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cmdrmoocow

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Originally posted by: BigDonJohnson
I'm a supervisor at the Best Buy and she is a senior. 2 Totally different departments.

Rhin0: It's easy to hit it when u don't respect it. I didn't want to move too fast but since she doesn't want a relationship, maybe thats a sign that she just needs to get slammed.



You're walking a tightrope with that kind of work relationship. If thinks go arwy, it will be very, very bad.
 

BigDonJohnson

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Originally posted by: cmdrmoocow
Originally posted by: BigDonJohnson
I'm a supervisor at the Best Buy and she is a senior. 2 Totally different departments.

Rhin0: It's easy to hit it when u don't respect it. I didn't want to move too fast but since she doesn't want a relationship, maybe thats a sign that she just needs to get slammed.



You're walking a tightrope with that kind of work relationship. If thinks go arwy, it will be very, very bad.



Yeah I take my job very seriously and I really don't want to risk my job. Maybe I shouldn't just hit it unless she goes for the first grab.
 

cmdrmoocow

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Hold on now.... heading over after midnight on a sunday night? Why are you even questioning if she wants to hit it?

What you should be questioning is how you're going to deal with working with her afterwards.
 

z0mb13

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Originally posted by: UncleWai
She is using you as a diaper,
she will dispose you once she's done sh!tting around with you.

what is that term?

oh yeah you are her emotional tampon

:D:D
 

her209

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Originally posted by: BigDonJohnson
Can't find them. She's fvckin smokin tho, I"m impressed with myself.
Until you post tehm, I'm calling SHENS.
 

MrDudeMan

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Originally posted by: BigDonJohnson
Originally posted by: cmdrmoocow
Originally posted by: BigDonJohnson
I'm a supervisor at the Best Buy and she is a senior. 2 Totally different departments.

Rhin0: It's easy to hit it when u don't respect it. I didn't want to move too fast but since she doesn't want a relationship, maybe thats a sign that she just needs to get slammed.



You're walking a tightrope with that kind of work relationship. If thinks go arwy, it will be very, very bad.



Yeah I take my job very seriously and I really don't want to risk my job. Maybe I shouldn't just hit it unless she goes for the first grab.

i think you just gave yourself some very good advice. either that or ask her where its going and what she expects out of the relationship...i certainly wouldnt go browsing the female parts store without a membership card in this situation.
 

BigDonJohnson

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Originally posted by: Bigsm00th
Originally posted by: BigDonJohnson
Originally posted by: cmdrmoocow
Originally posted by: BigDonJohnson
I'm a supervisor at the Best Buy and she is a senior. 2 Totally different departments.

Rhin0: It's easy to hit it when u don't respect it. I didn't want to move too fast but since she doesn't want a relationship, maybe thats a sign that she just needs to get slammed.



You're walking a tightrope with that kind of work relationship. If thinks go arwy, it will be very, very bad.




Yeah I take my job very seriously and I really don't want to risk my job. Maybe I shouldn't just hit it unless she goes for the first grab.

i think you just gave yourself some very good advice. either that or ask her where its going and what she expects out of the relationship...i certainly wouldnt go browsing the female parts store without a membership card in this situation.


Good point. It's a weird situation.

As for the shens, I have no reason to lie, just buddy that was hosting the pics is on holidays and his domain isn't up right now.
 

BigDonJohnson

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Originally posted by: Yossarian
you are the cuddle bitch. congratulations.


Yeah when she says that she still wants to cuddle. That TOTALLY makes me the cuddle bitch, doesn't it? I've never been a cuddle bitch before :eek:
 

Nitemare

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Pants accidentally fall down....


"Whoops...It's not going to hit itself"


Works everytime
 

MrDudeMan

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if you take work seriously as you say, but you are also interested in this girl and respect her, i think your only option is to ask her where the relationship is going. getting physical probably isnt a good idea at this stage, especially if you are the cuddle biznatch. you could ruin something great by being a moron here, so pick your moves wisely.
 

Sentinel

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How many times do you nOObs have to ask this sh!t? Here's the deal- she wants your manhood, you want her womanhood. What is the problem, stop acting LIKE A GIRL. FSCK.
 

ttown

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One more day and you'll officially enter "The Friend Zone"

Once you're there, there's no going back... or should I say, no going further
 

Rhin0

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Originally posted by: BigDonJohnson
I'm a supervisor at the Best Buy and she is a senior. 2 Totally different departments.

Rhin0: It's easy to hit it when u don't respect it. I didn't want to move too fast but since she doesn't want a relationship, maybe thats a sign that she just needs to get slammed.

I can understand that. It is just WEIRD she is coming over till 4AM and thats it. I mean you don't have to nail it first week if you respect it but this was obviously a "its fun to hang out you can be like one of the girls" deal

sucks, sorry to hear that

g/l
 

Siddhartha

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"Now today we talked about how she wasnt really looking for a relationship,"

This says it all. I have not gone through the other pages of this thread yet. But if a woman said that to me I would take it to mean she is not interested in any form of intimacy.

If you are looking for more than friendship,

Move on