Man stabs girlfriend after learning she had HIV

Dari

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Can't say I blame the man. But, to be PC, this is wrong. Yeah, to be even more PC, I will say he should have forgiven her like Jesus or whatever.

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Police say 36-year-old Larry Dunn Jr. confessed to them he stabbed his girlfriend to death after she told him she was HIV positive, according to a police arrest affidavit.

Cicely Bolden, a 28-year-old mother of two, was found dead inside her apartment. Police say she suffered “multiple stab wounds to her neck area and was undressed from the waist down,” according to court documents.

About two hours after the murder, Bolden’s two young children, ages 7 & 8, reportedly found her body, KDFW reported.

Latoya Arnett, a neighbor, told KDFW Bolden’s children came out of the house screaming, “Something’s wrong with mama!”

Dunn told authorities he went to Bolden’s apartment to have sex with her, according to the affidavit. After they allegedly had sex, Dunn told police Bolden told him she had HIV but said “it is not that bad,” court documents say.

Allegedly upset that Bolden didn’t tell him she was HIV positive, Dunn told police he got up out of the bed and walked to the kitchen to get a knife, according to the affidavit.

He then walked back to the bedroom where Bolden was laying on the bed and “started stabbing her,” Dunn told police, according to court documents.

After the stabbing, Dunn told investigators he left the crime scene to get rid of the knife and to burn his clothes, police said in the affidavit.

Dunn told authorities he threw the knife in a trash dumpster at the Waffle House restaurant in Irving. A knife matching the one described by Dunn was later recovered from the dumpster, police said in court documents.

“She killed me so I killed her,” Dunn told police in an interview, the affidavit states.

Dunn was subsequently charged with murder, and is currently behind bars at the Dallas County Jail.

“I just remembered a lot of blood,” Dunn told KDAF from behind bars. “I just went crazy.”

“She killed me and that is hard to feel sorry,” Dunn said in the interview with KDAF.

HLN reached out to Larry Dunn Jr. and his attorney for a comment, but calls were not returned
 

waggy

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well..aids ain't the death sentence it was years ago. Though i do think anyone who continues to have sex after knowing they have it should be shot.
 

jagec

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Wouldn't he be MUCH more likely to get infected by stabbing her to death, spreading blood everywhere, than by having sex with her?

Now that would be ironic...


Depends on whether she meant viral titer or T-cell count, I suppose.
 

SandEagle

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if only the government stopped being a dick and released the cure for HIV/AIDS already none of this would have happened.
 

0roo0roo

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eh..justified. you know if the roles were reversed everyone would say the same.
 

JulesMaximus

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well..aids ain't the death sentence it was years ago. Though i do think anyone who continues to have sex after knowing they have it should be shot.

Yeah, well, stabbing someone is a definite prison sentence. Same with shooting someone.
 

Dari

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Wouldn't he be MUCH more likely to get infected by stabbing her to death, spreading blood everywhere, than by having sex with her?

Now that would be ironic...



Depends on whether she meant viral titer or T-cell count, I suppose.

Yeah, like she would know...
 

Ruptga

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had he not lost his mind and killed her, could he have sued her for voluntarily putting his life at risk?
 

brianmanahan

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0roo0roo

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Yeah, well, stabbing someone is a definite prison sentence. Same with shooting someone.

but she's pretty much judgement proof as a single mother, probably trash as well.

not sure what kind of sentence you can get at all against someone who just gives aids to people knowingly.
 

Dari

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had he not lost his mind and killed her, could he have sued her for voluntarily putting his life at risk?

A single mother of 2 who is still in her 20s? Yeah, I'm sure she's rolling in the dough:rolleyes: Besides, being rewarded welfare checks doesn't say much...
 

Ruptga

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A single mother of 2 who is still in her 20s? Yeah, I'm sure she's rolling in the dough:rolleyes: Besides, being rewarded welfare checks doesn't say much...

That's not the point. If you get money out her that is great, but someone like that needs a criminal record so that others know just who they are dealing with.
 

waggy

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That's not the point. If you get money out her that is great, but someone like that needs a criminal record so that others know just who they are dealing with.

how they going to know? what do you expect to happen?

though i do remember a case of someone who slept with like 20 women getting charged.
 

Dari

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That's not the point. If you get money out her that is great, but someone like that needs a criminal record so that others know just who they are dealing with.

How can she have a criminal record if you sue her and win? It'll be a civil trial. Do you mean have the AG charge her with a crime?
 

Ruptga

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How can she have a criminal record if you sue her and win? It'll be a civil trial. Do you mean have the AG charge her with a crime?

Aren't civil cases public as well? But yes, I was thinking more along the lines of a criminal case since that is what is flagged in background checks.
 

goog40

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Wouldn't he be MUCH more likely to get infected by stabbing her to death, spreading blood everywhere, than by having sex with her?

Now that would be ironic...

Lmao. Not going to feel bad for anyone who knows they have HIV and doesn't tell their partner though.
 

mmntech

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There has been debate over the criminality of HIV transmission in Canada. Under current law, a patient diagnosed with HIV is required to disclose this to their sexual partners. If they fail to do so, and fail to use protection, they can be charged with aggravated sexual assault (rape). Lower courts have ruled that consent cannot be made in this situation.

Should the partner become infected and die from the disease, charges can be escalated to manslaughter or murder, depending on the severity of the case. One particular HIV-positive gentleman was convicted of first degree murder in 2009 after two women he had slept with died of AIDS. He had unprotected sex with 13 women without telling them his status.

It's easy to make the argument that AIDS isn't the death sentence it once was. However, it still kills. At minimum, it will severely degrade the infectee's quality of life. Putting someone in a dangerous situation without informing them of known danger is at least criminal negligence. In this case, it's a crime of passion. Assuming no protection was used, she raped her boyfriend. At least under the law here. I don't know how it's treated in the US though.
 

RPD

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There has been debate over the criminality of HIV transmission in Canada. Under current law, a patient diagnosed with HIV is required to disclose this to their sexual partners. If they fail to do so, and fail to use protection, they can be charged with aggravated sexual assault (rape). Lower courts have ruled that consent cannot be made in this situation.

Should the partner become infected and die from the disease, charges can be escalated to manslaughter or murder, depending on the severity of the case. One particular HIV-positive gentleman was convicted of first degree murder in 2009 after two women he had slept with died of AIDS. He had unprotected sex with 13 women without telling them his status.

It's easy to make the argument that AIDS isn't the death sentence it once was. However, it still kills. At minimum, it will severely degrade the infectee's quality of life. Putting someone in a dangerous situation without informing them of known danger is at least criminal negligence. In this case, it's a crime of passion. Assuming no protection was used, she raped her boyfriend. At least under the law here. I don't know how it's treated in the US though.
This is how it should be treated at a MINIMUM. Also she's straight trash, 28 years old with a 7 and 8 year old. You have to be fucked in the head to KNOW you have HIV and not tell someone you are sleeping with.
 

Gooberlx2

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Yeah, I get being unbelievably angry about it, persuing legal action about it, trying to have criminal charges levied, public shaming via highway billboard smeer campaign, etc... But unless he has cuts or sores on his dick, even when he isn't wrapping it up, his chances of contracting HIV are very far from certain. Perhaps he shoulda gotten himself tested or something before doing something stupid (aside from sticking his dick in crazy in the first place) and throwing his whole life away.

Wouldn't he be MUCH more likely to get infected by stabbing her to death, spreading blood everywhere, than by having sex with her?

Lol, yep.
 

SheHateMe

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I don't know the extent of their relationship...but if hes going to be stopping by for booty calls AND she already has two kids...you should have wrapped it up dude.

Wear a Condom!
 

sandorski

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He's probably ok. Just ruined his life by over reacting. That said, she was horribly wrong not to tell him way before they got that far.