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Would you go to an ATOT swinger party?

  • Yes, if there's fruit loops

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  • Yes, if banned members are attending

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Anubis

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Dr. Detroit

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Walking through your local grocery store and seeing the clientele is pretty much seeing the same people you will see at any Swinger party or any nudist resort.

Some fat, some skinny, some young, some old, some with a cane, some bald, some hairy................
 

AdamK47

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Genx87

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Apr 8, 2002
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My standards have fallen quite a bit as I age. But god damn I would rather spank it to some redtube than get involved with those things.
 

shortylickens

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Jul 15, 2003
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Is there any emotion involved in these people's sex? I don't get it.

Ok, I guess you dont understand what a Swingers Party is.

The whole point is to fuck someone you arent married to. They dont love each other. They are having sex.
Thats it.
Theres nothing else.
 

Dr. Zaus

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Oct 16, 2008
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Ok, I guess you dont understand what a Swingers Party is.

The whole point is to fuck someone you arent married to. They dont love each other. They are having sex.
Thats it.
Theres nothing else.
Oh.. I mean I wouldn't want to stop them but... that's just so foreign - it feels dehumanizing, like using a person as a sex toy instead of exploring yourselves together in love for a time...

Do these people not know about what I'm saying - or are they just looking for something new?

I mean - I don't know - but is it possible to maintain passionate love based sex while being a person who engages in what I'm calling here "living sex toy" sex?

Again - I don't intend to be a judgemental ass, so if my ignorance is offensive to folks who chose this lifestyle I totally don't intend it.
 

J.Wilkins

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Oh.. I mean I wouldn't want to stop them but... that's just so foreign - it feels dehumanizing, like using a person as a sex toy instead of exploring yourselves together in love for a time...

Really? Do you have the same problem with one night stands or prostitution?

Do these people not know about what I'm saying - or are they just looking for something new?

I mean - I don't know - but is it possible to maintain passionate love based sex while being a person who engages in what I'm calling here "living sex toy" sex?

Again - I don't intend to be a judgemental ass, so if my ignorance is offensive to folks who chose this lifestyle I totally don't intend it.

Remember what you said about there being true Christians? Here you are judging people hurting no one, what does that make you but a hypocritical arse?

How is this about "living toy sex" when both parties are unpaid and engaging in mutual pleasure? If anything this is far beyond prostitution and what Trump has done with Melania.

This is unrestricted sex, all about pleasure for all parties. If there is a God and he is good then this is what he wanted for humans, pleasure.
 
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Dr. Zaus

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Really? Do you have the same problem with one night stands or prostitution?



Remember what you said about there being true Christians? Here you are judging people hurting no one, what does that make you but a hypocritical arse?

How is this about "living toy sex" when both parties are unpaid and engaging in mutual pleasure? If anything this is far beyond prostitution and what Trump has done with Melania.

This is unrestricted sex, all about pleasure for all parties. If there is a God and he is good then this is what he wanted for humans, pleasure.
Judgement, as in "if it were me I think this is how I would feel", and condemnation, as in "just because I think I would feel a way means everyone must therefore these people are wrong", are very different.

I'm not being rhetorical - or appealing to any ideological stance on sexuality as 'right' - I'm honestly trying to understand a world view I'm ignorant of by explaining my honest and automatic reactions.

Like I said - I'm literally ignorant- please don't take that as being hateful.
 

nakedfrog

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Oh.. I mean I wouldn't want to stop them but... that's just so foreign - it feels dehumanizing, like using a person as a sex toy instead of exploring yourselves together in love for a time...

Do these people not know about what I'm saying - or are they just looking for something new?

I mean - I don't know - but is it possible to maintain passionate love based sex while being a person who engages in what I'm calling here "living sex toy" sex?

Again - I don't intend to be a judgemental ass, so if my ignorance is offensive to folks who chose this lifestyle I totally don't intend it.
Perhaps it's just too foreign for you to comprehend? Your conceptualization of it as "living sex toys" seems to point towards that. Ultimately, I think the answer to your question is "yes", regarding passionate love-based sex. In the polyamory community they use the term compersion, often described as "the opposite of jealousy".
 
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J.Wilkins

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Judgement, as in "if it were me I think this is how I would feel", and condemnation, as in "just because I think I would feel a way means everyone must therefore these people are wrong", are very different.

I'm not being rhetorical - or appealing to any ideological stance on sexuality as 'right' - I'm honestly trying to understand a world view I'm ignorant of by explaining my honest and automatic reactions.

Like I said - I'm literally ignorant- please don't take that as being hateful.

You know, I've only ever put one person on ignore and that was becasue he was simply too dishonest to have a discussion with, you are on route to become the second one for the same reason.

You really should get together with the likes of Donald Trump, he is just like you, he makes a statement that he doesn't stand by and then weasels out when called on it, you've done that EVERY time.

And no, trying to understand something means asking questions, not saying things like "like using a person as a sex toy instead of exploring yourselves together in love for a time." which is demeaning them.

Meanwhile, black people are lower class and unintelligent and by that I mean that I'm trying to understand them....
 

J.Wilkins

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HS! Hahaha
DixyCrat == Donald Trump

beep. Paging Agent00f

That would be the only guy I have on ignore, mainly because he thinks Jews are just like Nazis but also because every single thing no matter what is about "brown people" when he tries to make an argument.
 

Dr. Zaus

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Meanwhile, black people are lower class and unintelligent and by that I mean that I'm trying to understand them....
This is a legitimate question IF asked, for example, by someone raised racist but asked for the right reasons with an open mind.

I'm sorry it offends you instead of exites you to share what you know to help correct someone who is literally asking to no-longer be ignorant, I recognize and respect why it would be so upsetting.

Perhaps it's just too foreign for you to comprehend? Your conceptualization of it as "living sex toys" seems to point towards that. Ultimately, I think the answer to your question is "yes", regarding passionate love-based sex. In the polyamory community they use the term compersion, often described as "the opposite of jealousy".
i think you are right- it so foreign I can't even ask an honest question without being an asshole about it.

That said I am now reminded of something Zizek once said


In that way perhaps these less than objectively-sexy people have better access to true love than me (I sure wouldn't hit it!). I don't know?