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My friend is completely whipped by his girlfriend :(

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what is wrong with your friend? haiyaaaa .. tell him to stand up for himself and save his whatever balls he still has 😀
 
Sounds like you have lost a friendship that you value. Maybe your friend will someday realize the choices he is being forced to make. She is probably a very insecure person.
 
Originally posted by: kranky
Sadly, you can't help someone who doesn't want help. He obviously is willing to put up with the short leash for now.

You won't get anywhere by continually badgering him about it. The rest of you should make your plans and let him know that he's welcome to come along.
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I agree !
😉
 
Dude, that is so nothing, my friend is SO much worse.

1. They spend 80% of the day together, every day.
2. She wont go to sleep until he goes to sleep, and that means if we all go to his place to chill, she will be constantly calling him at 3AM. And when it is time for bed, every time, he will say I love you a million times, hang up, she will call back again, they will tell each other how much they miss each other again, and then its HIS duty to call her AGAIN and do the same thing over. He has not gone to bed without these three calls in years.
3. She can not go an hour or two without calling him, and he HAS to pick it up. God forbid he's taking a dump when she calls, if he misses it, he has to apologize profusely. His cell phone broke, so every time he goes out with us, she has to call OUR phones, and we hate that bitch.
4. She has "dumped" him before and told him what a terrible person he was, only to take it back later. But here is the kicker...my ex girlfriend decided to take one for the team a while ago, and went out with his gf so me and my homies could smoke our blunt in peace. Oh lord the things she told my ex like she wouldnt come right back around and tell me. Apparently, she gave him all that sh*t that time so he wouldn't "forget what he has", and basically tore him down and brought him back up to play mind games.
5. She wears black every day. She is trying to go into fashion. That was the hardest time I've ever had to hold in laughter.

I could go on and on, and that is just a taste. But the best part of all.... They have been going out over 2 years, and he hasnt gotten ANY yet. She keeps dangling it over his head, but still after 2 years....nothing.
 
Originally posted by: LordJezo
Originally posted by: axiom
Slap some sense into him. Just psychologically beat it into his head that a relationship is a give an take scenario. Respecting eachother's own needs is part of a healthy, long term bond.
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We try.. everynight.


His response: she bought me a 60 gig hard drive.
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Raise some money, buy him an 80gb drive, fill it with porn and then tell him to dump the bitch.

 
Originally posted by: Skoorb
oh my gawd... that's absolutely brutal.. now i can just picture their life fully from your few paragraphs.. man!! i would not be able to handle that... whoa! i doubt his life is going too much up from here unless he loses the girl and gets in touch with some other human beings again!
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For a long time now he has burried himself in school work. Sadly he's a philosophy major (we all know how sad they are), so basically his life is philosophy and her. He is doing some graduate stuff or something. Then he can teach it. I hope they never have children, but she has such terrible eating habits perhaps she's not healthy enough to have them.
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:Q
from what i can tell... a waste of a good human being! 🙁
 
Originally posted by: BD2003
Dude, that is so nothing, my friend is SO much worse.

1. They spend 80% of the day together, every day.
2. She wont go to sleep until he goes to sleep, and that means if we all go to his place to chill, she will be constantly calling him at 3AM. And when it is time for bed, every time, he will say I love you a million times, hang up, she will call back again, they will tell each other how much they miss each other again, and then its HIS duty to call her AGAIN and do the same thing over. He has not gone to bed without these three calls in years.
3. She can not go an hour or two without calling him, and he HAS to pick it up. God forbid he's taking a dump when she calls, if he misses it, he has to apologize profusely. His cell phone broke, so every time he goes out with us, she has to call OUR phones, and we hate that bitch.
4. She has "dumped" him before and told him what a terrible person he was, only to take it back later. But here is the kicker...my ex girlfriend decided to take one for the team a while ago, and went out with his gf so me and my homies could smoke our blunt in peace. Oh lord the things she told my ex like she wouldnt come right back around and tell me. Apparently, she gave him all that sh*t that time so he wouldn't "forget what he has", and basically tore him down and brought him back up to play mind games.
5. She wears black every day. She is trying to go into fashion. That was the hardest time I've ever had to hold in laughter.

I could go on and on, and that is just a taste. But the best part of all.... They have been going out over 2 years, and he hasnt gotten ANY yet. She keeps dangling it over his head, but still after 2 years....nothing.
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ack! i've had the good fortune of not having met a manipulative bitch like that 🙂
 
Originally posted by: ragazzo
Originally posted by: BD2003
Dude, that is so nothing, my friend is SO much worse.

1. They spend 80% of the day together, every day.
2. She wont go to sleep until he goes to sleep, and that means if we all go to his place to chill, she will be constantly calling him at 3AM. And when it is time for bed, every time, he will say I love you a million times, hang up, she will call back again, they will tell each other how much they miss each other again, and then its HIS duty to call her AGAIN and do the same thing over. He has not gone to bed without these three calls in years.
3. She can not go an hour or two without calling him, and he HAS to pick it up. God forbid he's taking a dump when she calls, if he misses it, he has to apologize profusely. His cell phone broke, so every time he goes out with us, she has to call OUR phones, and we hate that bitch.
4. She has "dumped" him before and told him what a terrible person he was, only to take it back later. But here is the kicker...my ex girlfriend decided to take one for the team a while ago, and went out with his gf so me and my homies could smoke our blunt in peace. Oh lord the things she told my ex like she wouldnt come right back around and tell me. Apparently, she gave him all that sh*t that time so he wouldn't "forget what he has", and basically tore him down and brought him back up to play mind games.
5. She wears black every day. She is trying to go into fashion. That was the hardest time I've ever had to hold in laughter.

I could go on and on, and that is just a taste. But the best part of all.... They have been going out over 2 years, and he hasnt gotten ANY yet. She keeps dangling it over his head, but still after 2 years....nothing.
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ack! i've had the good fortune of not having met a manipulative bitch like that 🙂
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Why is SHE the manipulative bitch?? HE has the option to be around her or not.. Maybe it's something he's lacking also that makes him have a need to be around her?
 
Originally posted by: Ranger X
Tell me he's whipped because she's REALLY HOT. 😛😀
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pics? 😀

But remember folks ... if she's hot, this is a prime example of:

No matter how good she looks
No matter how good she f**ks
Someone
Somewhere
is tired of her $h!t

- M4H
 
She is the manipulative bitch because she plays mind games. He really thought he was going to lose her that day, but it was just a game to her. That isnt the only thing, I could run down the list.

He moved to NYU while he was with her, and she goes to a nearby school. Since they spend all their time together, he hasnt had a chance to make new friends. He left all his other friends behind when he left our college, which is a 2 hour trip away, so we see him every once in a while on the weekends. He has barely any social life, and if he were to dump her, he would be out a job (works for her parents) and he would have nothing to do every day. I suppose right now he is choosing the lesser of two evils, which I guess I can understand. He knows something is up, and he tried to break up with her, but she said NO. So they are trying to work it out, she is trying to be less suffocating, but we all know shes just playing with his mind again.

And for the record, she is a nasty, ugly busted ass biatch.
 
You friend isn't whipped, he just has different priorities... more primal ones... Power to him
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I have no respect for "men" who are bullied by women. And I'd never prioritize getting head over having self respect for myself as a man. How can he live with himself? That's just sad.

As a friend, you should seriously do something about this situation.
 
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