I found this thread ALL about my motherboard and I tried so many things and still no luck.
http://www.ocforums.com/showthread.php?t=332591
and if the link doesn't work, just go to the main page, click mobos, asus and the thread on a8v deluxe
monster honestly I think its my motherboard being gay. that's the only difference we have and I crash at anything higher than about 2600Mhz and my vcore is at 1.55 while yours is at 1.475

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ok anyways I am getting it to boot on these settings:
237x11
1.55vcore
2.8 ddr volt
1.6v agp
tried both 66.66/33.33 and 74.xx/37.xx settings for pci freq, didn't make a differenc2:1 memory setting and
from 2.5-4-4-7 all the way to 3-6-6-15 and I incremented each by 1, 1 at a time and tested after each( a lot of restarts and running prime) and I failed prime EVERY time
the interesting thing about the thread I mentioned above is that somewhere like 3/4 of the way down the page it has a small list of like 7 memory modules, brand and model, that are known to work well with this board, and my kingmax pc4000 is one of them! I really have NO IDEA where to go from here, as I'm sitting at 3-6-6-15 and STILL getting memory errors in prime. I swear the 2:1 divider is EVIL.... PLEASE HELP ME