Holy sh!t i think i may have figured it out! *hopes madly*
I think it may have just been the new bios after all.
I had put my roomie's RAM in since mine tested with a few errors...& i put it in the first slot, forgetting that way back when i first got this mobo, i had BSODs & trouble till i switched which slots my RAM was in!
I gave up tonight, & was putting back my roomie's RAM in their PC since they needed it...& i remembered that.
I put my own RAM back in slots 2 & 3...& voila 😛 I got into UT2k4 & it didn't crash...i got the Audidy software installed...3DMark installed...damnit i hope that's it!
Gotta do some more testing...but i think that was it! 🙂