Not true. I think a lot of people took notice of what the Tea Partiers were doing in Congress. You can think about it as a win or loss, but the rest of us just want leadership that doesn't hold the country hostage.
Though I don't know how well it worked. Based on FelixDeKat's post in this thread, "Negotiations" can be started by demanding anything you want, using whatever terms and collateral that you want.
Example:
Terrorist: Give me all your monies, or I will kill your daughter.
Hostage: I won't negotiate with terrorists.
In FelixDeKat's world, the hostage is responsible for the death of the daughter. Why? Because he said he wouldn't negotiate. In FelixDeKat's world, it clearly doesn't matter what terms the terrorist brings to the table. It is fair game.
If you can't be honest with yourself, that using the shutdown as the government shouldn't be the only bargaining chip in "negotiating", how can we expect you to be honest in legitimate negotiations? It is incredibly disingenuous.
We may not have "Won" anything. If we have less people in our government that think this type of negotiation is appropriate, though, I do think we have benefitted. Personally, I'd rather the precedent be set that negotiations wouldn't be heard under such terms. And for that reason, Obama is in the right.