My father is coming to visit...

[slycat]

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I have been many years training in the Way of strategy, called Ni Ten Ichi Ryu, and now I think I will explain it in writing for the first time. It is now during the first ten days of the tenth month in the twentieth year of Kanei. I have climbed mountain Iwato of Higo in Kyushu to pay homage to heaven, pray to Kwannon, and kneel before Buddha. I am a warrior of Harima province, Shinmen Musashi No Kami Fujiwara No Genshin, age sixty years.

me looney huh?

 

[Hubris]

Did he say WHY he wanted to come see you now? Did he ask you to pay, or did you offer?

IF he's looking to make peace with you, and you can afford it, I would suggest trying it out. But from the things you say he did, he doesn't sound like he's worth it: telling someone they can't come to a funeral because he'll have to explain who they are is BS. It's like denying your sister exists, which hurts hardcore. And taking a piano is BS, too.

I don't see why you would want to give him a chance, but if he's really trying, then it might be worth it to you.

 

[Riprorin]

You're a good man, slycat.

I hope everything works out for the best and and you are able to reconcile with your dad.

 

[slycat]

Originally posted by: Hubris
Did he say WHY he wanted to come see you now? Did he ask you to pay, or did you offer?

IF he's looking to make peace with you, and you can afford it, I would suggest trying it out. But from the things you say he did, he doesn't sound like he's worth it: telling someone they can't come to a funeral because he'll have to explain who they are is BS. It's like denying your sister exists, which hurts hardcore. And taking a piano is BS, too.

I don't see why you would want to give him a chance, but if he's really trying, then it might be worth it to you.

i'll answer what i can..coz others i really don't know.
i don't really know why he's coming. he's old and sis says how about tabbing a vacation for him?..coz he never really
been to many countries/vacation much. he does go out with my sis tho'...for lunch/dinner..etc, just not openly
with his other family. his new kids know we exist though.