Originally posted by: persephone1
Originally posted by: mjuszczak
Originally posted by: persephone1
Originally posted by: Sudheer Anne
once you go through your first big heartbreak your whole outlook on relationships and life will be far different. you'll realize that the whole notion of "the one" is complete bs, and that there are in fact many people we are attracted to in different ways.
yeah, but i think losing that innocence is the painful part. it's like another part of your childhood slipping away to be replaced by lowered standards and abandoned dreams. heh, not really, but you get my drift.
Agreed. You think you're in happy land and then you're forced to move on.
She was my first and only actually (if you know what I mean), which makes it hard too.
yeah, something that you thought was special and one of a kind...totally get you there. the thought that you're just being driven by your physiology and that really most people could be in "love" with each other cheapens life, regardless of how true it is. but then again, those people probably never put very much work into a relationship, because if they have, then they know what it's like to put everything on the line for something you believe in. and how can you be in love and not put everything on the line. and how can you put everything on the line if you don't believe that it's your one true love.
