Why does it "have to stop?" What's wrong with treating people the way they want to be treated? What's wrong with being sensitive to the fact that a person's gender identity may not be the same as what their appearance suggests? Why would you NOT want to be aware of the differences in people?
The fact is that these differences have ALWAYS existed; but now, in 21st century America, it's become safer for people to be open about who they are, without fearing that society will punish them for falling outside of of an arbitrary set of rules about appearance, gender identity, and sexual preference. If it makes people happier, what's it to you to simply accept them? And if you don't feel very comfortable around them, simply move on.
Look man, I'm gonna clarify my position on this a little bit. I'm not saying I dont accept people, I could give a shit less what people want to do or be. Women want to be men , men want to be women, guys want to marry their goats then fucking go for it if thats what makes you happy.
Doesn't mean I have to like it, or agree with it, or associate with it, or even abide it, because thats my freedom of choice. If you want to go and do something that's your freedom of choice. Might not be my choice but I'm not here to tell you how to live.
By the same right you can't tell me how to live or what to say think or feel either. That's mine and mine alone brother. Maybe I'm offended by you, maybe you're offended by me and that's A-OK too. We don't have to agree but that's not going to stop me from being me and I damn sure don't expect you or anyone else to stop being anything but who they are.
But when I read about shit like this and now we've got to go and rewrite the entire english language because this group or that group gets offended by it; that's where I call bullshit.
Look man it's plan and simple. Some motherfucker is always going to be offended by some other motherfucker saying some kind of shit or another. Someone probably is getting offended reading this that I used the word motherfucker even... but we're not going to write it out of the english language just because someone doesn't like to be called that word.
For example; you can call someone a n!gg3r (haha, love how the forum bleeped that out - thats so perfectly fitting in the context of this post) and I'm probably going to get offended and I may even come over and kick your ass for saying it... but then I may or may not get arrested for my own actions.
The point is you've got to pick your battles in life and this one is a loser with a capitol 'L'!
And speaking of life; Life hurts so get a fucking helmet! And if that offends you then sack up and get over it. That's the real world my brother.
Now please excuse me while I finish the episode of Bill Maher I've had on pause the whole while I was jamming this out on my phone.