Boring update:
I've sent in a request at Audioenvy to audition a pair of onix rocket RS550s and an RSC200 center.
I've never done anything like this, so I'm kind of nervous. The closest I think I've come to this is going to a little HT store and checking out some projectors before I bought mine. We (gf and I) spent the most time in front of an Infocus 7200 watching Castaway. My gf was very impressed with the speakers we were listening to. She told me they sounded a lot better than mine and I said "I know"

. We were listening to a pair of $15,000 Vandersteen 5As.
David Fabrikant at Ascend has been great with all the questions I've sent to him.
I think I'd describe today as my "Axiom day". I had off today (since I worked the previous weekend), so I spent about 8 hours off and on reading all about Axiom hehe. I certainly found a lot more negative reviews for them than I did from Ascend. Most complaints are about the tweeters. I've noticed that the tweeters on my current system get kind of irritating after listening to them loudly after a while... this is something I really want to avoid in my future purchases.
If I do end up with Axiom, I think either
M60ti floorstanders with a VP150 center
or
M22ti bookshelves with M3ti surrounds and a VP150 center
would be my choices.
The thing that keeps striking me about Ascend is the lack of anything negative about them... well... except that they lack bass below 50 or 60 hz, but I have a very decent subwoofer for that anyway so I don't care. Other complaints are about the plain appearance of the speakers. From the few pictures I've seen, I like the look and would much rather have something that sounds great vs something that's a little more flashy at the expense of the components inside.
Oh, and on a related note... my gf got a pair of rats today as pets. As a trade, I'm allowed to get whatever I want and she wont complain :evil: