If there is any chance of seeing some action then go for it and then get rid of her.
If there isn't then skip the go for it and just get rid of her.
She's not worth your time. She might be really cute, etc. right now but you may eventually learn to become emotionally attached to a girl before really considering how they look.
I usually shoot and miss only once. If I miss, I don't bother her again unless she comes to me. Think about how you might want to be treated given you were in her position.
If there isn't then skip the go for it and just get rid of her.
She's not worth your time. She might be really cute, etc. right now but you may eventually learn to become emotionally attached to a girl before really considering how they look.
I usually shoot and miss only once. If I miss, I don't bother her again unless she comes to me. Think about how you might want to be treated given you were in her position.
Geez! You guys are scaring me. It's not funny. Quit insinuating about getting rid of a girl by method of stabbing. It may seem funny to you, but should, God forbid, something happen to her tomorrow, it won't be funny anymore and you never know who the first suspect would be. It isn't funny, in my view.
Okay, Cuda, why are you and others speaking or acting as though she owes you anything? She owes you nothing. Did she ever say "I love you", "I want to have your kids", "I have feelings for you", etc.? There's no indication that she ever committed herself to you in a gf sense. So, if she never did, then why the attitude as though she owes you anything? Gosh, you're making start to wish that she won't go to the homecoming with you. Sorry, but it's starting to sound ridiculous.
Okay, Cuda, why are you and others speaking or acting as though she owes you anything? She owes you nothing. Did she ever say "I love you", "I want to have your kids", "I have feelings for you", etc.? There's no indication that she ever committed herself to you in a gf sense. So, if she never did, then why the attitude as though she owes you anything? Gosh, you're making start to wish that she won't go to the homecoming with you. Sorry, but it's starting to sound ridiculous.
alkemyst
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me too...hilarious !@!@!
seriously, one I would never ever look up a girl's number to call her...you ask for the number, that is borderline stalking to most people, esp young girls...not to say that's what you were doing...it's just the perception. Plus you took away them being able to not give you their number and the way most guys are wierd, it would freak me out a bit even.
high school / college years are game playing relationships usually. Everyone is trying to better their 'mates' and be seen with the most popular or 'funnest' chicks/guys. It's a cluster phuc|<, but life. I recommend be the prick now and worry about a real g/f once you find the things you really like in a lady
Be honest and basically let them know you want a physical relationship and fun....nothing serious but no disrespecting either. So far I have had a lot of luck with that last part....up until recently I wasn't looking for a fulltime g/f, but I wanted the rest of the stuff that went with it. I had a few girls that called and liked me and I was avoiding them...finally I just told them what I wanted/was looking for. Most went along with it. The only rough parts is when you go from being in flings to a real girlfriend...they then get a little mad "I thought you weren't looking for anything serious, what was I your whore?" can be quoted a few times in paraphrase.check hot deals regularly for condoms, lubes, and bullet proof vests.
Originally posted by: Cuda1447
Ok well Im going to tell you all a story, a very long one but bare (sp?) with me.
Last year I was a junior in highschool, and Im not stupid but Im lazy. So I was taking my Geometry math class, and there is this girl in there that I end up sitting behind, she's a freshman so you can imagine she's extremely smart. I sorta start to like this girl, and I try to flirt with her. Not much happens, she's pretty quiet most of the time, she's really into her studies. Eventually I got the guts to call her, I looked her phone number up in the phone book. So I call her and ask her if she wanted to go see a movie that night, she couldn't go, she had to do something with her parents. So I was like aight, and talked to her a bit more, just small talk. The next week I came to school and went to talk to her and she hates me all of a sudden, to make a long story short, she didn't talk to me the rest of the year. Unless it was something like "shut up or Ill hit you" And believe me, I tried everything!! EVERYTHING!!!
This year comes around, and she's not in any of my classes
So I go up to her at the end of the day and ask her whats up, she says she didnt have time to talk and had to go. So I told her she knew where to find me when she was ready to talk. Friday that night she came up to me before my soccer practice and asked me if I was going to the football game/dance that night. I told her yah. So I got to the game and we talked, she flirted with me alot. We ended up going to the dance and we were talking a little bit, and we danced nearly all the slow songs together, and she even asked me to dance once or twice, instead of me asking her. So I got the guts up to ask her to homecoming. She told me that she didnt know, she had to ask her parents ask her parents if she could go with a senior (Age difference
Now the problem at hand, I BARELY EVER TALK TO HER. I go to talk to her and she just blows me off, or says she's busy. Or barely responds and acts like she doesn't want to talk. And every once in a while she will come up to me and talk, and act like she wants to talk. Which is good, but those times are few and far between, and I REALLY like this girl, what should I do?!?!?!? Oh, and she says she doesn't want to hang out - outside of school, Ive asked her.
Sounds like she's not interested in you. get over it! Quit acting like you're going to marry you. Why would she wantto date you? You're a senior. She's a sophomore. At the end of the year, it's obvious any relationship would end up ending. Why invest time/emotion in someone you are 99% sure isn't going to be with you a year or two later? She might like you just as much, but think about it.
errr....now you are giving tips? the advice alone is enough evidence, Ameesh, don't worry
Cuda, it's hard to really understand what is going on from your story, it's kind of fragmented. I really think you need to talk to her staight up and ask what is going on. I mean, explain to her how you feel she is hot and cold, and you don't undertand her intentions. She may not give you a straight answer, but you will be at least able to guage from her reaction what's really going on.
Its a lot easier for all of us to say to forget it; i know its hard to give up when you really like someone. But sitting here agnozing will just drain you out. Find out what's going on without speculating and then go from there.
Hope that helps...
I beg to differ- my girl and I are still together. All 4 years through high school, as well as off to college been 2 months and still together.
- Jul 26, 2002
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Ok Ill give you an idea of how she acted towards me today, and you guys will be able to tell what I mean.
Im standing at my locker before school and she walks up to me and starts talking to me about homecoming. She's being really friendly and stuff, she is telling me how she had a good idea about what we should do but it was expensive. We talked for about 5 minutes or so then she left. We also talked a little bit about the Alg. 2 test later today that we both had to take.
Later that day after we had both taken the Alg. 2 test I passed her in the hallway and Im like "hey, the test was easy in Alg. 2" She's like "what?" so I repeat myself and she just says "yah" and keeps walking...
She only seems really friendly to me when she comes up to me to talk, but when I go up to her to talk she is kind of cold.
Oh and to really put a twist on this story, my schedule will be changing monday and it just so happens that fate has put us in the same Alg. 2 class. I haven't told her yet though, she is totally going to think Im stalking her though, because she knows that I know what hour she has Alg. 2....
Im standing at my locker before school and she walks up to me and starts talking to me about homecoming. She's being really friendly and stuff, she is telling me how she had a good idea about what we should do but it was expensive. We talked for about 5 minutes or so then she left. We also talked a little bit about the Alg. 2 test later today that we both had to take.
Later that day after we had both taken the Alg. 2 test I passed her in the hallway and Im like "hey, the test was easy in Alg. 2" She's like "what?" so I repeat myself and she just says "yah" and keeps walking...
She only seems really friendly to me when she comes up to me to talk, but when I go up to her to talk she is kind of cold.
Oh and to really put a twist on this story, my schedule will be changing monday and it just so happens that fate has put us in the same Alg. 2 class. I haven't told her yet though, she is totally going to think Im stalking her though, because she knows that I know what hour she has Alg. 2....
Gooberlx2
Lifer
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Originally posted by: Warthog912
I beg to differ- my girl and I are still together. All 4 years through high school, as well as off to college been 2 months and still together.
Are you going to the same college as she is? If not I'd put money down saying you'll break up by the end of the semester. 99.9999999999% of people I know who started college with a gf/bf at another school, that wasn't close by, broke it off within the semester (Hopefully you'll read this and stick together just to spite me
).She's being a complete a$$hole but giving you the cold shoulder when you go up to her. I wouldn't put up with it. And when you transfer to her class, sit far from her and NO eye contact. And when she talks to you, just mutter and walk away. Treat her the same.
Or if you're really interseted in salvaging this friendship (which I wouldn't), talk to her and tell her what she's doing. She might not be aware. (Althought I wouldn't know why she wouldn't.)
I'd go with the first suggestion though.
Or if you're really interseted in salvaging this friendship (which I wouldn't), talk to her and tell her what she's doing. She might not be aware. (Althought I wouldn't know why she wouldn't.)
I'd go with the first suggestion though.
Why do you care about what a 15 year old girl thinks? Honestly, if you are a senior date someone your age..
/slaps head.
/slaps head.
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The reason I care so much, is because other then to me she is the nicest girl in the world.
She isn't a slut, she has good morales. She is extremely intelligent, athletic, and good looking. She is basically the total package in what b]I[/b] have been looking for in a girl. Thats why I care so much.
She isn't a slut, she has good morales. She is extremely intelligent, athletic, and good looking. She is basically the total package in what b]I[/b] have been looking for in a girl. Thats why I care so much.
You mean other than the fact she treats you like sh!t? Drop her like a bad habit; I guarantee you that there's a girl out there that might not be as good looking, but at least she won't be nice to you only when it suits what she wants.
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