My friend works 85+ hours a week... crazy?

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Descartes

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I think it's absurd to work two essentially mediocre to crappy jobs. My personal thoughts are that one should work hard only if there's a promise of being able to soon work much less. I put in my time now, but that's only to build a foundation of rest later.

 

NYSTrooper

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Originally posted by: Borracho
Originally posted by: NYSTrooper
Originally posted by: Borracho
Originally posted by: PanzerIV
Originally posted by: Borracho
my wife works 100 hrs/week and pays 45k year for it :(

Holy crap! She is sacrificing her life for next to nothing. What does she do?

Med school... it sucks now but it will be worth it in the long run. That 80 hr work week law is just for residents and above :(

Only about 8% of marriages survive residency, I assisted a big longitudinal study on it at CU.

I?d believe it. Med school is stressful as hell already. We don?t have any questions if we can make it or not though. We are both dedicated to each other and I am very supportive of her schedule. We been through a lot in the 10 years we have been together, and it gets better everyday imo.


Just don't expect to get laid much while she's on residency. Peak sexual activity for married partners on residency was 1-2 sexual interactions per MONTH and it was the single biggest complaint of the non-medscuool partner. Your wife will want sleeeeeeeeep.
 

yobarman

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I have mad repsect for him... you ain't gonna get too far in life if you don't work hard. That's definately the type of dedication im gonna have when i finish up with college. Get serious with work and try to make my millions
 

Kenazo

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Originally posted by: Nanotech
Originally posted by: Borracho
my wife works 100 hrs/week and pays 45k year for it :(

She pays 45k a year to be allowed to work 100 hrs/wk?



evidently someone didn't read the thread. She's in med school.
 

djheater

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I've said this before, when I first found out my girlfriend was pregnant (now my wife) I got 2 MORE jobs and worked that until I could get into a higher paying one.

You do what you have to do. If you can do it, I don't see what the problem is. It's likely he's not getting enough sleep and is not performing as well as he could if he were fully rested, but as long as he's making the grade, more power to him.
 

Gurck

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That's nuts, we only get so many years to enjoy this life before age and/or marriage takes away all the pleasure in it. Retarded to waste away the best of it, imo.
 

Wingznut

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It's not "crazy", it's stupid. Life it too short to spend the vast majority of your waking moments fixing PC's or managing a restaurant.

I can guarantee that nobody's last regrets were, "I wish I had spent more time at the restaurant when I was younger."
 

DT4K

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If it's short term to reach some goal, it's not crazy.
If he plans on doing this forever, then WTF is the point?
 

Whisper

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I couldn't do it, but I won't label him crazy for it. If working is what he enjoys, or if he's working towards some goal, then respect to him. But like other people in this thread have said, my personal view is that life is too short to spend so much of it working. I really don't care one way or another if I'm rich. So long as I have enough to support myself and possibly a wife and children, I'll spend the rest of my time with friends and family having fun.
 

Rudee

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When I first obtained my degree I did plant shutdowns. It was 13 hours a day, 6 days a week. Double time (double-bubble) as we called it made us first year Engineers a ton of coin. I recall it was something like 6k a month before tax or something along that line, which was quite a lot of cash for a graduate first year out of school.
 

Raj

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85 is about what lawyers do in the first five years.

the ones who are trying to make partner
 

Borracho

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Originally posted by: NYSTrooper
Originally posted by: Borracho
Originally posted by: NYSTrooper
Originally posted by: Borracho
Originally posted by: PanzerIV
Originally posted by: Borracho
my wife works 100 hrs/week and pays 45k year for it :(

Holy crap! She is sacrificing her life for next to nothing. What does she do?

Med school... it sucks now but it will be worth it in the long run. That 80 hr work week law is just for residents and above :(

Only about 8% of marriages survive residency, I assisted a big longitudinal study on it at CU.

I?d believe it. Med school is stressful as hell already. We don?t have any questions if we can make it or not though. We are both dedicated to each other and I am very supportive of her schedule. We been through a lot in the 10 years we have been together, and it gets better everyday imo.


Just don't expect to get laid much while she's on residency. Peak sexual activity for married partners on residency was 1-2 sexual interactions per MONTH and it was the single biggest complaint of the non-medscuool partner. Your wife will want sleeeeeeeeep.

I am not too worried about this, she is a sex fiend and I guess I have what she wants ;)
 

Yax

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Originally posted by: Emrys
I've known people to work 3 jobs, and an average of about 18 hours per day-- he didn't do to bad, he turned out to be a millionare.

For a minute there I was sure you were talking about me a couple of years ago, but then you had to go and add that last part of the sentence to disqualify me.
 

Dacalo

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It will be all worth it.

When my friend just got out of college, he worked 100+ hours for Arthur Andersen.

He became VP and controller of a bank when he was 26.

I will be working 80+ hours for a corporation my friends and I created in a few months. At least I will be working hard for our own company and it would be rewarding to see it grow.
 

Descartes

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Originally posted by: Dacalo
It will be all worth it.

When my friend just got out of college, he worked 100+ hours for Arthur Andersen.

He became VP and controller of a bank when he was 26.

I will be working 80+ hours for a corporation my friends and I created in a few months. At least I will be working hard for our own company and it would be rewarding to see it grow.

This guy doesn't work for Arthur Andersen, he's a tech guy for a community college and a restaurant manager. If he was exceptionally successful as a restaurant manager then I highly doubt he'd be doing the tech work, so it's safe to say neither opportunities are that lucrative. Exactly what will the ROI be on his time 5 years from now?
 

Coquito

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Originally posted by: mugs
It's not too terrible if you can sit down most of the time, but I've worked 16 hour days where I was standing/walking the whole time, and it's hard on the feet and legs. I definitely wouldn't do it on a long-term basis, you gotta take some time to enjoy your life.


I use to work in my local liquer store several years back. During the holidays, most of us would put in about 14hr days, 6 days a week. We were kids, but all the running back & forth, carrying case after case was brutal. If ever a customer had a question & I had to stop what I was doing for a moment, it was always bad news(I need 12 cases of xx; make sure it's 97). You come back from the basement with 10 cases of 97 & 2 98, & he decides he doesn't want it anymore.:| We all got paid our regular rates; no such thing as overtime.

My knees definately hate me for that. Taking a step back & appreciating life could do us all some good.