Originally posted by: jjones
Originally posted by: purepolly
Originally posted by: jjones
Stay out of it.
Here's a moral dilemma for you:
What do you do when when you know a married couple; the girl is your very best female friend and her husband is a very good friend. She cheats on him with your very best male friend. We were all mutual friends and relationships will definately be destroyed if it were discovered. It probably would have sent us all in different directions, breaking up long friendships.
I decided to do nothing and fortunately it turned out for the best. The affair was lengthy (years) but ultimately fizzled and the married couple are still married and have a very good life together.
In other words, sh!t happens and normally nothing good comes when you get into business where you don't belong. These things have a way of working out in one manner or another without the help from outside parties.
Dude - you are one incredibly crappy "friend".
And you don't know your ass from a hole in the ground.
When I was about 20 my best friend was getting married. I caught his soon-to-be-wife cheating on him. The short story is: Told him; he didn't believe me; bad arguement ensued; he got married anyway; he asked me not to come to his wedding; lost one of the best friends of my life.
Sometimes good friends don't get involved in other people's personal lives, especially when it comes to relationships.
Edit: And if I had said nothing, I would still be friends with him. He later divorced the bitch for the cheating slut she was, and she was in a bad way. But nothing at the time would make him listen to reason. The point is, you don't know what the circumstances are surrounding their relationship, how your friend feels, what things are happening to contribute to the situation. You don't know anything about it, so stay the fvck out and mind your own business. It will sort itself out eventually and doesn't need your "help".