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Neighbor keeps hitting and flirting with my BF

Zysoclaplem

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Neighbor across the street keeps hitting on my BF!
She just divorced her husband, and now she is on the rebound.
She is always coming over and talking and flirting with my BF.
She I take her out?
 
Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Neighbor across the street keeps hitting on my BF!
She just divorced her husband, and now she is on the rebound.
She is always coming over and talking and flirting with my BF.
She I take her out?


I think you two should kiss...:heart:
 
Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Neighbor across the street keeps hitting on my BF!
She just divorced her husband, and now she is on the rebound.
She is always coming over and talking and flirting with my BF.
She I take her out?

aren't you both gay? so what does it matter, let her be a faghag all she wants.
 
Well you have a choice; you can either let it carry on the way it is although it's plain to see you're unhappy about it. You could speak to your BF about it: see how he feels... maybe get him to have a word with her and let her down gently. Alternatively, you could speak to her and make your feelings known.

Bear this in mind, however:
1) As you said, she's on the rebound, so this could just be a phase that will stop over time.
2) Your BF may be offended or think that you're a bit of a 'bunny boiler' if you seem overly concerned about this (I assume) quite minor flirting.
3) She's a cop, but still human and so does have emotions which could be somewhat erratic. Tread carefully if you confront her.

Personally, I'd get your BF to have a quiet word with her at some stage.
A little more detail about your relationship with your BF would be useful: how long you've been going out, how long you've lived together, etc.

Good luck, and post up what you decide to do!

Edit: Didn't know you're a gay couple... you're sorted really aren't you? unless she manages to convert his sexuality which I very much doubt....
 
I suppose it's better than a "Nebor" hitting on your BF. I think he'd have a better chance than a woman would.
 
Originally posted by: loic2003
Well you have a choice; you can either let it carry on the way it is although it's plain to see you're unhappy about it. You could speak to your BF about it: see how he feels... maybe get him to have a word with her and let her down gently. Alternatively, you could speak to her and make your feelings known.

Bear this in mind, however:
1) As you said, she's on the rebound, so this could just be a phase that will stop over time.
2) Your BF may be offended or think that you're a bit of a 'bunny boiler' if you seem overly concerned about this (I assume) quite minor flirting.
3) She's a cop, but still human and so does have emotions which could be somewhat erratic. Tread carefully if you confront her.

Personally, I'd get your BF to have a quiet word with her at some stage.
A little more detail about your relationship with your BF would be useful: how long you've been going out, how long you've lived together, etc.

Good luck, and post up what you decide to do!

He is not going to cheat on me...lol.
I just think it's funny.
Not very funny, but humorous.
He thinks its very odd.

3 years - going out
2 years - living together
 
Originally posted by: pyonir
I suppose it's better than a "Nebor" hitting on your BF. I think he'd have a better chance than a woman would.

That's when I would have whip some ass. No pun intended. lol
 
She prob knows he's gay & is practicing flirting with him cuz she knwos he's relatively safe.

However, the possibility of a threesome should not be automatically excluded.
 
Originally posted by: Pliablemoose
She prob knows he's gay & is practicing flirting with him cuz she knwos he's relatively safe.

However, the possibility of a threesome should not be automatically excluded.

Yes. Yes it should be. If there is gonna be a threesome, there are going to be 3 penises present.
 
wtf
are you a dude? and your b/f is a dude? and she's flirting with your gay b/f?


I see a sitcom in the future
 
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