and the point has nothing to do with the fact that somebody MIGHT feel that way. Emotions are inherently irrational.

Stop quoting my messages, you ruin their meaning every time.

then say something with meaning. geesh. You say you'd feel like a total idiot if you didn't see it. I say why call yourself an idiot for not seeing it. It's irrational. I didn't miss the mark, you just would rather dwell on something that in the long run has no value.
 

CPA

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Originally posted by: Aharami
Originally posted by: dirtboy

Actually, he is right on the mark. There are some things getting worked up over and there are some things that aren't. Sometimes people get cheated on because they've earned it, other times because the person is a cheat. What really matters is they aren't together anymore, so it doesn't really matter. What good is getting upset again going to solve? Nothing.

If I found out my ex cheated on me, I wouldn't care.

are you fvuckin kidding me? If I was to assume, I'd say you've never been in a relationship where you truly loved the other person. But Im not gonna assume. But, ARE YOU FVUKING KIDDING ME?!?

why would you care? It's your ex. damn, are you that clingy?
 

blakeatwork

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[eThug]

YAY!!

I had my pride wounded and my ego shattered... now I'm going to punch someone..

YAY!!

[/eThug]

I can understand where feelings of hurt might come from if you were still together today... I'm not sure how long you and Chelsea have been split up, but at this point, it's over and done with... Chuckle, enjoy the fact that you didn't marry her (I seem to recall the topic floating around) and move on. burn some effigies, make some voodoo dolls, or piss on her favorite flower.. but damn man, move on. You'll only end up more bitter, and that's no fun for any of us here, cuz we have to listen to it..

:p
 

ChurchOfSubgenius

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Originally posted by: PowderBB3D
Originally posted by: CPA
It's your EX, move on.

It still bothers you. I don't know about Nik but I'd feel like I was a total idiot if I couldn't see that my gf was cheating on me for 3 years.

Nik: don't worry about it. Girls like her end up getting tossed from one guy to the next; nobody marries the "easy" ones. Soon she'll realize that the inadequacy in her relationships that led her to cheating was not by fault of her partners but by fault of her.

Have a :beer: on me buddy.

I wanted to say something funny but this guy summed it up, her life is going to suck in the future and you....welll yours may too but at least you know hers will for sure.

BTW, you mind if I date her now? I mean.......you can't want to kill me just for asking.
 

dirtboy

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Originally posted by: Aharami
Originally posted by: dirtboy
If I found out my ex cheated on me, I wouldn't care.

are you fvuckin kidding me? If I was to assume, I'd say you've never been in a relationship where you truly loved the other person. But Im not gonna assume. But, ARE YOU FVUKING KIDDING ME?!?

Yea, I've been in a number of relationships where I really cared about someone. Big deal. I told my last gf if she wanted to be with other guys while we were together that it was fine with me.

Besides, she's still my ex right now and if I did find out that she cheated, it still wouldn't matter. It wouldn't matter if my ex-wife cheated on me and I found out today. The bottom line is, all this happened in the past and it doesn't matter anymore.
 

gUEv

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Oct 11, 2000
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Originally posted by: Red Dawn


The best was to deal with it Nik is to get yourself in shape!

rofl...!!


your not going to kill anyone or do anything, save for post about it on anandtech
 

RaiderJ

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This guy needs help! Go to some frickin therapy or something. Get your @ss tested for STD's. Ya never know what's out there.

And if you're going to do something illegal, don't post it on the damn internet. Retard.
 

TheAudit

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If you need help pouring the gasoline then let me know.
And if you can wait a bit, I'll grab a shovel and the wheelbarrow.
 

imported_Papi

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Originally posted by: CPA
It's your EX, move on.

Good point!

However, I have a question. How does an "ex-girlfriend" cheat on you?

I must be having a blonde moment cuz I'm just not understanding that statment.
 

JulesMaximus

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Can't you get banned by threatening to kill someone on here? I guess if the person in question is not another ATOT member it's okay to threaten to kill someone. :roll:
 

NorthRiver

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I think your a tool, but I do feel for ya. I think your attitude probably had a lot to do with it!