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I have been out with plenty of girls that have disliked me to begin with, it's all about proving your worthy..if she is worth it, if she ain't well don't bother!
 
Originally posted by: SurgicalShark
Originally posted by: gigapet
.....i get rejected constantly its not that big of a deal.
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Ah, yes, and I see the reason from your avatar 😛 😀
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haha....seriously though i get rejected at least once per day.

For instance yesterday i was talking to this chick and she was like "im gonna go for a run now" and then I came back with "Why dont you come over instead and let me work you out" .......she didnt really like that one .....i said whatever and hung up.

haha live and learn. Its all just a game and its more and more fun when you realize you dont have to play by anyones rules but your own.
 

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haha....seriously though i get rejected at least once per day.

For instance yesterday i was talking to this chick and she was like "im gonna go for a run now" and then I came back with "Why dont you come over instead and let me work you out" .......she didnt really like that one .....i said whatever and hung up.

haha live and learn. Its all just a game and its more and more fun when you realize you dont have to play by anyones rules but your own.[/quote]

see i take 3-4 months to pick the right girl to ask out
 
oh, your one of those guys, you only live once, get over being shy and go for it, what do you have to lose..seriously being embarrased is just a state of mind.
 
Block her back. Then don't say anything, like you did it first. Someday when she realizes her mistake and/or tries to contact you to toy with you some more, she'll be all like, WTF?!

Just think about that.
 
Originally posted by: aten
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haha....seriously though i get rejected at least once per day.

For instance yesterday i was talking to this chick and she was like "im gonna go for a run now" and then I came back with "Why dont you come over instead and let me work you out" .......she didnt really like that one .....i said whatever and hung up.

haha live and learn. Its all just a game and its more and more fun when you realize you dont have to play by anyones rules but your own.[/quote]

see i take 3-4 months to pick the right girl to ask out[/quote]

3-4 months? whats that 4 girls a year? Dude your going about it all wrong. Think about it like this...if only 1 in 10 girls likes you back you may need to wait over 2 years before you find her. If you wait 3-4 weeks before asking out a girl it may take you over 2 months to find her. If you wait 3-4 days it may take you 2 weeks to find her. If you wait 3-4 HOURS YOU MAY FIND HER TODAY! Think about that.

Its all a numbers game my friend. Some girls just wont like you whether its something wrong with them or you. Its a safe bet that 1 in 10 will have some interest to you. But this means that you could ask out 18 girls before finding that 1. But the next two after that are sucesses...get what i mean? Bottom line is if you ask out 30 girls this week you might have 3 girlfriends by next week. But if you wait months in between you could be waiting years before you come across a chick that is interested.

Bottomline: ask out a different girl every couple of days....before you know it you will have a reputaion as a ladies man becasue even as you get rejected you are learning what works and what doesnt and becoming better in your intereactions with girls. it is as easy as that.

 
Originally posted by: aten
put it this the whole school calls me a nerd/ geek
do you think thats why?
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heh...possibly...dont worry about it...i was a nerd in hs, all the jocks and preps had nice cars/gfs...but now i get to go through the mcdonalds drive through in my little red sports car with my good looking gf in the passenger seat and see some of them flipping burgers and driving a beat up buick from 3 decades ago...and its all worthwhile 😀

the moral of the story: you're only in 8th grade man...dont sweat it...but be more adventerous in talking to/asking out girls...the worst they can do is say no, you know?
 
gigapet and quakefiend420, i should have quoted it

although i wouldn't know what it was like to be a geek..i was a stoner😀
 
Originally posted by: quakefiend420
Originally posted by: aten
put it this the whole school calls me a nerd/ geek
do you think thats why?
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heh...possibly...dont worry about it...i was a nerd in hs, all the jocks and preps had nice cars/gfs...but now i get to go through the mcdonalds drive through in my little red sports car with my good looking gf in the passenger seat and see some of them flipping burgers and driving a beat up buick from 3 decades ago...and its all worthwhile 😀

the moral of the story: you're only in 8th grade man...dont sweat it...but be more adventerous in talking to/asking out girls...the worst they can do is say no, you know?
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in high school ill get 2005 honda civic coupe with after market brackes, audio/vidio, and suspension.
 
Originally posted by: Stumps
gigapet and quakefiend420, i should have quoted it

although i wouldn't know what it was like to be a geek..i was a stoner😀
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lol i was a stoner 😀 i just played with computers a lot...
 
Originally posted by: aten
Originally posted by: quakefiend420
Originally posted by: aten
put it this the whole school calls me a nerd/ geek
do you think thats why?
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heh...possibly...dont worry about it...i was a nerd in hs, all the jocks and preps had nice cars/gfs...but now i get to go through the mcdonalds drive through in my little red sports car with my good looking gf in the passenger seat and see some of them flipping burgers and driving a beat up buick from 3 decades ago...and its all worthwhile 😀

the moral of the story: you're only in 8th grade man...dont sweat it...but be more adventerous in talking to/asking out girls...the worst they can do is say no, you know?
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in high school ill get 2005 honda civic coupe with after market brackes, audio/vidio, and suspension.
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that should help 😀 a lot of hs chicks are running around with the guys car, and not him...sad but true

 
same, but i was into cars and skateboards as well as computers...ahhh DOOM, so many memories.
But i had no issues when it came to asking out girls, it's to easy "hey babe, how about it, you, me and the back seat of my Falcon?" you would be surprised how many times that worked!
 
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