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My mom's an effin old-school-chinese-who-can't-stop-discriminating

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First, it was my brother's girlfriend. She's taiwanese. My mom called her a slut, a hoe, a good-for-nothing XXX, even yelled at her parents. About a year later, she calms down, learns that my bro's gf is not a slut. BUT, initially she thought that all young girls were, and this has not changed.

Second, it was my sister's husband. He's caucasion. My mom called him and his whole nationality money grubbing "BAC GUIY" which means "white devil." She also thought he was going to marry her, steal her money, and leave her. Needless to say, she loves him now. He's not a money grubbing white devil to her anymore. BUT, what she initially thought has not changed.

To her, those two people are just exceptions to her rule. Her rules:

1) all teenage girls are whores
2) all other nationalities besides chinese are evil, and have tried to hurt us chinese people in one way or another

I have teenage girl cousins, plenty of them. "Mom, why isn't cousin Lucy a whore?" I ask. No reply. "Why wasn't Chris (my older sister) a whore?" No reply. And with her being extremely hardheaded, what can i possibly do to get through to her? She never thinks she's wrong, even when you shove the truth down her throat with a large helping of evidence.

What can i do? I have a korean girlfriend now, and she thinks all korean people are evil, and no good. I asked her what korean people did to us chinese, and she didn't say anything. Why does my mom discriminate? I hate her for this. Does she never learn from past experiences? Is there ANY POSSIBLE FSKING WAY I CAN SHOW/TEACH HER?
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Fear - inferiority complex (afraid of talks among her uneducated gossiping friends.)

I have had similar experience years ago with my mother, and it took my mother about 20 years to learn to respect her children choices.

 
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