edit: sorry for giving the story piece by piece, it probably made people have different opinions than if i would have said everything up front, so here it is.
he's been dating a woman for about a year. she left for 6 weeks to go to france last thursday. tonight a bunch of us went out and he let a girl he knew that liked him come home with us. he has told me repeatedly that he won't let anything happen, but she asked if she could spend the night and he let her. now he's having audible sex with her.
he's 29, the woman he's been seeing is 34 and has 2 kids. they are seriously considering marriage.
updated info:
she is a friend of his who had been trying to take him out to dinner for his birthday for the past few weeks. she took him out to dinner at the bar before a bunch of us got there, which was all planned in advance. she's wanted him for months, but he's always had his girlfriend. nothing had ever happened before his gf left with her or any other girl. he wasn't drunk. he asked me to go home before he did so he could have a chance to walk her back to the metro station so she wouldn't spend the night. i complied, and went to my bedroom when i got home. i was already in bed when i heard them come in, so i didn't go out to meet them. before too long, they had already gone to bed.
to answer all of your hypothetical questions... he doesn't sleep around with other women, at least for the 6 months i've known him. there's no turmoil in their relationship. she's going to france for an architecture seminar, not to get some ass before (if) they get married.
i just lost a lot of respect for my roommate 🙁.
he's been dating a woman for about a year. she left for 6 weeks to go to france last thursday. tonight a bunch of us went out and he let a girl he knew that liked him come home with us. he has told me repeatedly that he won't let anything happen, but she asked if she could spend the night and he let her. now he's having audible sex with her.
he's 29, the woman he's been seeing is 34 and has 2 kids. they are seriously considering marriage.
updated info:
she is a friend of his who had been trying to take him out to dinner for his birthday for the past few weeks. she took him out to dinner at the bar before a bunch of us got there, which was all planned in advance. she's wanted him for months, but he's always had his girlfriend. nothing had ever happened before his gf left with her or any other girl. he wasn't drunk. he asked me to go home before he did so he could have a chance to walk her back to the metro station so she wouldn't spend the night. i complied, and went to my bedroom when i got home. i was already in bed when i heard them come in, so i didn't go out to meet them. before too long, they had already gone to bed.
to answer all of your hypothetical questions... he doesn't sleep around with other women, at least for the 6 months i've known him. there's no turmoil in their relationship. she's going to france for an architecture seminar, not to get some ass before (if) they get married.
i just lost a lot of respect for my roommate 🙁.
