Originally posted by: aten
haha....seriously though i get rejected at least once per day.
For instance yesterday i was talking to this chick and she was like "im gonna go for a run now" and then I came back with "Why dont you come over instead and let me work you out" .......she didnt really like that one .....i said whatever and hung up.
haha live and learn. Its all just a game and its more and more fun when you realize you dont have to play by anyones rules but your own.[/quote]
see i take 3-4 months to pick the right girl to ask out[/quote]
3-4 months? whats that 4 girls a year? Dude your going about it all wrong. Think about it like this...if only 1 in 10 girls likes you back you may need to wait over 2 years before you find her. If you wait 3-4 weeks before asking out a girl it may take you over 2 months to find her. If you wait 3-4 days it may take you 2 weeks to find her. If you wait 3-4 HOURS YOU MAY FIND HER TODAY! Think about that.
Its all a numbers game my friend. Some girls just wont like you whether its something wrong with them or you. Its a safe bet that 1 in 10 will have some interest to you. But this means that you could ask out 18 girls before finding that 1. But the next two after that are sucesses...get what i mean? Bottom line is if you ask out 30 girls this week you might have 3 girlfriends by next week. But if you wait months in between you could be waiting years before you come across a chick that is interested.
Bottomline: ask out a different girl every couple of days....before you know it you will have a reputaion as a ladies man becasue even as you get rejected you are learning what works and what doesnt and becoming better in your intereactions with girls. it is as easy as that.