Men are insensitive jerks...

[Leper Messiah]

Originally posted by: EyeMWing
I'm not an insensitive jerk. Womens tend to confide in me because they see me as someone they can trust and will pay attention.

But you're not a womens, are you? Otherwise you wouldn't be posting this on Anandtech, home of every supposedly sensitive straight male on earth.

Yeah, but you never get off the friend ladder.

 

[Siva]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
but porn is getting boring. Am I doomed?

Men aren't insensitive jerks, they are just called that because they aren't overly sensitive crybabies. Well that's not true, but they aren't overly sensitive crybabies as much as women are

 

[EyeMWing]

Originally posted by: Leper Messiah

Originally posted by: EyeMWing
I'm not an insensitive jerk. Womens tend to confide in me because they see me as someone they can trust and will pay attention.

But you're not a womens, are you? Otherwise you wouldn't be posting this on Anandtech, home of every supposedly sensitive straight male on earth.

Yeah, but you never get off the friend ladder.

Ladder Theory has some pretty big flaws in my experience. It's RIGHT, but it's not dead on. It's attempting to shoehorn logic into the explanation inherently illogical female mind. It's a surface observation of what goes on in general. Behind the scenes, in places that only the fated cuddle b!tch can see, there are much more complex processes going on. Even if I never succeed myself - I'll at least learn enough to allow someone in the next generation to come closer than I had to that understanding.

 

[Leper Messiah]

Originally posted by: EyeMWing

Originally posted by: Leper Messiah

Originally posted by: EyeMWing
I'm not an insensitive jerk. Womens tend to confide in me because they see me as someone they can trust and will pay attention.

But you're not a womens, are you? Otherwise you wouldn't be posting this on Anandtech, home of every supposedly sensitive straight male on earth.

Yeah, but you never get off the friend ladder.

Ladder Theory has some pretty big flaws in my experience. It's RIGHT, but it's not dead on. It's attempting to shoehorn logic into the explanation inherently illogical female mind. It's a surface observation of what goes on in general. Behind the scenes, in places that only the fated cuddle b!tch can see, there are much more complex processes going on. Even if I never succeed myself - I'll at least learn enough to allow someone in the next generation to come closer than I had to that understanding.

way to take one for the team. :thumbsup:

 

[nakedfrog]

Originally posted by: EyeMWing
Ladder Theory has some pretty big flaws in my experience. It's RIGHT, but it's not dead on. It's attempting to shoehorn logic into the explanation inherently illogical female mind. It's a surface observation of what goes on in general. Behind the scenes, in places that only the fated cuddle b!tch can see, there are much more complex processes going on. Even if I never succeed myself - I'll at least learn enough to allow someone in the next generation to come closer than I had to that understanding.

I don't think it will do any good. If they suspect that we're beginning to understand them, they'll change the rules on us.

 

[dug777]

Originally posted by: nakedfrog

Originally posted by: EyeMWing
Ladder Theory has some pretty big flaws in my experience. It's RIGHT, but it's not dead on. It's attempting to shoehorn logic into the explanation inherently illogical female mind. It's a surface observation of what goes on in general. Behind the scenes, in places that only the fated cuddle b!tch can see, there are much more complex processes going on. Even if I never succeed myself - I'll at least learn enough to allow someone in the next generation to come closer than I had to that understanding.

I don't think it will do any good. If they suspect that we're beginning to understand them, they'll change the rules on us.

QFTx777

 

[EatSpam]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: joshsquall

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
but porn is getting boring. Am I doomed?

Try a woman out. Maybe you'll like it.

I could never do that to someone. I know I would never find her attractive, and it might break her heart that she was some type of experiment.

Get on AdultFriendFinder or something like that. I'm sure you'd find a few women who'd love to let you experiment on them.

 

[aidanjm]

Originally posted by: EatSpam

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: joshsquall

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
but porn is getting boring. Am I doomed?

Try a woman out. Maybe you'll like it.

I could never do that to someone. I know I would never find her attractive, and it might break her heart that she was some type of experiment.

Get on AdultFriendFinder or something like that. I'm sure you'd find a few women who'd love to let you experiment on them.

and why on earth would he do that, he is a homosexual, with zero sexual attraction to women.

 

[CVSiN]

DOOOOOOOOMED!

 

[Zysoclaplem]

Originally posted by: EatSpam

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: joshsquall

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
but porn is getting boring. Am I doomed?

Try a woman out. Maybe you'll like it.

I could never do that to someone. I know I would never find her attractive, and it might break her heart that she was some type of experiment.

Get on AdultFriendFinder or something like that. I'm sure you'd find a few women who'd love to let you experiment on them.

Lol, no...I think I will pass. I'd like a normal relationship I suppose. I'm just scared of going online and finding a crazy or something.

 

[Leper Messiah]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: EatSpam

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: joshsquall

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
but porn is getting boring. Am I doomed?

Try a woman out. Maybe you'll like it.

I could never do that to someone. I know I would never find her attractive, and it might break her heart that she was some type of experiment.

Get on AdultFriendFinder or something like that. I'm sure you'd find a few women who'd love to let you experiment on them.

Lol, no...I think I will pass. I'd like a normal relationship I suppose. I'm just scared of going online and finding a crazy or something.

You post on ATOT, you've already found the crazies.

 

[meltdown75]

men are inthenthitive jerkth!

 

[aidanjm]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
but porn is getting boring. Am I doomed?

but would you have sex with a nice guy if he landed on your door step? I get the impression you are disaproving of guys wanting to have sex with you, you have made comments like "guys want just one thing", etc.

 

[EatSpam]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: EatSpam

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: joshsquall

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
but porn is getting boring. Am I doomed?

Try a woman out. Maybe you'll like it.

I could never do that to someone. I know I would never find her attractive, and it might break her heart that she was some type of experiment.

Get on AdultFriendFinder or something like that. I'm sure you'd find a few women who'd love to let you experiment on them.

Lol, no...I think I will pass. I'd like a normal relationship I suppose. I'm just scared of going online and finding a crazy or something.

Eh, these days, I think you're more likely to meet a crazy at a bar or something. Lots of those online dating services do background checks on people and stuff.

 

[Zysoclaplem]

Originally posted by: aidanjm

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
but porn is getting boring. Am I doomed?

but would you have sex with a nice guy if he landed on your door step? I get the impression you are disaproving of guys wanting to have sex with you, you have made comments like "guys want just one thing", etc.

I just want someone to date. You know, go out to eat with, shopping with, movies...stuff like that. Sex can wait. I want them to find me attractive, but at least to want to get to know me first.
Most guys don't want that. They want to have fun and get right to it.

 

[Zysoclaplem]

Originally posted by: EatSpam

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: EatSpam

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: joshsquall

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
but porn is getting boring. Am I doomed?

Try a woman out. Maybe you'll like it.

I could never do that to someone. I know I would never find her attractive, and it might break her heart that she was some type of experiment.

Get on AdultFriendFinder or something like that. I'm sure you'd find a few women who'd love to let you experiment on them.

Lol, no...I think I will pass. I'd like a normal relationship I suppose. I'm just scared of going online and finding a crazy or something.

Eh, these days, I think you're more likely to meet a crazy at a bar or something. Lots of those online dating services do background checks on people and stuff.

I don't go to bars. I'm not very social. I guess I am digging my own grave here...lol.
I am afraid of online personal sites too. I guess I am sorta scared that I will meet someone I like who doesn't like me, or who says they are 19 but turns out to be 15 or something weird like that.

 

[EatSpam]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: EatSpam

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: EatSpam

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: joshsquall

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
but porn is getting boring. Am I doomed?

Try a woman out. Maybe you'll like it.

I could never do that to someone. I know I would never find her attractive, and it might break her heart that she was some type of experiment.

Get on AdultFriendFinder or something like that. I'm sure you'd find a few women who'd love to let you experiment on them.

Lol, no...I think I will pass. I'd like a normal relationship I suppose. I'm just scared of going online and finding a crazy or something.

Eh, these days, I think you're more likely to meet a crazy at a bar or something. Lots of those online dating services do background checks on people and stuff.

I don't go to bars. I'm not very social. I guess I am digging my own grave here...lol.

Sounds like it. Get yourself a vibe, a few porn website memberships, and forget about it.

 

[Zysoclaplem]

Originally posted by: EatSpam

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: EatSpam

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: EatSpam

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: joshsquall

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
but porn is getting boring. Am I doomed?

Try a woman out. Maybe you'll like it.

I could never do that to someone. I know I would never find her attractive, and it might break her heart that she was some type of experiment.

Get on AdultFriendFinder or something like that. I'm sure you'd find a few women who'd love to let you experiment on them.

Lol, no...I think I will pass. I'd like a normal relationship I suppose. I'm just scared of going online and finding a crazy or something.

Eh, these days, I think you're more likely to meet a crazy at a bar or something. Lots of those online dating services do background checks on people and stuff.

I don't go to bars. I'm not very social. I guess I am digging my own grave here...lol.

Sounds like it. Get yourself a vibe, a few porn website memberships, and forget about it.

Good idea. I guess I am better off alone.

 

[aidanjm]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: aidanjm

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
but porn is getting boring. Am I doomed?

but would you have sex with a nice guy if he landed on your door step? I get the impression you are disaproving of guys wanting to have sex with you, you have made comments like "guys want just one thing", etc.

I just want someone to date. You know, go out to eat with, shopping with, movies...stuff like that. Sex can wait. I want them to find me attractive, but at least to want to get to know me first.
Most guys don't want that. They want to have fun and get right to it.

what's wrong with getting right to it?

maybe you are to some extent asexual, simply not interested in sex. that could be a problem in a relationship, because your parter (assuming he has a typical sex drive) is going to feel rejected, deprived, unsexy, unattractive, etc. because you'll never be initiating sex with him

 

[EatSpam]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: EatSpam

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: EatSpam

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: EatSpam

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: joshsquall

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
but porn is getting boring. Am I doomed?

Try a woman out. Maybe you'll like it.

I could never do that to someone. I know I would never find her attractive, and it might break her heart that she was some type of experiment.

Get on AdultFriendFinder or something like that. I'm sure you'd find a few women who'd love to let you experiment on them.

Lol, no...I think I will pass. I'd like a normal relationship I suppose. I'm just scared of going online and finding a crazy or something.

Eh, these days, I think you're more likely to meet a crazy at a bar or something. Lots of those online dating services do background checks on people and stuff.

I don't go to bars. I'm not very social. I guess I am digging my own grave here...lol.

Sounds like it. Get yourself a vibe, a few porn website memberships, and forget about it.

Good idea. I guess I am better off alone.

I wouldn't say that, but it doesn't sound like you want to try.

 

[Zysoclaplem]

Originally posted by: aidanjm

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: aidanjm

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
but porn is getting boring. Am I doomed?

but would you have sex with a nice guy if he landed on your door step? I get the impression you are disaproving of guys wanting to have sex with you, you have made comments like "guys want just one thing", etc.

I just want someone to date. You know, go out to eat with, shopping with, movies...stuff like that. Sex can wait. I want them to find me attractive, but at least to want to get to know me first.
Most guys don't want that. They want to have fun and get right to it.

what's wrong with getting right to it?

maybe you are to some extent asexual, simply not interested in sex. that could be a problem in a relationship, because your parter (assuming he has a typical sex drive) is going to feel rejected, deprived, unsexy, unattractive, etc. because you'll never be initiating sex with him

Because to me, sex is only a part of the equation. I don't want to have sex with someone I don't want to stay with.
I don't want to be someone's saturday night. I don't want to be used.
I am plenty interested in it, I guess I just find it to be an experience I want to share with someone I care for.
Does that make sense? Maybe I am crazy.

 

[aidanjm]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: aidanjm

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: aidanjm

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
but porn is getting boring. Am I doomed?

but would you have sex with a nice guy if he landed on your door step? I get the impression you are disaproving of guys wanting to have sex with you, you have made comments like "guys want just one thing", etc.

I just want someone to date. You know, go out to eat with, shopping with, movies...stuff like that. Sex can wait. I want them to find me attractive, but at least to want to get to know me first.
Most guys don't want that. They want to have fun and get right to it.

what's wrong with getting right to it?

maybe you are to some extent asexual, simply not interested in sex. that could be a problem in a relationship, because your parter (assuming he has a typical sex drive) is going to feel rejected, deprived, unsexy, unattractive, etc. because you'll never be initiating sex with him

Because to me, sex is only a part of the equation. I don't want to have sex with someone I don't want to stay with.
I don't want to be someone's saturday night. I don't want to be used.
I am plenty interested in it, I guess I just find it to be an experience I want to share with someone I care for.
Does that make sense? Maybe I am crazy.

I just worry that your quaint morality is masking a deeper issue

 

[Zysoclaplem]

Originally posted by: aidanjm

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: aidanjm

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: aidanjm

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
but porn is getting boring. Am I doomed?

but would you have sex with a nice guy if he landed on your door step? I get the impression you are disaproving of guys wanting to have sex with you, you have made comments like "guys want just one thing", etc.

I just want someone to date. You know, go out to eat with, shopping with, movies...stuff like that. Sex can wait. I want them to find me attractive, but at least to want to get to know me first.
Most guys don't want that. They want to have fun and get right to it.

what's wrong with getting right to it?

maybe you are to some extent asexual, simply not interested in sex. that could be a problem in a relationship, because your parter (assuming he has a typical sex drive) is going to feel rejected, deprived, unsexy, unattractive, etc. because you'll never be initiating sex with him

Because to me, sex is only a part of the equation. I don't want to have sex with someone I don't want to stay with.
I don't want to be someone's saturday night. I don't want to be used.
I am plenty interested in it, I guess I just find it to be an experience I want to share with someone I care for.
Does that make sense? Maybe I am crazy.

I just worry that your quaint morality is masking a deeper issue

Like what?

 

[aidanjm]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: aidanjm

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: aidanjm

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: aidanjm

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
but porn is getting boring. Am I doomed?

but would you have sex with a nice guy if he landed on your door step? I get the impression you are disaproving of guys wanting to have sex with you, you have made comments like "guys want just one thing", etc.

I just want someone to date. You know, go out to eat with, shopping with, movies...stuff like that. Sex can wait. I want them to find me attractive, but at least to want to get to know me first.
Most guys don't want that. They want to have fun and get right to it.

what's wrong with getting right to it?

maybe you are to some extent asexual, simply not interested in sex. that could be a problem in a relationship, because your parter (assuming he has a typical sex drive) is going to feel rejected, deprived, unsexy, unattractive, etc. because you'll never be initiating sex with him

Because to me, sex is only a part of the equation. I don't want to have sex with someone I don't want to stay with.
I don't want to be someone's saturday night. I don't want to be used.
I am plenty interested in it, I guess I just find it to be an experience I want to share with someone I care for.
Does that make sense? Maybe I am crazy.

I just worry that your quaint morality is masking a deeper issue

Like what?

low sex drive, asexuality. if so, maybe you need to hook up with someone similar

or, maybe you're just an old fashioned boy.

 

[Zysoclaplem]

Originally posted by: aidanjm

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: aidanjm

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: aidanjm

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: aidanjm

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
but porn is getting boring. Am I doomed?

but would you have sex with a nice guy if he landed on your door step? I get the impression you are disaproving of guys wanting to have sex with you, you have made comments like "guys want just one thing", etc.

I just want someone to date. You know, go out to eat with, shopping with, movies...stuff like that. Sex can wait. I want them to find me attractive, but at least to want to get to know me first.
Most guys don't want that. They want to have fun and get right to it.

what's wrong with getting right to it?

maybe you are to some extent asexual, simply not interested in sex. that could be a problem in a relationship, because your parter (assuming he has a typical sex drive) is going to feel rejected, deprived, unsexy, unattractive, etc. because you'll never be initiating sex with him

Because to me, sex is only a part of the equation. I don't want to have sex with someone I don't want to stay with.
I don't want to be someone's saturday night. I don't want to be used.
I am plenty interested in it, I guess I just find it to be an experience I want to share with someone I care for.
Does that make sense? Maybe I am crazy.

I just worry that your quaint morality is masking a deeper issue

Like what?

low sex drive, asexuality. if so, maybe you need to hook up with someone similar

or, maybe you're just an old fashioned boy.

Haha, no trust me, I like sex...lol. I would rather just get to know someone. It's not that I don't want to have sex with someone, it's that I don't want to meet a guy who wants to screw around and leave. I want a relationship. And those take time.