Need girl advice... (Nother Update) Your advice sucks!

[Cuda1447]

Maybe she isn't being mean on purpose though, maybe she doesnt know? Perhaps she actually likes me? At times it seems she does, Ill update this later tonight, we are all goign to a dance after the football game. Im not going to ask her to dance, but she may ask me!

 

[GoingUp]

Originally posted by: Ameesh
stab her.

I was waiting for that.......

With the current trend in legal cases though, technically I could sue you or use you as my defense because you told me too.......


The girl is a dumb freshman. Try to move on. You will be disappointed many times by women and the best way to get over them is to find someone else. Good luck!

 

[spp]

haha.... that;s too funny

 

[GoingUp]

Originally posted by: Cuda1447
Maybe she isn't being mean on purpose though, maybe she doesnt know? Perhaps she actually likes me? At times it seems she does, Ill update this later tonight, we are all goign to a dance after the football game. Im not going to ask her to dance, but she may ask me!

This may be a hard analogy to follow, but stop building your house out of dog sh!t. Youre building her up to be something she clearly isn't and for all you know she could be a schitzo and you'll end up with 2 or 3 dates at homecoming. In the spirit of Ameesh, "Less gabbin, more stabbin"


:::Legal disclaimer:::: I will not be held responsible if you decide to harm this poor little 2 faced bitch in any way. The best thing to do is just to move on. Besides your off to college next year and if you dont toughen up those college girls will eat you alive.

 

[Cuda1447]

SOPHOMORE! And not a total bitch! heh

 

[MrPhelps]

In the spirit of Ameesh, "Less gabbin, more stabbin

Yeah

 

[djheater]

This stabbing thing is somewhat disturbing...

It's all fun and games till an attention starved nerd actually does it... {{visions of "ameesh told me so" carved into a pimply forehead}}

As far as this girl goes... She sounds like someone I would have been attracted to as well. Perspective leads me to believe you'd be better off seeking an emotionally stable girl with a positive outlook.

 

[Cuda1447]

An update on the situation.


Besides the fact that your guys' advice sucks!

I went to the game and dance yesterday, she came and stood by me and a few mutual friends at the game. Most of the time, but I would often walk off a little bit and talk to other people, just to try and play her game back with her. Everything went fine I thought, then we went to the dance and I hadn't seen her for awhile, so I finally found her and asked her to dance but she wouldn't. She was mad at me for being "mean" to her at the game. After alot of bugging and questions I found out that she got mad at me for a valid reason.


I often tell her she should come talk to me more since she hadn't talked to me that often before, and then I did the same thing back to her. I sorta ignored her, wasn't trying to be mean but I see how she can take it as that. So we talked and everythings cool between us again, if anyone cares


I dunno if anyone is even reading this thread anymore.

 

[mztykal]

Am I the only one that thinks your story is bullshiet. I mean come on. She's like totally fvkcing with your head (no, not that one) and yet you walk back, forgive her and take it somemore. You seem like a sick little puppy, getting kicked, then leaving, then getting kicked again.

Seriously though, what's her problem? She's jailbait and she's bitchy, no offense, but even if you can't, you can do better single.

 

[bolido2000]

She's like totally fvkcing with your head (no, not that one)

LOL

Screw her. It's better off for you to be single

 

[cressida]

Originally posted by: bolido2000

She's like totally fvkcing with your head (no, not that one)

LOL

Screw her. It's better off for you to be single

yes. LoL, high school fun love.
Okay here is how it goes, you are senior, so you will go to college, she is a sophomore, so she will still be in hs. You guys may date for a while, then you head off to college, and you guys breakup. When you hit college, you party your ass off and see lots of more girls then you forget her. End of story.

 

[virtuamike]

You're in high school. You're young, have fun, don't get played, it's all about politics and exploration at this stage. Do it for the nooky so when you go to college next year you'll be prepared.

 

It's simple, Cuda. As I said earlier, if you're mean to her, you get her attention. It happens because she begins to notice you more and wants to conquer the stubbornness in you. Simple as that. If you were all nice to her all day, she would not have given any attention to you. But when you're mean, she notices it. If you never approached her to dance with you or you didn't bother to ask why she said no, she would spend her whole night and day wondering why you were mean to her, when you're supposed to be the guy who has feelings for her. And as I said earlier, to be mean to her would get you where you wanted as far as her interest in you, but you'll get the jerk label for good.

She simply likes the thrill. This one will never amount to a healthy and real bf/gf relationship.

 

[bmacd]

Originally posted by: A5

Originally posted by: Cuda1447
The reason I care so much, is because other then to me she is the nicest girl in the world.


She isn't a slut, she has good morales. She is extremely intelligent, athletic, and good looking. She is basically the total package in what b]I[/b] have been looking for in a girl. Thats why I care so much.

You mean other than the fact she treats you like sh!t? Drop her like a bad habit; I guarantee you that there's a girl out there that might not be as good looking, but at least she won't be nice to you only when it suits what she wants.

d00d...this girl is embarassed to be around you. Think of you as Steve Urkel and she as Laura Windslow . You're a dork...and she won't be caught dead with you.

-=bmacd=-

 

[Cuda1447]

Nah, thats not it at all. And incase alot of you are wondering, no Im not some ugly geek. I have no problem finding girls, Im just picky, and for some reason picked her.

Ill let you all know how homecoming goes and how everything turns out later if yah want? If not Ill just stop posting

 

[Pastore]

Originally posted by: Cuda1447
Nah, thats not it at all. And incase alot of you are wondering, no Im not some ugly geek. I have no problem finding girls, Im just picky, and for some reason picked her.

Ill let you all know how homecoming goes and how everything turns out later if yah want? If not Ill just stop posting

Of course we want to hear how bad you crash and burn! haha, just playin man, good luck.

 

[The_Dude8]

the average relantionship in HS lasts 2 weeks.

btw, what is her name and races?

if stabbin won't works, shoot her. j/k

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

Originally posted by: The_Dude8
the average relantionship in HS lasts 2 weeks.

btw, what is her name and races?

if stabbin won't works, shoot her. j/k

Get a grip on English before you try your hand at culture

Does her name or race really matter? And I wouldn't be so sure about that 2 weeks thing. 96% of statistics are made up on the spot.

nik

 

[weezergirl]

Originally posted by: Cuda1447
Nah, thats not it at all. And incase alot of you are wondering, no Im not some ugly geek. I have no problem finding girls, Im just picky, and for some reason picked her.

bahaha. how many times have i heard THAT line?

but really, this girl is messed up. i don't get why she can do the same thing to you and it's no big deal...but the minute you try to play the game back she gets mad at you. BTW, the minute you feel that you need to play games with a girl...that's like a mega huge bad sign. STAY AWAY!

and i don't get why you're so freaking blind to this girl. you say, besides the way she acts towards you she's the nicest girl in the whole freaking world. well guess what, the nicest girl in the whole freaking world is actually gonna be nice to everybody! including you!

my prediction is you guys wont' last, but i would love to be proven wrong. btw, go off to college and find a REAL girl. she's a lowly freshman (or was it sophomore??)..she'll seem like a little kid once you're off to college.

 

[Orsorum]

Originally posted by: weezergirl

my prediction is you guys wont' last, but i would love to be proven wrong. btw, go off to college and find a REAL girl. she's a lowly freshman (or was it sophomore??)..she'll seem like a little kid once you're off to college.

Wait until you're in college, and you end up chatting or dating graduate students (or women old enough to be)... that'll help you realize how immature college girls are.

 

[weezergirl]

Originally posted by: Zakath15

Originally posted by: weezergirl

my prediction is you guys wont' last, but i would love to be proven wrong. btw, go off to college and find a REAL girl. she's a lowly freshman (or was it sophomore??)..she'll seem like a little kid once you're off to college.

Wait until you're in college, and you end up chatting or dating graduate students (or women old enough to be)... that'll help you realize how immature college girls are.

HEY!

<--- college student.

 

[PsychoAndy]

Our girl advice sucks?

Hey! Everybody knows that those who cant do, teach! What did you expect?

-PAB

 

[Orsorum]

Originally posted by: weezergirl

HEY!

<--- college student.

There are exceptions to be found in every group, my fine lady friend. No offense intended.

 

[dfi]

Line up the facts:
1) she doesn't want to talk to you outside of school (if no one can see you two together, then she doesn't want to be around you).
2) she is only nice when she talks to you about the expensive crap she wants to do at the homecoming dance (only nice when she wants your money).
3) she got mad at you only when you ignored her at a football game (where everyone else could see you ignore her).

Conclusion: Cuda = PLAYED FOR A FOOL!!!

Cuda, stop being an idiot. She is not a goddess, she is not a nice girl, and she is definitely NOT perfect for you. She is a manipulative little girl who wants to go to homecoming at your expense. WTF, she doesn't want to talk to you outside of school? But she is nice when she brings up the expensive homecoming arrangement she has in mind? Are you completely blind!?

Seriously, observing the posts and updates you have made is like watching someone try to shove toast into a cdrom drive. Face it, it's not going to work! If your friends haven't already tried to beat some sense into you, then they are either terrible friends or as naive as you are.

Sorry to be harsh, but I've realized that people who are infatuated lose all sense of reality. You, cuda, have lost your grip on reality, as well as your dignity and self-respect. Stop now before you lose money.

I'm pretty sure you won't listen at all, but I felt I should at least try.

dfi

 

[Orsorum]

Good words.