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Ohio University student claims she was raped. Incident caught on camera

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But, but, but who are we to persecute......


Thanks, SHM, for a brain.


I don't mean to rag on this girl for being disgusting, but I just don't agree that this is rape and I think its insulting to women who have been victimized by rape.


This type of nasty shit is not unique to colleges nor is it unique to students events or spring breaks.

The notion that she was "blackout drunk" is bullshit. Blackout drunk would be that photo of her knocked out on the street the morning after.


If have been to a few college parties where I've seen behavior close to this taking place. At one party, a girl allowed a guy to pick her up as she straddled him and he started dry humping her against the wall while she was reaching down into his pants to grab his junk. Both of them were drunk and being sloppy. But sexual assault it was not.


I just don't buy the idea that drunk absolutely == "I can't make any decisions at all!". Not when I've seen this up close.
 
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I need to leave this thread. This kind of thing makes me very angry.

If a man gets drunk, sleeps with a woman he normally wouldn't have sex with, and then regrets it in the morning, he can't claim rape. He can't, because a jury will tell him he is an adult and is responsible for his choices.

Women are treated the same as children - they aren't held responsible for their actions.

Of course, you won't see the Women's Lib movement (you know, the one supposedly fighting for women to be equal to men) standing up against this kind of "kid gloves" handling of women.

I'm single and, at this point, I get very nervous about dating. It is ridiculous how much the law gives women permission to ruin men's lives at their whim.
 
Yeah, two wrongs make a right... right? :thumbsup:

He was able to speak clearly. She was struggling to even sit up straight. But the part that he really loses out on: He was the aggressor.

Call me crazy, but eating some chick out is not what I'd consider a "turn on" or aggressive "pleasure seeking" for a guy. It's something that a guy does because "Hey, you scratch my back, I'll scratch your back". I consider it a "chore" 😉

I don't want to get into the mentality of a rapist, but I think they were both drunk as a skunk and decided to do some stupid stuff in public.

I don't see her struggling. I don't know what Rake is seeing, but I watched the video 3 times and I see her propping herself up with her hands, grinding into his mouth, and moving her hair out of her face as shes watching him.

Several times in the video, she spreads her legs open. She also puts her hands on his head twice and pushes his face into her genitals.



Regretting that people recorded you being disgusting doesn't make it rape. Again, this is a slap in the face to women who have been forced into sexual acts and had no control over the situation they were in.

She appears to be cognizant of what is going on here.

Gotta say I agree here.
 
Somebody will pay... and that is who gave her alcohol, she is underage.
No woman would consent to sex in public, in front of the bank.
 
I challenge this presumption. :colbert:

Hell I'd say when it comes to that kind of stuff women are crazier than the dudes...

I agree. I had a girlfriend that pushed me out of my comfort zone to do more things in a public setting.
 
I challenge this presumption. :colbert:

Hell I'd say when it comes to that kind of stuff women are crazier than the dudes...

I agree. I had a girlfriend that pushed me out of my comfort zone to do more things in a public setting.

There's a difference between wanting to "screw" in a public area where few people would even see or notice that you were gettin' it on...

And screwing in front of a dozen people within arms length
 
No woman would consent to sex in public, in front of the bank.

So Spring Break videos are fake :'(

Tons of drunk girls fucking and sucking there....on video...in public.


Also, drunk girls fucking and sucking at frat parties, tailgates, welcome week, Spring Break etc.

I guess that just College life? Idk. But, I've seen these things happening.


For many people, being drunk is an excuse to let loose and do stupid shit. Denying this is dishonest.
 
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I challenge this presumption. :colbert:

Hell I'd say when it comes to that kind of stuff women are crazier than the dudes...

Ever had sex in a hot tub/jacuzzi/whirlpool, at a major amusement park's resort hotel, on a summer weekend night, while the hot tub is full (like, 10+ other people)... all while sober?
Yeah, a chick led me into that one. Actually kind of pool hopped and finally landed in the lake when it just seemed to keep getting more awkward and that we weren't fooling anyone/hiding it well at all. :$

The sober part was trying to hide it. The sex drive was like fuck that, let's rock! :biggrin:
 
There's a difference between wanting to "screw" in a public area where few people would even see or notice that you were gettin' it on...

And screwing in front of a dozen people within arms length

How do you think porn is made?
 
lol. I remember walking around college and seeing many couples fucking in public.

you dont' think a women wouldn't consent to sex in public? hahahah

I know it's so commonly stated/accepted that Males have the greatest urge for sex and everything - but even if true, there is a downside to that. Women yield the power when it comes to sex, and they know it.
And I'm pretty damn sure they sometimes have a STRONGER sex drive than men. We might truly have the more consistent, persistent, ever-lasting sex drive, but women can seem to be harboring a demon when it comes to sex. It can just come out of the blue, and it's like... holy shit batshit crazy, alright you win, let's do this everywhere! It's usually not so much a depressing "oh fine, I can't beat this" but more of a "if you want to do it here, and there, and make that noise... whatever, I'll just keep it at and pray the police stay away" lol
 
How do you think porn is made?

You're conflating two topics.

A porn star knows what they are doing and are comfortable screwing within the vicinity of other people/crew.

My contention is that for NORMAL non-porn star women that are into thrill seeking behavior, having sex in a public place might be a turn on. The thrill of "possibly" getting caught while not being in direct view of onlookers.

And I am also stating that MOST NORMAL non-porn star/non-swinger women would NOT be comfortable having sex in front of a group of onlookers within arms reach -- especially those taking pictures and video.
 
You're conflating two topics.

A porn star knows what they are doing and are comfortable screwing within the vicinity of other people/crew.

My contention is that for NORMAL non-porn star women that are into thrill seeking behavior, having sex in a public place might be a turn on. The thrill of "possibly" getting caught while not being in direct view of onlookers.

And I am also stating that MOST NORMAL non-porn star/non-swinger women would NOT be comfortable having sex in front of a group of onlookers within arms reach -- especially those taking pictures and video.

The man made the decision to perform the act in from of cameras, too. Why is it not rape for him?
 
If the story went... Guy gets girl drunk, mixes her stronger drinks than she realizes, keeps pushing drinks, or potentially other drugs mixed in, on her, then when her inhibitions are low and shes not aware of where she is or what is going on, pleasures her, and her body reacts appropriately, and then later off camera she passes out and he has sex with her in the alley, then leaves her on the sidewalk.... it becomes plausible that it qualifies as rape.


Im not saying that is what happened here, but I am waiting for the first major case a guy brings against a fat chick that buys him a bottle of good hooch while studying, then he wakes up the next morning and files charges 😛
 
In NJ a few years back a dude at a frat party was invited back to a girl's dorm room and they ended up sleeping together. She woke up the next day, freaked out, called the police and had him arrested for rape. In court she argued she have agreed to sleep with him but she was too drunk to give consent. He did three years. It's scary out there.

He didn't have a good lawyer if those are the facts of the case. Had a dorm mate in college get accused of basically the same thing but the case was thrown out.
 
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