This is a blatant lie. Only a man is forced by the state to perform deeds based on having sex.
Women are free to opt out of responsibility by
(1) Having abortion
(2) Safe Haven laws.
Stop lying. If you can only argue your point by lying, that's a sign you are wrong.
In all of those cases the responsibility for both parties is at all times the same. At all times each party has control of their own bodies and in each case both parents have an identical responsibility towards the state at all times.
You are requesting either asymmetrical control over people's bodies or asymmetric responsibility. I'm sorry but we believe in equality for all in this case, so we cannot permit you to give men special privileges no matter how many times you keep asking for them.