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Skyclad1uhm1

Lifer
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I wouldn't mind it. Just like I wouldn't mind it if the girl decides to stick with her name or take my last name. As long as the chosen name doesn't sound silly.

 

rbV5

Lifer
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John Wayne's real name = Marion Robert Morrison. First his parents changed it because they wanted to reuse his middle name for his new brother, then the studio changed it for his first film without him being present.

at least this was this dude's choice, I don't see a problem.

I'd consider changing mine to a single name like "Bono" when I get cool enough. Maybe the wife could go with "Cher", we could be like Bono and Cher.
 

zerocool84

Lifer
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Originally posted by: rbV5
John Wayne's real name = Marion Robert Morrison. First his parents changed it because they wanted to reuse his middle name for his new brother, then the studio changed it for his first film without him being present.

at least this was this dude's choice, I don't see a problem.

I'd consider changing mine to a single name like "Bono" when I get cool enough. Maybe the wife could go with "Cher", we could be like Bono and Cher.

I'd change my name to Max Power. I found it on a hair dryer.
 

seemingly random

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Originally posted by: spidey07
Originally posted by: MotF Bane
Originally posted by: spidey07
The emaciation of the male continues. Fuck that.

:laugh:

SPIDEYFAIL!

:(
When are you going to learn that you get into trouble drunk-posting?

I don't know if you become flippant or drop all pretenses, becoming glaringly forthright. It would appear that you and your girl would be happier in the 50s-60s as represented in 'mad men'.
 

seemingly random

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Originally posted by: Leros
Originally posted by: Exterous
Originally posted by: lxskllr
I'd never change my last name. I'd be cool with my wife keeping hers though.

:thumbsup: - which is exactly what happened

What do you do with the kids?

I don't want my kids to have a dashed last name (Wife-Husband). What are your kid's kids going to be named? (Wife1-Husband1-Wife2-Husband2)?
Hyphenated-names bug me also. It's a pyramid scheme. The spanish can attest to trying to give the family lineage in a last name. I assume a woman who would insist on a hyphenated last name also has a problem with the word history. This is not a very progressive opinion but - oh, well.
 

xSauronx

Lifer
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Originally posted by: spidey07
Talked with the girl about this. I was all excited as we both play golf - "Just think honey! You're initials will be PAR"

Then she said "Umm, i'd have my last name as my maiden name so I lose my middle you dummy"
:(

my sis and mom both did that. my sister actually used first middle new surname...but she signed EVERYTHING first, last, new surname...so she went and legally changed it to that.
 

rbV5

Lifer
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Originally posted by: zerocool84
Originally posted by: rbV5
John Wayne's real name = Marion Robert Morrison. First his parents changed it because they wanted to reuse his middle name for his new brother, then the studio changed it for his first film without him being present.

at least this was this dude's choice, I don't see a problem.

I'd consider changing mine to a single name like "Bono" when I get cool enough. Maybe the wife could go with "Cher", we could be like Bono and Cher.

I'd change my name to Max Power. I found it on a hair dryer.

Also, a crazy mixup with your occupation would be cool....Dr. Cranston Fumbles, Ecoli Meatman or Father Devilan Satan.
 

TwiceOver

Lifer
Dec 20, 2002
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A friend of mine and his new wife decided on a new last name. When their wedding invite arrived in the mail I didn't know who it was so I just chucked it in a pile of stuff to go through. I got a call the week before asking if I was coming to the wedding (8hr drive).
 

NFS4

No Lifer
Oct 9, 1999
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Originally posted by: Marlin1975
Originally posted by: Delita
He sounds like a pussy

So women that take their husbands name are weak bitches?

No, it's simply tradition for them -- at least in the U.S. My wife was quite fond of her last name, because she is proud of her Greek heritage. So she dropped her middle name (which she never liked) and made her maiden name her new middle name. And of course, she took my last name.

She signs most everything first name, last name. She only uses her middle name when required.

I'd be pretty pissed if she didn't take my last name or did the hyphen bullshit.
 

Vette73

Lifer
Jul 5, 2000
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Originally posted by: NFS4
Originally posted by: Marlin1975
Originally posted by: Delita
He sounds like a pussy

So women that take their husbands name are weak bitches?

No, it's simply tradition for them -- at least in the U.S.

Tradition starts and ends at some point and new ones take over... or you still be picking tabacco/cotton in NC. ;)
 

Delita

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Originally posted by: Marlin1975
Originally posted by: NFS4
Originally posted by: Marlin1975
Originally posted by: Delita
He sounds like a pussy

So women that take their husbands name are weak bitches?

No, it's simply tradition for them -- at least in the U.S.

Tradition starts and ends at some point and new ones take over... or you still be picking tabacco/cotton in NC. ;)

That's racist!
 

NFS4

No Lifer
Oct 9, 1999
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Originally posted by: Marlin1975
Originally posted by: NFS4
Originally posted by: Marlin1975
Originally posted by: Delita
He sounds like a pussy

So women that take their husbands name are weak bitches?

No, it's simply tradition for them -- at least in the U.S.

Tradition starts and ends at some point and new ones take over... or you still be picking tabacco/cotton in NC. ;)

Meh, but this is one tradition that you won't see me bucking -- and I wouldn't equate slavery with changing ones name anyway.
 

rudder

Lifer
Nov 9, 2000
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I would do it. Then I could finally travel to all the wonderful places where I have outstanding warrants.
 

Vette73

Lifer
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Originally posted by: NFS4
Originally posted by: Marlin1975
Originally posted by: NFS4
Originally posted by: Marlin1975
Originally posted by: Delita
He sounds like a pussy

So women that take their husbands name are weak bitches?

No, it's simply tradition for them -- at least in the U.S.

Tradition starts and ends at some point and new ones take over... or you still be picking tabacco/cotton in NC. ;)

Meh, but this is one tradition that you won't see me bucking -- and I wouldn't equate slavery with changing ones name anyway.

Kunta Kinte...

Toby?


:p
 

0roo0roo

No Lifer
Sep 21, 2002
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Originally posted by: NFS4
Originally posted by: Marlin1975
Originally posted by: NFS4
Originally posted by: Marlin1975
Originally posted by: Delita
He sounds like a pussy

So women that take their husbands name are weak bitches?

No, it's simply tradition for them -- at least in the U.S.

Tradition starts and ends at some point and new ones take over... or you still be picking tabacco/cotton in NC. ;)

Meh, but this is one tradition that you won't see me bucking -- and I wouldn't equate slavery with changing ones name anyway.

bingo, the same women pushing for this kind of nonsense hardly ever refuse an engagement ring because it represents a purchase of her as a person..and is unequal.

 

surfsatwerk

Lifer
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I'd be damned if I ever changed my last name, but imo the worst is people with hyphenated last names. Indecisive nutbars need to pick a name and stick with it.
 

NFS4

No Lifer
Oct 9, 1999
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Originally posted by: surfsatwerk
I'd be damned if I ever changed my last night, but imo the worst is people with hyphenated last names. Indecisive nutbars need to pick a name and stick with it.

What about last night do you not want to change?
 

SunnyD

Belgian Waffler
Jan 2, 2001
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I would have, and in fact I asked my wife if I could have her last name. I have one of the few Polish last names that really isn't spelled the same as it sounds. It came down to the lesser of two evils - be associated with her family or have my last name. We chose the latter, as living with a fucked up last name is far more tolerable.
 

TheVrolok

Lifer
Dec 11, 2000
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I'm not changing my last name, and I wouldn't mind my wife is she wanted to keep hers especially if she were a professional where name recognition were important (Doctor, Lawyer, etc.). But my kids are taking my last name, and we're not doing any of that hyphenation non-sense.