What's the commute to downtown SF like? do you take BART in?
I take a bus (and sometimes BART) to...downtown Berkeley about 5 miles south. That's either, 5 min or 20-30 minutes.
However, BART from the El Cerrito station to, eh, ~Powellish station is about 30min, I think? during rush hour times.
It's not bad--certainly quicker than my daily El trips from North Chicago to Hyde Park (still in effing Chicago) that took about 1.2 hours each way.
Also, fair warning, and it's good that you are coming out here to look, as property listings are always incredibly misleading for this region. Example:
http://sfbay.craigslist.org/eby/apa/4750576514.html
claims Albany/El Cerrito, rent is ridiculous....and of course that means Richmond. ....You don't want to be in Richmond. It is also best to be able to drive around the neighborhoods, even if it is a nice town or area, the immediate area could be the suck.
As Magnus suggested earlier, that was also a huge shock to me, moving out here from Chicago 6 years ago. We were staying in South Berkeley at the time while looking for a place. You call, you set up a appointments based on decent photos--you show up, and the whole area is just...blech. concrete flatness and busy streets everywhere. depressing industrial/urban type of landscape. You just have to spend some time to find the right neighborhood, and my suggestion would be to find something that you are willing to make temporary when you first move out here, to give yourself more time to move after 4 or 6 months when you get a better feel for the area.
Yes, moving so often sucks balls, but it would be worth it, frankly, giving that you will go through the same adjustment that everyone goes through.
Also: sell everything before you move. Everything--SELL IT! At least, everything that you don't absolutely need. There's an Ikea out here, too, and it's just as cheap as anywhere else.
