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newnameman

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mwmorph

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Originally posted by: blazert40
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
Originally posted by: blazert40
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
what reason did she give to cancel? And how long before the date did she cancel?

Was supposed to pick her up at 6 EST, she canceled at 4:45 EST.

Asked for a rain check and or me to not be mad.

cancelled a little over an hour before a date....

you are not gonna call her anymore, right?

As with most things, there is more to the story than just this one event that leads me to this choice.

Though I'm just venting also, I may give it another shot.
what was the reason? if it wasnt a good one, you gotta move on.
 

KK

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congrats, you just saved a sh1tload of money. Reward yourself and get yourself a hooker. :thumbsup:
 

lokiju

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I just got off the phone with her.

She swears that she wants to continue seeing me but is just in a very bad mood and not up for doing anything tonight.

I told her "I'll leave it up to you continue with it" or something like that.

 

KarenMarie

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Originally posted by: blazert40
I just got off the phone with her.

She swears that she wants to continue seeing me but is just in a very bad mood and not up for doing anything tonight.

I told her "I'll leave it up to you continue with it" or something like that.

I dont know whether this was a proper date or just a casual get together, so I guess my opinion would be different if it was the latter....

I am not a nice person. In fact, I am known to be an UNnice person.

And I think that cancelling a proper date only an hour before with no better reason than... I just dont feel like it tonight, is a really selfish thing to do... and I would not call or make other plans with the person after that. I would just write the whole thing off, unless that person really made an effort to change my mind.

That is.. if this was a proper date... if it was just a causal get togther, i would blow it off and wait for the person to call and decide what to do from there.

but again, i am not a nice person.

:)
 

ironcrotch

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For a few hundred you can call Sonz up and he might 'help' you out.

.. for better explanation look at my sig.
 

cavemanmoron

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Originally posted by: blazert40
Going on date tonight, just wondering if a dozen roses is a bit excessive for a first one on one dinner date? We've had a lunch date and have kissed a few times already.

Right down the road is a guy that sells roses on the side of the road, 12 for $10 and doesn't sell smaller amounts.

Do you think 12 roses is a bit much, is that something more reserved for couples that celebrate holidays and anniversary together?


Help me ATOT, you're my only hope!


I'm gonna buy the dozen either way, just not sure about if I want to give her like 6 or the whole thing.


:confused;


EDIT:

Oh, there it is!

She just canceled!!

Well that about does it!

I'm throwing in the towel!

Time to call up the friends and go get drunk.


I'm tired of this dating shyte!

People can be so fvcking fake!!
 

Kadarin

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Originally posted by: KarenMarie
Originally posted by: blazert40
I just got off the phone with her.

She swears that she wants to continue seeing me but is just in a very bad mood and not up for doing anything tonight.

I told her "I'll leave it up to you continue with it" or something like that.

I dont know whether this was a proper date or just a casual get together, so I guess my opinion would be different if it was the latter....

I am not a nice person. In fact, I am known to be an UNnice person.

And I think that cancelling a proper date only an hour before with no better reason than... I just dont feel like it tonight, is a really selfish thing to do... and I would not call or make other plans with the person after that. I would just write the whole thing off, unless that person really made an effort to change my mind.

That is.. if this was a proper date... if it was just a causal get togther, i would blow it off and wait for the person to call and decide what to do from there.

but again, i am not a nice person.

:)

I'm going to have to agree with this... :thumbsup:
 

olds

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Mar 3, 2000
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Originally posted by: blazert40
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People can be so fvcking fake!!
This from a person who can't be himself and gets dating advice from ATOT.

 

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Lifer
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I highly doubt she just doesn't feel like going out, she's probably out with other friends.