Originally posted by: jpbelauskas
Originally posted by: Citrix
Originally posted by: jbourne77
Originally posted by: Safeway
Originally posted by: jbourne77
Originally posted by: Safeway
I would say ... no fvcking way.
There are a billion things that could, and mostly likely will, go wrong:
1) Your daughter will get HIV/AIDS
2) Her maybe husband will die
3) Her maybe husband will give her AIDS and then die
4) Her maybe husband will give her AIDS and then both die
5) ...
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See, there is never a "5) Profit". Nothing good can come of it.
How about #14: It's no one's choice but the daughter's. She is not a mindless cog put here to serve her father's wishes. She is an adult with her own decisions to make.
I'm sorry, but someone that is willing to potentially seed HIV/AIDS is someone that doesn't know the value of life. And if she gets HIV/AIDS? And if she gets pregnant and doesn't want to abort the birth? And if she gives birth to an HIV/AIDS child?
It is just her life she is affecting. So you take your "it's her choice" bullshit and stuff it up your ass, where it belongs.
It IS her choice, no matter how many times you try to convince yourselves otherwise. I know it affects other people, but it's still HER CHOICE. Anyone who would threaten to disown their children like this shouldn't have children in the first place. I feel sorry for your children (or future children).
yea keep going with the "its her choice" sh*t. it isnt that cut and dry. as may other people have pointed out "her choice" will effect many more people than her and her future husband. If she marries this guy and get infected with HIV then has a kid, then husbands health takes a bad turn and they cant afford the meds or hospital time. husband dies. then daughter who is HIV+ along with a kid who is HIV+ cant support themselves and need help. who are they gonna call?
it may be "her choice" but its a cruel choice and not fair to her family members to be put in that situation.
{b]wrong.
It's cruel for her family not to support a decision she has made regarding a very special event.[/b] she has made the choice to get married to someone she loves. her choice and her right as an adult. as parents they have two choices. accept and be happy for her and encourage her to be as knowledgeable about aids/hiv as possible, or two, whine and cry about it forever alienating themselves from their daughter.
to the OP, Have you even met this man? have you given yourselves the chance to see beyond the disease to heart of the person your daughter fell in love with? or did you do what most typical asian families do and already snub him because he is "different"?
before you go calling me out as a racist, i am asian, I know exactly what I am talking about. see the real person behind the disease and make your decision based on that. he is still human and deserves human love and compassion as much as the next person, regardless and your daughter has decided to give her heart to him.
as for the fear of contracting the disease, read up on it some more. the chances are not as high as you may think if your daughter and future husband practiced safe sexual relations. as a father, it is your DUTY (as much as it is her own) to educate her and him on the matter.