my mom's boyfriend is a creep

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pontifex

Lifer
Dec 5, 2000
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been awhile since it posted. we either got left hanging because its fake or mom's bf is a member here, saw this thread, and "took care" of the OP.
 

Aikouka

Lifer
Nov 27, 2001
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Originally posted by: nkgreen
:music:
But I'm a creep
I'm a weirdo
What the hell am I doin' here?
I don't belong here, ohhhh, ohhhh
:music:

Good song, I was listening to it last night oddly enough.

What if this yasg person is actually yet another strange guy who's asking for how to figure this out so he can actually hide his tracks better! :Q
 

pontifex

Lifer
Dec 5, 2000
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Originally posted by: randomlinh
Originally posted by: pontifex
been awhile since it posted. we either got left hanging because its fake or mom's bf is a member here, saw this thread, and "took care" of the OP.

it hasn't even been 12hrs since the first post....

it was posting frequently before though. meh, whatever. it sounds all fake to me anyway.
 

yasg

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Jun 29, 2007
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reallly quick - yasg = yet another stupid girl, i am old enough to live away from home and have in the past but am going through a lot of medical stuff right now and unfortunately dont have that option at this point in time. i went to sleep thats why i havent posted you crazy people. i have to go to school now, but that doesnt mean i am fake.
 

nakedfrog

No Lifer
Apr 3, 2001
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Originally posted by: yasg
reallly quick - yasg = yet another stupid girl, i am old enough to live away from home and have in the past but am going through a lot of medical stuff right now and unfortunately dont have that option at this point in time. i went to sleep thats why i havent posted you crazy people. i have to go to school now, but that doesnt mean i am fake.

apparently nobody hated me enough to remember ... im sure ill get a lot of shit right now though. c....a....i...t......l....i....o......n.......

i wont even bother checking when im done with school.

Wasn't it a 50/50 split of people hating you and adoring you? :p
 

moshquerade

No Lifer
Nov 1, 2001
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Originally posted by: Bryophyte
You're not afraid of flooding the internet with photos of yourself, so why would it bother you if someone else does it for you? Are you worried that you won't be able to read all of the comments about your looks?

burn. :laugh:
 

yasg

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Jun 29, 2007
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Originally posted by: Bryophyte
You're not afraid of flooding the internet with photos of yourself, so why would it bother you if someone else does it for you? Are you worried that you won't be able to read all of the comments about your looks?

i believe the only pictures of myself currently online are on my myspace profile, which is private. if you are referring to years ago when i posted here, well... then it sounds like for some reason you have held onto negative feelings against me. if that is the case i suggest you try to let go of those feelings and not let the internet identity of someone that you do not know affect you. this is only a guess, but it seems as though putting others down is a way to earn "cool" points with many people on this forum. looking at the number of posts you have made, it is probably a safe assumption that this online community is a large part of your social interaction so it is understandable that you jump at opportunities like this to make yourself seem "cool", "tough", "witty", whatever. you have already gotten a positive response from another member who, judging by the number of posts she has made, is also quite dependant on this forum for her social interaction.

please, dont be so quick to judge. this is a legitimate concern of mine and all i asked for was some technical help. may i suggest at least considering another perspective - that maybe being friendly and/or helpful is a better way to earn respect?
 

Parasitic

Diamond Member
Aug 17, 2002
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Try my suggestion from the earlier part of the thread? Dressing in the dark?
The point is that if there's very little hope for him to see what he desires then he'll eventually give up.
 

moshquerade

No Lifer
Nov 1, 2001
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Originally posted by: yasg
Originally posted by: Bryophyte
You're not afraid of flooding the internet with photos of yourself, so why would it bother you if someone else does it for you? Are you worried that you won't be able to read all of the comments about your looks?

i believe the only pictures of myself currently online are on my myspace profile, which is private. if you are referring to years ago when i posted here, well... then it sounds like for some reason you have held onto negative feelings against me. if that is the case i suggest you try to let go of those feelings and not let the internet identity of someone that you do not know affect you. this is only a guess, but it seems as though putting others down is a way to earn "cool" points with many people on this forum. looking at the number of posts you have made, it is probably a safe assumption that this online community is a large part of your social interaction so it is understandable that you jump at opportunities like this to make yourself seem "cool", "tough", "witty", whatever. you have already gotten a positive response from another member who, judging by the number of posts she has made, is also quite dependant on this forum for her social interaction.

please, dont be so quick to judge. this is a legitimate concern of mine and all i asked for was some technical help. may i suggest at least considering another perspective - that maybe being friendly and/or helpful is a better way to earn respect?
why would you ask someone to be friendly, helpful and respectful at the bottom of a post that is none of those?

maybe you should post your questions about how to find out if your soon to be stepdad is spying on you in a more technical forum here or on another board.
 

yasg

Member
Jun 29, 2007
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thank you to those of you who took this seriously and i appreciate your advice. i do have reasons to feel uncomfortable, both things i have noticed and things others have noticed. the camera idea was actually suggested by someone else close to me. i am not interested in setting up cameras of my own or spying on him. i do not have the option of moving out because as i posted above i am dealing with medical issues and am very dependent on my mom right now, as much as i hate that. i will not talk to my mom because i dont think i need to be more of a burden than i already am on her. there is always the chance that my and other's observations and feelings are incorrect and i dont think it is necessary to turn my mothers life upside down and cause more tension because there is no *proof*. i do appreciate the suggestions, though. thank you.
 

yasg

Member
Jun 29, 2007
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Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: yasg
Originally posted by: Bryophyte
You're not afraid of flooding the internet with photos of yourself, so why would it bother you if someone else does it for you? Are you worried that you won't be able to read all of the comments about your looks?

i believe the only pictures of myself currently online are on my myspace profile, which is private. if you are referring to years ago when i posted here, well... then it sounds like for some reason you have held onto negative feelings against me. if that is the case i suggest you try to let go of those feelings and not let the internet identity of someone that you do not know affect you. this is only a guess, but it seems as though putting others down is a way to earn "cool" points with many people on this forum. looking at the number of posts you have made, it is probably a safe assumption that this online community is a large part of your social interaction so it is understandable that you jump at opportunities like this to make yourself seem "cool", "tough", "witty", whatever. you have already gotten a positive response from another member who, judging by the number of posts she has made, is also quite dependant on this forum for her social interaction.

please, dont be so quick to judge. this is a legitimate concern of mine and all i asked for was some technical help. may i suggest at least considering another perspective - that maybe being friendly and/or helpful is a better way to earn respect?
why would you ask someone to be friendly, helpful and respectful at the bottom of a post that is none of those?

maybe you should post your questions about how to find out if your soon to be stepdad is spying on you in a more technical forum here or on another board.

i apologize if you took offense to what i said. if i am wrong, please do correct me. none of it was intended to be hurtful or put anyone down. i was just asking her (and now you) to take a look at the situation for what it is. i do the same for for people in "real" life too... people in general seem to have a lot of negativity and making others feel bad often gives them more confidence and gets positive responses from others, unfortunately. i am by no means perfect but i have made an effort to be more kind and helpful to others, rather than hurt them, and i find it much more gratifying than putting them down. i am simply trying to share that perspective with others.

again, i apologize if i offended you.
 

Bryophyte

Lifer
Apr 25, 2001
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Damnit, most of my post disappeared. What I said was basically that you chose to bring up your old, really nasty and hateful personna in this thread, so you should expect people to react to you accordingly. You didn't have to bring it up at all, which leads me to believe you really wanted the attention you used to get here, negative though it was.
 

yasg

Member
Jun 29, 2007
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Originally posted by: Bryophyte
Originally posted by: yasg
Originally posted by: Bryophyte
You're not afraid of flooding the internet with photos of yourself, so why would it bother you if someone else does it for you? Are you worried that you won't be able to read all of the comments about your looks?

i believe the only pictures of myself currently online are on my myspace profile, which is private. if you are referring to years ago when i posted here, well... then it sounds like for some reason you have held onto negative feelings against me. if that is the case i suggest you try to let go of those feelings and not let the internet identity of someone that you do not know affect you. this is only a guess, but it seems as though putting others down is a way to earn "cool" points with many people on this forum. looking at the number of posts you have made, it is probably a safe assumption that this online community is a large part of your social interaction so it is understandable that you jump at opportunities like this to make yourself seem "cool", "tough", "witty", whatever. you have already gotten a positive response from another member who, judging by the number of posts she has made, is also quite dependant on this forum for her social interaction.

please, dont be so quick to judge. this is a legitimate concern of mine and all i asked for was some technical help. may i suggest at least considering another perspective - that maybe being friendly and/or helpful is a better way to earn respect?

Your comment, "apparently nobody hated me enough to remember ... im sure ill get a lot of shit right now though. c....a....i...t......l....i....o......n.......

i think you forgot to finish your thought. what were you going to say about my comment?

when i used to post i did post pictures of myself. i was a young, insecure girl and the positive attention felt good, kind of. i am still a young, insecure girl but i no longer seek that kind of attention or really any attention at all. i took a step back, analyzed the situation (and many others in my life) for what it was and made some changes. i would like to think that i have matured in that aspect.
 

pontifex

Lifer
Dec 5, 2000
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Originally posted by: yasg
thank you to those of you who took this seriously and i appreciate your advice. i do have reasons to feel uncomfortable, both things i have noticed and things others have noticed. the camera idea was actually suggested by someone else close to me. i am not interested in setting up cameras of my own or spying on him. i do not have the option of moving out because as i posted above i am dealing with medical issues and am very dependent on my mom right now, as much as i hate that. i will not talk to my mom because i dont think i need to be more of a burden than i already am on her. there is always the chance that my and other's observations and feelings are incorrect and i dont think it is necessary to turn my mothers life upside down and cause more tension because there is no *proof*. i do appreciate the suggestions, though. thank you.

your mom's bf might be a huge perv that is spying on her daughter with hidden cameras, in her own home no less, yet you don't want to burden her???

if this thread is even remotely true, WTF kind of logic is that? You think your mom would be ok with her BF/future husband (if it comes to that) doing this?

 

yasg

Member
Jun 29, 2007
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Originally posted by: Bryophyte
Damnit, most of my post disappeared. What I said was basically that you chose to bring up your old, really nasty and hateful personna in this thread, so you should expect people to react to you accordingly. You didn't have to bring it up at all, which leads me to believe you really wanted the attention you used to get here, negative though it was.

i dont remember being nasty or hateful, but i also havent looked at my posts from back then, so i wont doubt you. your assumption makes sense... but no, that wasnt why i said who i was. i dont really know why and actually i regret doing it, if not only for the fact that when you google my name this thread may come up. i made this name for anonymity, that was a stupid decision of mine to say who i am.
 

mugs

Lifer
Apr 29, 2003
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Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Originally posted by: yasg
reallly quick - yasg = yet another stupid girl, i am old enough to live away from home and have in the past but am going through a lot of medical stuff right now and unfortunately dont have that option at this point in time. i went to sleep thats why i havent posted you crazy people. i have to go to school now, but that doesnt mean i am fake.

apparently nobody hated me enough to remember ... im sure ill get a lot of shit right now though. c....a....i...t......l....i....o......n.......

i wont even bother checking when im done with school.

Wasn't it a 50/50 split of people hating you and adoring you? :p

Heh. The women pretty much universally hated her. The ATOT knight squad hated her because she wasn't terribly nice to the women here. But a lot of the guys thought she was cute, and that trumps all here. :p
 

GTaudiophile

Lifer
Oct 24, 2000
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Speaking of googling names, have you ever googled his? Is he perhaps in the sex offender database? Maybe he has a myspace page?
 

pontifex

Lifer
Dec 5, 2000
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Originally posted by: mugs
Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Originally posted by: yasg
reallly quick - yasg = yet another stupid girl, i am old enough to live away from home and have in the past but am going through a lot of medical stuff right now and unfortunately dont have that option at this point in time. i went to sleep thats why i havent posted you crazy people. i have to go to school now, but that doesnt mean i am fake.

apparently nobody hated me enough to remember ... im sure ill get a lot of shit right now though. c....a....i...t......l....i....o......n.......

i wont even bother checking when im done with school.

Wasn't it a 50/50 split of people hating you and adoring you? :p

Heh. The women pretty much universally hated her. The ATOT knight squad hated her because she wasn't terribly nice to the women here. But a lot of the guys thought she was cute, and that trumps all here. :p

:camera:s?