My wife left, and suddenly I realized:

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Exterous

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Originally posted by: rh71
My wife told me she read that in a random survey of "straight" males... 40% of them have had sex with another male at least once.

:Q I think she's just trying to get you wamred up to the idea of a MMF threesome

On a more serious note: That sucks man. Keep your chin up through and you'll get through this!
 

boomer6447

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been there, done that...
divorced wife of 17 years 3 years ago....best thing I EVAR did...

Bonus in that my 2 girls decided to live with me....:)

now have a gf that I live with and love, and who actually loves and
respects me.......
 

Xyo II

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Originally posted by: rh71
My wife told me she read that in a random survey of "straight" males... 40% of them have had sex with another male at least once.

That includes threesomes, right?..................right?.
 

ITJunkie

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Originally posted by: SpeedZealot369
Sorry bro

Maybe you should take some time off? go backpacking or something

This may not be a bad idea.
A buddy of mine had his wife tell him it was over while they were on vacation! Friggin' biaatch. Anyway, he signed on board a sailboat crew and hit the seas for a month or two...sailed from San Diego to Australia or something like that. He came back a new man and is "back in the game" in a mad way.
 

alkemyst

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Originally posted by: compuwiz1
27 Years was enough!
Wow, after 27 years, you get through the first month, and suddenly, it occurs, this was just like dumping a chick back in high school. ;)

Now I'm gonna try being gay, for awhile.

if mine could only forget her way home. j/k :)

I was only married 4.5 years in my first, together about 8 total...but after a month if you aren't fixated on making something there isn't...you move right on.

I had a couple quick romps and then sort of took 3 years off of really dating. A couple random hookups was it. Did all the things I wanted to that my ex didn't.

 

Heifetz

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what's with all the breakups lately? And it's always the girl leaving the guy. Something in the air? I only say that because I also had a breakup about 2 month ago. The heartless b@tch who I practically spent every weekend with for a year decided that she wanted to date another guy.

Only time, alcohol and other girls will dull the misery.
 

compuwiz1

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Ok, I tried being gay. It didn't work. I'm straight again. (no I did nothing) I was only kidding. When you go through a bad relationship with a woman, you tend to not hold women in as high of regard for awhile. ;)

I'm an asshole, and extremely hard to live with. I drove her away. No...nobody cheated.

As I've gotten older, I've become more like my Dad, who is a nit-picky, anal retentive.

Bad gene pool, I'll tell ya. :shocked:

The best part of the last month is, that it gave me time to learn about me. :)
 

EagleKeeper

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Originally posted by: compuwiz1
Originally posted by: ElFenix
mancation time


Exactly! :)

I can honestly say, I did not have sex for free, or a fee. ;)

But did you have any at all?:brokenheart:

 

DaShen

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Originally posted by: compuwiz1
Ok, I tried being gay. It didn't work. I'm straight again. (no I did nothing) I was only kidding. When you go through a bad relationship with a woman, you tend to not hold women in as high of regard for awhile. ;)

I'm an asshole, and extremely hard to live with. I drove her away. No...nobody cheated.

As I've gotten older, I've become more like my Dad, who is a nit-picky, anal retentive.

Bad gene pool, I'll tell ya. :shocked:

The best part of the last month is, that it gave me time to learn about me. :)

Call her, and go to counseling with her. Try to change. It worked with my family.
 

Red Dawn

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Originally posted by: compuwiz1
Ok, I tried being gay. It didn't work. I'm straight again. (no I did nothing) I was only kidding. When you go through a bad relationship with a woman, you tend to not hold women in as high of regard for awhile. ;)

I'm an asshole, and extremely hard to live with. I drove her away. No...nobody cheated.

As I've gotten older, I've become more like my Dad, who is a nit-picky, anal retentive.

Bad gene pool, I'll tell ya. :shocked:

The best part of the last month is, that it gave me time to learn about me. :)
Well Dude the second time around is a charm. Just think, you get to have another wife if you choose too. I like my second one so much more than my first one.