My fiance did not know how a 4 way stop works

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Vic

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There's a very dangerous 4-way stop near my house, and I deal with this every day.

Simple rules.
- Use your turn signal. I don't know if you're turning if you don't tell me.
- Come to a complete stop. You'd think this one would be obvious, but apparently despite the big red signs it's not.
- Whoever arrives at the intersection first goes first. Regardless of whether or not they are on the right or left, turning or going straight.
- If 2 or more cars arrive at the same time, whoever is on the farthest right goes first, regardless of whether they are turning or going straight.
- And most importantly, never insist on the right-of-way. While some cars are supposed to yield the right-of-way in certain circumstances, no one ever actually has the right-of-way.
 

PingSpike

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Originally posted by: fs5
sorry but you sound like an asshat in that conversation:
"Yeah, I'm sure. I've driven through about 1 million 4 way stops. You've been driving for like 3 years and you don't know how 4 way stops work...How do you think they work?"

This happened 3-4 months ago..the dialog is paraphrased. I don't even remember how the conversation went down anymore, I may have just thought that.
 

dquan97

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Originally posted by: AMDZen
But, if 2 people are at the stop at the exact same time, then who goes first?


Its always the person to the right I believe.

Usually its the person who doesn't hesitate
 

PingSpike

Lifer
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Originally posted by: Baked
Originally posted by: PingSpike
My fiance is a very smart and level headed woman. She has much better reasoning skills than the majority of women I've met (one of the main reasons I'm marrying her). She went to a harder school and did better at it then I

Yeah, I can see why.

Baked deals 21 damage to PingSpike with "Sword of the Grammericon"!
 

Jzero

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Originally posted by: Vic
- And most importantly, never insist on the right-of-way. While some cars are supposed to yield the right-of-way in certain circumstances, no one ever actually has the right-of-way.

And if you give up the right of way voluntarily, you cannot take it back. My mom almost got hit once when some dude flashed her to tell her to go but then when she didn't go instantly, he decided to go instead.

Anyway, I always try not to come to a stop at the same time as anyone else to avoid this kind of stuff.
 

PingSpike

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My simple rules for 4 way stops:
Wait your turn.
In the event of hesitation by another drive, I go first.
In the event of reaching the stop at the same time as another vehicle, I go first.

Thats it.
 

feralkid

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Originally posted by: DougK62
Not surprising considering how easy it is to get a license. A chimpanzee can answer 15 out of 20 questions correctly and drive around a city block.



True; but how do you get rid of the smell?
 

PingSpike

Lifer
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Originally posted by: JackBurton
No big deal man, most people don't know how to use the FVCKING LEFT LANE ON THE HIGHWAY! :|

She knows that so she's still at least 500 times better than the average driver, IMO. GET THE FVCK OUT OF MY WAY ASSHOLE! STOP PASSING AT 55MPH DOUCHEBAG!
 

KingPhil

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Originally posted by: Nebor
I hate 4 way stops to this day. I avoid them when possible. When I can't avoid them, I just wait until people start honking at me to go.

I hate drivers like you......... hahaha
 

SearchMaster

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Originally posted by: Queasy
I'm constantly amazed how many drivers in Atlanta treat an interesection where the main road lights are flashing yellow and the small road lights are flashing red like a freaking 4-way stop.
A-mother-flippen-men. Gawd that annoys me.
 

VirtualLarry

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Originally posted by: Nebor
I hate 4 way stops to this day. I avoid them when possible. When I can't avoid them, I just wait until people start honking at me to go.

Which is worse though - four-way stops, or relatively high-speed rotaries? (Don't forget the dual-lane rotaries - those are fun. I'm sure that watching from above in a helicopter, the cars must look like food being spun around in a blender.)
 

Zebo

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Ladies first is how I learned them.

Originally posted by: cjgallen
The woman in the lifted truck on her cell phone always goes first.

 

VirtualLarry

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Originally posted by: Queasy
I'm constantly amazed how many drivers in Atlanta treat an interesection where the main road lights are flashing yellow and the small road lights are flashing red like a freaking 4-way stop.
During a cross-country trip, almost got t-boned in a volvo station-wagon, by someone else approaching the light, it was flashing yellow our way, and as it turned out, flashing red their way, but apparently no-one was actually stopping for that light. It was in the middle of no-where, traffic was pretty light, apparently no-one bothered. Unfortunately, due to the laws of physics and thermodynamics, it's generally better for the human passengers inside for the traffic on at least one of the roads to give way to the other. Call it a vehicular near-miss in a volvo at 45mph. Literally... inches. (No, I wasn't the one driving, guess the fellow that was, was a bit more tired from the cross-country trek than I had realized, starting out that morning. :| )

 

rh71

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it's simple... first come first go, same time, car on the right goes.
 

GeekDrew

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How can anyone not know that...?

/me shakes head

Of course, this shouldn't surprise me, since I know that apparently most people in central Ohio have not yet figured out that tractor trailers, farm machinery, etc., *DO* take more room to turn than your typical two door 'economy' car...
 

SkyBum

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Similar situation with My ex-wife (PhD) one day. We were driving through a parking lot and there was a deep hole where they were getting ready to put up a light pole.

Her: Why are they digging that big hole?
Me: So they can set the end of that new light pole in concrete.
Her: So why do they put the concrete in a hole?
Me: Well, if they didnt set the end of the pole and the concrete underground it'd tip over.
Her: But the concrete sticks it to the parking lot.
Me: No, you cant really use concrete like glue to stick stuff to pavement.
Her: Wow, I thought all these light poles were just stuck to the parking lot by the cement.
Me: You mean sorta like they just stick buildings to the ground with summa that sticky cement?
Her: They do? I thought the basements held them down.
Me: Hmmmm....maybe the basement is what keeps 'em from getting sucked into a tornado.
Her: Exactly. That's why I wanted a house with a basement.