Originally posted by: vivy310
Originally posted by: SoylentGreen
Originally posted by: waggy
Originally posted by: Kelvrick
Originally posted by: waggy
Originally posted by: Kelvrick
Originally posted by: waggy
did as you said and read the last paragraph. a block of crap is a pain to read.
ok i been in a few bad motocycle accidents. last one really messed up my right hip. BUT HE IS A LOSER..wait let me change that. HE WAS A LOSER.
he took his life? pfft he had a 3 year old son. while i do feel sorry for him for getting so messed up from it he still had a reason to live. now what is his son going to do without a father? pfft.
Shut up. So did you even read the whole thing? He's going to lose his house, bills piling up, what is he going to do with his son, go live in a car? The way he got fvcked up, its unlikely he coulda got back on his feet financially because it'll be pretty damn hard to get back on his feet financially. Dying probably eliminated all his bills right there, at least taking the burdon off of his family.
yeah good idea.
have a child go without his father! yeah thats a great idea! no there is no other way like bankruptcy or disability or such heck no. blowing his brains out was a better idea. yeap smart man. oh and better off for his family! yeap do kids need a father? heck no! they play no part in raising a healthy kid at all!
I guess you'ven ever heard of anyone ever becoming a good person that was raised without a father? Never heard of single parenting? Hell, all my dad ever do was fight with my mom and gamble away our house, cars, and make me move from house to house with my mom, brother, and two sisters about 4 times within 3 years after the divorce. Yea, I couldn't have lived without that sh1t
EDIT: No use in arguing any more, it does neither of us any good because we're not going to convince the other of anything.
yeah i know it happens. My wife's best friend is raising a great little boy. the father decided he was not ready to be a father (at 17 and took off). This kid is great! i take him fishing, to baseball games whenever i can.
But it is rare. It is best if both parents can raise the child. But you are right it can and does happen. Just the odds are so stacked against the kid now.
Quite judgemental from your little computer chair, aren't you.
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Waggy is a jerk
Quite judgemental is severely understating it.
The wisest thing for you would be to shut the hell up.
As people have said, it is quite easy to pass out imprudent judgement, especially if you are in good health and your life isn't as bad as that which you are judging.
As for your rash and frankly brutish comments portraying the Motorcycle driver, I must comment that it would be in your best interests to reevaluate your menthods of communication.
This man did not lose his possesions. He lost his BODY.
What good could he have been to his son? Seriosuly. Frankly. He would have been a nuisance or a grevious responsibility, and would cause his son more pity than joy.
Although society greatly respects and admires the emotional and psychological aspects of the father and son relationship, it is important that we do not thrive in hypocrisy. Physcial aspects and responisibilities do play a significant role in child development. Perhaps the child would benefit from the epathy that he would develop while taking care of his father, but that would still mean that that would be time spent away from playing with friends. Those are obviously simple and undeveloped examples, but with time, you could easily come up with one of your own.
Basically, try to think of it from the POV of the father. He had lost all self-respect becuase he had physically lost his capable physical body, and in his opinion his reason for living did not outweigh his mental and physical pain.
He made a choice, and I respect his decision because franky, i will not allow myself to be so petty as to judge someone who has lost everything for the sake of coming off as the greatest person ever to live.
As a brutishly honest man, i will admit that in such a situation, his choice would not be out of the question for me. I would rather have my family remember me for the joy I brought them than for the sadness. If anything, my goal in life is to achieve such success as to leave everyone happy for having known me when I die.
Let the man die in peace. He was no a loser. He was indeed human.
Antagonistic comment that I hopefulyl will not regret:
You animal.