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My kids running form sucks

Ya ... I had to be blunt. He is 10 years old.

He runs straight legged most of the time. It is really weird to see. I never cared to much but he is now in 4th grade and he hasn't grown out of it. He has no knee pain and can bend his joints normally.

And I just found out that he is starting to get teased about it (4th grade is just about right). So, I need to figure out how to remedy this. He is willing to go to the track. We actually agreed on this.

I am seeking advice on what to do at the track. And amazingly, there is not much on the internet on proper form.

Things of note. He can not do a single proper situp or push up.

My immediate thought for the track is that he should do some high knees. Hands in font and he runs hitting his hands with his knees. I was thinking of spending time doing the following. Half hour every other day. 250 meter jog. 50 meter walk. 50 meter high knees. 50 meter walk. This should strengthen his stomach up. AS time passes, lengthen the high knees to 60, 70, 80 meters.

I already see it though. He will not put his hands at knee high. He will turn it into a %#^$#ing game as he always does. He'll just put his hands 2" in front of my knees and run bent over cause it is easier. He always pulls this on me whenever I try to help him. I correct him and he tells me "You don't know dad". And because of this attitude, this is where he has gotten himself.

Oh, he thinks riding a bike is just as good as running. I am about ready to sell all of his bikes if he keeps up that idea.
 
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Oh, he thinks riding a bike is just as good as running. I am about ready to sell all of his bikes if he keeps up that idea.

I've got nothing helpful on the running front because I hate running.

But this makes no sense whatsoever from your point of view. Cardio on a bike is bad? I love riding my bike and I do that for hours at a time (well, when my back worked).
 
I would honestly maybe take him to see a PT? Running is probably part of the overall gait mechanic cycle, and PT's are very good at helping one use proper gait.

Growing up, I ran on my toes. My dad always bitched at me for it... and well it turned me into a "toe walker". This is NOT good for your ankles, calves and especially your Achilles tendon. I wish I had known back then that it was an issue.

Because of developing bad gait habits, I ended up tearing both of them (very minor, but needed rehab).
 
You say most of the time. So he knows the proper way to run? Did you ask him why he runs like that? Maybe he doesn't take running seriously and is just having fun. Reminds me of the day I ran like that in middle school gym. Arms straight too. Like a gazelle. I tried to convince my friends that it was faster than the way they run (I was faster cause I had longer legs). They tried it and we all laughed about it. It was a good time being young.

I assume he doesn't play sports. You can't imaging running like that and being successful at any sport.
 
You say most of the time. So he knows the proper way to run? Did you ask him why he runs like that? Maybe he doesn't take running seriously and is just having fun. Reminds me of the day I ran like that in middle school gym. Arms straight too. Like a gazelle. I tried to convince my friends that it was faster than the way they run (I was faster cause I had longer legs). They tried it and we all laughed about it. It was a good time being young.

I assume he doesn't play sports. You can't imaging running like that and being successful at any sport.

He used to run fine. In Kindergarden he was one of the fastest kids. my guess (and just a guess) is that as he grew and got heavier, his muscles did not keep up for some reason.

I have to admit that I think I do see him on occasion run correctly. Actually, when he did cross country last summer he ran fine. just slow due to conditioning.

Maybe the kids meant that he runs slow. But I have a feeling that this was not the case. At basketball this winter, you could just see that he ran strangely. Ran hard, but his form was totally messed up.
 
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You say most of the time. So he knows the proper way to run? Did you ask him why he runs like that? Maybe he doesn't take running seriously and is just having fun. Reminds me of the day I ran like that in middle school gym. Arms straight too. Like a gazelle. I tried to convince my friends that it was faster than the way they run (I was faster cause I had longer legs). They tried it and we all laughed about it. It was a good time being young.

I assume he doesn't play sports. You can't imaging running like that and being successful at any sport.

No, if I tell him that his running form is messed up[, he'll tell me that I don't know what I am talking about. It's what he does whenever I try to offer advice. And part of the reason I have almost given up on him.

I'm going to try and work with him this summer on athletics and if he gives me his typical I don't give a shit attitude, I am done with it.
 
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I should add that my son wants to do things like basketball (and do it seriously) and soccer (just to play with friends) but he seems to not want to put any work into it.
 
Could be the case. He wants help though. Asks for it. Then is disrespectful when provided. It's been a constant theme from about the age of 8.

Does this to my wife also.
 
In my armchair psychologist analysis, your kid wants/needs more parental attention and is finding that he gets more of it when he aggravates you. Give him some positive attention where you are not criticizing or trying to "help" at all. Just play some video games together or ride bikes together. Again, you MUST resist ALL inclinations to "help" with some "constructive criticism" or however you want to think of it. You must give this kind of attention freely, regularly, and without prompting. Listen to him when he talks. Laugh at his jokes. Eat meals together. Really look at his artwork or schoolwork or whatever when he hands them to you.

In short: He doesn't want to fix his running gait because he likes the attention you give him when he runs the "wrong" way. You said yourself, he turns it into a "game" where he almost teases you by running the wrong way. Think about his motivations for that. I'm sure he doesn't know his own motivations himself; he's never thought this through.

You've got to get inside his head and figure out why he doesn't accept your advice even when he asks for it. I have offered my armchair psychiatrist interpretation above, but it could be wrong.
 
In my armchair psychologist analysis, your kid wants/needs more parental attention and is finding that he gets more of it when he aggravates you. Give him some positive attention where you are not criticizing or trying to "help" at all. Just play some video games together or ride bikes together. Again, you MUST resist ALL inclinations to "help" with some "constructive criticism" or however you want to think of it. You must give this kind of attention freely, regularly, and without prompting. Listen to him when he talks. Laugh at his jokes. Eat meals together. Really look at his artwork or schoolwork or whatever when he hands them to you.

In short: He doesn't want to fix his running gait because he likes the attention you give him when he runs the "wrong" way. You said yourself, he turns it into a "game" where he almost teases you by running the wrong way. Think about his motivations for that. I'm sure he doesn't know his own motivations himself; he's never thought this through.

You've got to get inside his head and figure out why he doesn't accept your advice even when he asks for it. I have offered my armchair psychiatrist interpretation above, but it could be wrong.
Great post.

And you never give up on your child. When it is clear your methodology is failing, you change it. The suggestion to have a pro work with him is an excellent one. He questions your abilities in this area, eliminate that as an excuse if need be.
 
Just do the basics of running. First you do high knees, then butt kicks, then you two race and if he beats you he gets a blizzard from dairy queen. You beat him him, but still take him for icecream.

Eventually he'll outrun you.
 
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Can't be that bad...
 
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