It depends on the car. I'd share experiences of tires being ruined in under 10k miles, but I'm sure someone would just call me a stupid liar.
You don't need an alignment every 10k. I've 'aligned' (read: tweaked toe settings to change the numbers, but really changed nothing) cars with 50k miles or more that didn't need it. 'I hit a bump and my car lost its alignment' is a myth; unless you actually damaged something.
And a good set of tires might need warrant one rebalance over their lifetime.
Not trying to be mean about it, just telling you that you're probably wasting your money.
I wouldn't call you a liar if you said you've seen tires ruined in under 10k miles. I've seen it as well, and it's usually due to sub-frame or suspension issues causing uneven wear.
There's no reason to just 'assume' your alignment or tire balancing isn't needed. Sure, most of the time your suspension retains its hold and won't need to be touched, but it's that one time that it doesn't (either through normal use or hitting a bump, curb, vehicle, deer, et. al.) and causes uneven wear or be the cause of an accident due to poor tire contact with the road.
My lifetime balancing costs me $7/tire, so $28, and covers the life of the tires (around 50k miles). That's a huge expense there.
My lifetime alignment cost me $150, and covers alignment for the entire ownership of my vehicle; e.g. for the rest of my life since I'm keeping my car. As I said already (in the part that you quoted no less), my vehicle isn't stock and I make more use of alignment than a typical commuter vehicle does. I've had my vehicle aligned 9 times (4 of them were due to suspension changes). Each time would've cost me $75, so I think I've made use of that initial investment several times over.
So averaging that all out to a per instance use (minus the modified, abnormal use of alignment due to my suspension changes), we're at $35. (The same cost that a typical commuter and an unmodified vehicle would be paying for all intents and purposes.)
Each time my tires were balanced the weights were adjusted, proving that it wasn't a waste. My last set of 40k mile tires ended up lasting 50k. I extended the life of my tires beyond their rating by 25%, so I saved myself another $150 by spending $35 per instance of balancing/alignment (which will be progressively lower as my vehicle ages).
In short, no, I'm not wasting my money in any way, shape, or form. Thanks for the recommendation though.