lucky - sorry for the confusion above. when i was referring to autodrive i meant the fps that each camera could shoot. it seems to me that below the pro model level, nikons tend to be about .5fps faster than canons. not a huge deal, but still a little faster. my coaches n80 seemed a little faster than my elan II when i was shooting pole vault.
amigaman - how to convince the wife? ive hear thats tough to do. a slr is not necessarily better than a point and shoot. depends on what youll use it for. i have both (digital point and shoot). sometimes i dont want to haul the slr along. but if you want to get into photography then slr is the only way to go. you have lens options, flash options, filters, ect...
it all depends on what you want to do with the camera. my slr was one of the best purchases ive ever made.