Updates:
Twin bed project:
Was looking for a quality kid-sized bed. Already had a blanket & a couple pillows. Started out with the shorter 14" bed frame - less storage underneath than the 18" model, but also less painful for kids to roll off of because of the shorter drop. You definitely need the non-skid rug because even memory foam beds will slide off of the metal frame. Decided to try out a very short mattress to see how it compared to thicker memory foam mattresses; not bad, but you can still kind of feel the frame; the 2" topper helped by being squishy (dunno about the gel part because it just feels like foam & not sure about the cooling part either), and at 8" total with the bed, made the overall height 22" (vs. an 18" bed with a 12" mattress = 30" high). It's comfy, but not something I'd want to sleep on long-term - but great for children.
Also got a pair of twin sheets (tried out Amazon Basics, they're fine - 100% polyester microfiber) & a pair of mattress protectors (basically a waterproof fitted sheet, which is really important to get because memory foam will suck up fluids, so if your kids throw up in bed or wet the bed, your mattress is hosed without them). The protectors were pretty pricey at $27 each, but are machine-washable, which is nice. I keep the spare sheets & protector under the bed in a bed for conveniently swapping out bedding every week for laundry day or for if the sheets get soiled.
I initially considered a Casper bed ($450 with the $50 off coupon that's always floating around) & then a Leesa bed (a bit cheaper at $425 with the $75 off coupon they always have, not including the $25 Target gift card because you're still paying $425 OTD for the mattress). My bed is a memory foam bed from Bob's Discount Furniture (budget-friendly New England furniture store chain) & is actually extremely high quality; my guess is that the Casper, Leesa, and other competing beds are equal in quality to that model. The Zinus Sleep Master is more of a cheap but nice memory foam bed, so if you want to jump into memory foam on a budget, it's a great deal. I paid about $300 shipped for everything (BYO blanket & pillows), which included a very sturdy metal frame & non-skid pad, 6" foam mattress & 2" gel topper, and a pair of twin sheets & waterproof mattress protectors. That's $125 less than just the plain Leesa bed with no frame or other accessories for nearly a complete bed system. Here are links to everything:
Queen bed project:
This is our guest bed, or the one we use when someone gets sick & needs to be isolated in quarantine, haha. I had a cold recently & slept on my ancient queen mattress & woke up with back pain due to the old, smooshed coils, so that got chucked. Ended up getting another Zinus mattress, this time the thicker 12" Green Tea line, which is made up of:
- 3" memory foam
- 2" comfort foam
- 3.5" airflow high-density foam
- 3.5" airfow high-density base support foam
The 12" mattress height actually isn't all that high; I think my old pillowtop queen was actually like a 16" because you practically had to jump onto the bed to get on top of it when it was placed on the 18" bed frame. The 18" frame & 12" bed is very easy to get into. The bed itself is pretty firm; I may pick up a gel pad to go on top of it. The sheets are brushed microfiber (100% polyster) & feel a bit nicer than the Amazon Basics ones I got for the twin bed ($12 than the Amazon ones in queen size, but I think it'd be safe to say it's worth the few extra bucks). They are thin, but nice-feeling. I tried a different brand of mattress protector this time - Lucid, which has a cotton terry surface and polyurethane backing, so there's a tiny bit of cush to the top, whereas the Malouf one I got for the twin is just a polyster fabric surface (thin & slick). Just depends on what type of surface you want under your fitted sheet, I guess - fwiw, the Lucid is half the price of the Malouf in queen, so I'd lean towards that one (plus it has a bit of added softness). Price was about $525 shipped for the 18" metal frame & non-skid pad, 12" mattress, and two sets of sheets & protectors. Compared to the Casper queen mattress at $800, that's a $275 savings with the added benefit of a frame & sheets. Links to everything:
Again, my guess is that the Casper & Leesa compare better to higher-end beds, but I would say that this Zinus bed for $289 is 90% as good as my Bob's Discount Furniture memory foam bed, and would probably be 95% as good with the 2" gel topper (that tacks on another $60 to $100, depending on the brand you get, which is still half the price of those online bed-in-a-box options). A bit hard to compare everything without trying everything out, so if I ever get the chance to check out a Casper or Leesa, I'll write a review!
Weighted blanket project:
I like to sleep with a lot of weight on me & usually have a few blankets piled on top of my sheet. I recently heard about weighted blankets for soldiers with PTSD & kids with special needs and decided to look into it. They've done some studies showing that the blankets are basically a form of deep-touch therapy, which is useful for reducing anxiety & insomnia. Like a good hug, it's supposed to be able to calm you down. This was a splurge, as they are really expensive to buy pre-made (mine was $225 plus a discount code for $22 off, plus $43 shipping, which is kind of insane in this day & age), but since I had saved so much money by not going with a Casper or Leesa, I went for the 54x78" minky blanket at 24 pounds (adult blankets range between 15 to 30 pounds; 24 was the heaviest available from
Magic Weighted Blanket). Note that they are super easy to make & can be built at home for around $40, if you have any kind of sewing skills or friends with sewing skills (I don't have either, unfortunately).
In short, it's the bomb! It is surprisingly heavy & a bit difficult to pick up & move around because of how the weight distribution is handled (basically a soft outside with little bean bag sections sown in on the inside), but I really like it so far. Although I'm a somewhat big dude, I think 24 pounds is just a bit too heavy; at the right angle, it can affect breathing, haha. If I were to order again, I'd buy the next step down (18 pounds...but remember, the weight is distributed over the entire blanket), but having used this for a few days, I think I can get used to it. The extra weight gives you a pressure almost like when you're comfortably floating on your back in a pool with the water all around you; it's actually pretty relaxing & I've fallen asleep really quickly since I started using it. Plus I only have to pull one blanket over me & I'm all set for having a nice, heavy weight to get comfortable under, instead of a giant pile that I usually end up kicking off in the middle of the night.
One other thing I ordered (still waiting on delivery), is Nest latex & memory foam pillows. I ordered one of each. Another not-cheap buy, but I've been through half a dozen pillows in the last couple of years & have been waking up with kinks in the neck lately, so it's really time for me to invest in some quality pillows (getting old, ftl). I'm hoping these do the trick! They are the
best-rated pillows on Sleepopolis. Regarding the overall cost & technology of bedding, this is one of the few areas where I'm willing to spend at least a bit of money...a good-quality bed & good-quality shoes. After years of toe & foot pain, I finally invested in a good pair of New Balance shoes with custom inserts & BOY were they worth the money. I feel the same way about my Bob's memory foam bed...it was over a grand at the time (~5 years ago), but I would buy it again in a heartbeat because I sleep so much better now.