Major Problem With My Girlfriend - UPDATED

[Anubis]

that sucks man i know exactly what you are going through cause the same thing basically happened to me. and im sorry but unless you are a much more fortunate person then I your in for a bad time. sorry

sSimilar thing happened to me when i was in HS teh girl that I was dateings dad knew we were together but didnt know ther seriousness of our relationship. tho it had nothing to do with religion, when he found out the sh!t hit the fan. Before he found out what was going on I had moved to a diff state and lucky for that cause im sure if i hadent he would have killed me. newdless to say its now 7 years later and he still hates me and blaime me for all his faluts as a father. and because of this i have spoken to his doughter the person that i was once in love with like 10 times in thoes 7 years. we are still friends and all. but even now if i call to say im in town or something there are still issues. fuked up. I wish you better luck then I had

 

[DeafeningSilence]

You won't have a problem with the police. Conspiracy to slap is not the same as conspiracy to murder.

But any respectable girl would have nothing to do with a guy who calls her mother a "whore." You blew that one big time. Now you simply have to accept the consequences and try to maintain your dignity.

 

[Night201]

Be honest - not an ass.

 

[KMHPaladin]

Originally posted by: DaiShan
Go with a baseball bat, a ski mask and a roll of duct tape. I'll leave the specifics up to you, but it should end up with the girl in the car and you involved in a high speed auto chase with the cops.

Bwahhahaha!

Forget the cops, they're bs'ing you. This sounds like a lost cause, but it couldn't hurt to meet the old man I guess. Just get the hell out if he starts losing it. But, I wouldn't be real hopeful.

 

[Stark]

Advice:

1. meet in a public place.

2. Are you sunni or shi'ite? I take it they're persian=shi'ite. For the non-muslims out there, that's sort of like protestant/catholic... if she's a strict catholic and he's an occasional protestant, the strict parents freak out... not good. Think Meadow Soprano's black/jewish boyfriend and Tony's reaction to him.

If he's at least somewhat "catholic/shi'ite" he's more likely to be accepted.

3. meet in a public place.

4. Be a man. He probably just wants to see what kind of man you are. Be honest and tell him how much you like his daughter. Also mention you haven't deflowered her.

5. Apologize for the rude remarks against her friend/mother.

 

[DeafeningSilence]

So?

Did you meet him this afternoon?

Are you still alive?

 

[Nitemare]

My advice

1. Wear a God bless the USA T-shirt
2. Meet in a dark alley
3. Tell him be glad she's not pregnant, dad.
4. Tell him you and her are converting to judaism



seriously, meet in a public space, exercise respect for him and his religious beliefs, tell him how you really feel towards his daughter and that nothing else has happened between you. Explain to him how her girlfriend is just getting back at you because of a failed relationship.

 

[Aimster]

I am meeting him at 7 o'clock outside CVS. He just called me. I don't possibly see what we are going to do standing outside CVS. Maybe he wants me to get in his car and go with him to a restaurant or something.

Anyways, I am going to be polite. Shake his hand and tell him I am sorry for causing this upon his family and I will respect whatever he says. If he tells me not to see his daugther anymore then I guess I can't see her. I won't fight her dad on this because the last thing I want is for her to get into more trouble.

I got into this sticky situation and I am going to do the right thing by trying to get out if it, if the dad wishes me to do so. I can't be sad about this really.. I knew this day was coming but I didn't think it would be like this. Whatever happens .. happens and that's life and I just have to be a man and deal with it.

Wish me luck. And thanks for your advice.

 

Originally posted by: Aimster
I am meeting him at 7 o'clock outside CVS. He just called me. I don't possibly see what we are going to do standing outside CVS. Maybe he wants me to get in his car and go with him to a restaurant or something.

Anyways, I am going to be polite. Shake his hand and tell him I am sorry for causing this upon his family and I will respect whatever he says. If he tells me not to see his daugther anymore then I guess I can't see her. I won't fight her dad on this because the last thing I want is for her to get into more trouble.

I got into this sticky situation and I am going to do the right thing by trying to get out if it, if the dad wishes me to do so. I can't be sad about this really.. I knew this day was coming but I didn't think it would be like this. Whatever happens .. happens and that's life and I just have to be a man and deal with it.

Wish me luck. And thanks for your advice.

CVS? Sounds really really sketchy. I hope he doesn't want to molest you. Bring your rape whistle.

 

[murphy55d]

he probably wanted to meet you outside CVS so if you need any pain pills or bandages after he whoops your ass, you'll be right there.

J/K

good luck man.

 

[Nitemare]

Originally posted by: Aimster
I am meeting him at 7 o'clock outside CVS. He just called me. I don't possibly see what we are going to do standing outside CVS. Maybe he wants me to get in his car and go with him to a restaurant or something.

Anyways, I am going to be polite. Shake his hand and tell him I am sorry for causing this upon his family and I will respect whatever he says. If he tells me not to see his daugther anymore then I guess I can't see her. I won't fight her dad on this because the last thing I want is for her to get into more trouble.

I got into this sticky situation and I am going to do the right thing by trying to get out if it, if the dad wishes me to do so. I can't be sad about this really.. I knew this day was coming but I didn't think it would be like this. Whatever happens .. happens and that's life and I just have to be a man and deal with it.

Wish me luck. And thanks for your advice.

Drive by?

 

[Aimster]

my prediction.

I will meet him outside CVS and he will tell me to leave his daugther alone and I will say OK and we will both go home.
Waste of time really, but this is most likely what will happen.

 

[zippy]

Be careful. Some people are nuckin futs, as you have already seen. Have a buddy or two wait for you in your car or in the store - if you do get into his car, have them follow somewhat. This sounds like one whacked out family/friend crew.

By the way, sounds like you have your head on straight - good luck man, sorry this happened to you. Sh!t happens and you just have to pick up the pieces, rebuild, and move on stronger and more experienced than before.

 

[zCypher]

Stand up for yourself.

 

[GroundZero]

Originally posted by: agnitrate
First post is YAGT.

Where do all these people migrate from?

-silver

the trailer park

 

[bleeb]

Just tell the truth... about why you like her and how she has affected your life for the better. The daddy guy can't argue with that. Heheh

 

[Shaftatplanetquake]

Do you have any way of knowing if her father is absolutely insane?

This guy might be planning on killing you, cutting you up into little pieces, and feeding you to the pigs. (bone like butter)

 

[LeeTJ]

Originally posted by: GroundZero

Originally posted by: agnitrate
First post is YAGT.

Where do all these people migrate from?

-silver

the trailer park

Hey, what's wrong with Trailer Parks??

Your not biased against Trailer Parks are you??

I call you a trailer park Racists.

 

[SOSTrooper]

Bring the My Big Fat Greek Wedding DVD along w/ you. Give it to her father as a gift.

If love is bound by religions, then fate would not be infinite like true love.

 

[RGN]

So what happened?

 

[Aimster]

I met the father. He was really cool about everything. He made it clear he liked me and he liked my family and he had nothing against us. I'm not allowed to talk to his daughter anymore .. well for right now. He is upset that she lied to them. He basically said she is not ready for anything serious because if she can lie to her parents then what is stopping her from lying to me.

Well.. I found out her best friend told my girlfriend's parents everything. So he knew every little details and he had a ton of pictures.

So the deal is.. for me to keep in touch with him (just call him from time to time to say hi n stuff) and wait for his daugther to mature until she is ready to handle a serious relationship. I am not allowed to contact her at all and I am going to do just that.

I told him I would and I told him family comes first and I have no intention of going against his families rules especially now that I have had a talk with him.

Just have to wait now I guess...

He said if I would of just came to him from the start he would of let me see her , but the fact that I didn't changed everything.. I tried that, but she made it clear she would get kicked out of her house.. turns out she was just scared.

Thanks for all your advices.

 

[FortFunFoSho]

Win the parents, win the girl.
Works everytime.

 

[freakflag]

Man, that stinks. I'm actually very sorry it turned out this way for you.
Coming from me (I'm normally a "Don't be a pvssy" kinda guy) that means something.
You seem to really care about this girl and that evil little skank of a best friend will get hers eventually.

I'm gonna emplore whatever being rules the universe to make her womb dry up and her nipples sore.

It's the best I can do for you, man.

 

[silverpig]

So you basically get free run of the town while your g/f waits for you!!! Party on!!!




Seriously though, that's cool that you can still see her later, but it does seem kind of lame that her parents think an 18 year old isn't mature enough to date. Heck, in the "old days" she'd have 4 kids by now.

 

[FortFunFoSho]

Its nice that her father was cool to you and he valued the fact that she lied to him the entire time.

A lot of fathers could have lost it pretty easily...