Originally posted by: Klixxer
Originally posted by: CycloWizard
It does not say that all citizens must be given access to rights as they see fit. Rather, rights are to be distributed as the majority sees fit. If the majority shares a set of values, then it imposes those values on the minority. You can impose same sex marriage on me if you can garner the majority, just as I can prevent it if I garner the majority. Saying that it's bigotry one way or the other is ridiculous.Originally posted by: DealMonkey
Because our Constitution requires all citizens be equal under the law. Because the people want a legal way to recognize their committment to each other. To exclude one group from the same rights and priveleges as others based on some irrational argument is unconstitutional (not to mention bigotedOriginally posted by: CycloWizard
But what motivation is there for the government to give benefits to same sex couples?).
Discrimination based on race, gender, sexual preference or religion is bigotry, it has nothing to do with majority decisions, it is to protect the individual
Originally posted by: cquark
Originally posted by: ElFenix
Originally posted by: DealMonkey
BS. The majority has nothing to do with it if the laws the majority attempt to enact are unconstitutional. It's ludicrous to think the majority can thwart the explicit intention of equal rights of the U.S. Constitution and its amendments just because they're the majority.
explicit? where? quote a line.
Amendment IV, Section 1:
Section 1. All persons born or naturalized in the United States, and subject to the jurisdiction thereof, are citizens of the United States and of the state wherein they reside. No state shall make or enforce any law which shall abridge the privileges or immunities of citizens of the United States; nor shall any state deprive any person of life, liberty, or property, without due process of law; nor deny to any person within its jurisdiction the equal protection of the laws.
Originally posted by: Moonbeam
Originally posted by: ElFenix
Originally posted by: DealMonkey
BS. The majority has nothing to do with it if the laws the majority attempt to enact are unconstitutional. It's ludicrous to think the majority can thwart the explicit intention of equal rights of the U.S. Constitution and its amendments just because they're the majority.
explicit? where? quote a line.
They can do it by ammendment.
It is a very poor argument actually because it denies the real meaning of marriage. If marriage is just the union of a male and a female there would be no reason that marriages aren't arranged. A genetic study of people wishing a partner could easily be drawn up including personality type, genetic defect, IQ and a host of other factors designed to provide society with the most fit children. But we don't marry to breed right off. We marry because we fall in love with somebody we wish to spend our whole life. At least so we tell ourselves in our romantic society.Originally posted by: cKGunslinger
That's actually a good point. One could argue that homosexuals aren't being denied the 'right' to marry, just the 'right' to do it under the exact circumstances they want.Originally posted by: ElFenix
[t isn't a stretch to say that marriage is the right to marry a member of the opposite sex. in that sense, you're not excluding anyone.
What about people who want to get married without a marriage licence? Aren't they being discriminated against because of our silly rules and laws? What about people who want to smoke pot? Aren't they being discriminated against? What about people who want to carry a 2-foot hunting knife onboard an airplane? What about people who want to not pay their taxes?
At what point does a law that prevents some people from certain actions they want to do become "discrimination'?
So the real essence of marriage is the love between two individuals. The result of laws baning gay marriage is that a small set of individuals are denied the right to this loving relationship strictly on the basis of gender. Now we can pass any kind of laws that we like and they can be as absurd and arbitrary as we wish. But in a Constitutional Democracy founded on a bill of rights, these laws can be anything but Unconstitutional. It is unconstitutional to discriminate legally between two people based on their gender, their religion or their race. So what people who want to ban gay marriage are doing is denying somebody else what they are legally able to do, to marry the person they love. If there is anything that makes our society great it is these Constitutional protections that prevent majorities from passing laws based on long standing prejudice. There are no rational reasons advanced why two people in love of the same sex should not be able to enjoy the same marriage rights as two people of the opposite sex. The reasons that people try to prevent this are always emotional and represent some inner irrational bigotry toward gays. No sane, unbiased soul would keep two people in love from being able to marry just on the basis of gender. The only difference is gender and it's gender that people irrationally cannot accept.
The problem with bigotry, the irrational bias toward some, usually based on religious text, is that bigots aren't usually fond of admitting their bigotry. What happens is that bigots rationalize. They invent reasons they tell themselves are rational points of view that support their contentions, but when you pry them open you come back to their irrational feeling that there's something wrong with being gay. People have the choice at this point to buy into their bigotry, or reject it as irrational feelings they've gotten stuck with growing up around other ignorant souls. Prejudice toward blacks is no different than prejudice toward gays. We have gone down the road to fix the first and we will go down the road to fix the second too. Humanity must awaken from the bigotry of the past. Bigotry causes millions of souls immeasurable pain. The light and love of God shines out on earth only through the window of loving souls. Open that window.
Originally posted by: Moonbeam
.....The point being that as long as the government affirms the sanctity of marriage with an official government license it should not deny one group based on gender. And again, I see marriage as a good thing and see no reason at all for the government to back out of that support. The reluctance to include gays in that 'good thing' in my opinion stems solely from those irrational feelings. If you harbor negative attitudes to gays it can't help but feel that gay marriage slimes marriage itself. This is simply, in my opinion, an irrational feeling. Two people who love each other are two people who love each other. Surely that is good, no?Originally posted by: cquark
Originally posted by: cKGunslinger
Ok, I admitted above that I am coming around and am definitely beginning to understand the argument better when you remove "homosexuality" from the equation and just consider this a gender issue and nothing more. In that case, it does appear to be discrimination. But I don't buy into the whole "government-sanctioned love" theme you started with. In that case, I still believe that the government should get out of the whole marriage business entirely. It's not their responsibility to provide a legal institution for love, is it?
I agree that it would be better if government wasn't involved with marriage, as it brings up too many issues like this one which aren't relevant. However, that's likely a bigger change than we'll ever see.
Originally posted by: dmcowen674
Originally posted by: przero
So then it's o.k. to hate religious people?
Sure why not, it's Officially OK to Hate Gays.
The United Discriminating States Of America
Originally posted by: hysperion
Originally posted by: cquark
Originally posted by: ElFenix
Originally posted by: DealMonkey
BS. The majority has nothing to do with it if the laws the majority attempt to enact are unconstitutional. It's ludicrous to think the majority can thwart the explicit intention of equal rights of the U.S. Constitution and its amendments just because they're the majority.
explicit? where? quote a line.
Amendment IV, Section 1:
Section 1. All persons born or naturalized in the United States, and subject to the jurisdiction thereof, are citizens of the United States and of the state wherein they reside. No state shall make or enforce any law which shall abridge the privileges or immunities of citizens of the United States; nor shall any state deprive any person of life, liberty, or property, without due process of law; nor deny to any person within its jurisdiction the equal protection of the laws.
Well gays are legally protected in the sense that they are free to marry members of the opposite sex just like everyone else.....no state has infringed on that to my knowledge....Now if your saying that they should start allowing same-sex marriages which haven't existed for 3000 years- that's a diff. topic.
Originally posted by: hysperion
So if a 10 yo loves a 30yo and they want to be married - that is good based on your definition no?
Originally posted by: przero
Where does it end? A man and a dog? A man and his daughter? A woman and....? Where do individuals rights stop? What exactly does a decent society have the right to prohibit? Polygamy? Necrophilia? Cannabalism?
Originally posted by: dmcowen674
Great thread, typical Neocon response of sanctioning Government to tell you what you can and cannot do.
All your freedom belong to us :thumbsdown:
Originally posted by: cquark
I'm glad you've realized that the issue is same sex marriage; however, Section 1 also provides for equal treatment by gender. Your right to contract cannot be restricted to a member of a certain gender.
A) it isn't explicit what that line means in the constitution. see moony's answer of 'they can amend it' for proof of that. based on the Court's current jurisprudence, black people are more equal than women. does that really follow from the lineOriginally posted by: cquark
Originally posted by: ElFenix
Originally posted by: DealMonkey
BS. The majority has nothing to do with it if the laws the majority attempt to enact are unconstitutional. It's ludicrous to think the majority can thwart the explicit intention of equal rights of the U.S. Constitution and its amendments just because they're the majority.
explicit? where? quote a line.
Amendment IV, Section 1:
Section 1. All persons born or naturalized in the United States, and subject to the jurisdiction thereof, are citizens of the United States and of the state wherein they reside. No state shall make or enforce any law which shall abridge the privileges or immunities of citizens of the United States; nor shall any state deprive any person of life, liberty, or property, without due process of law; nor deny to any person within its jurisdiction the equal protection of the laws.
Originally posted by: wkabel23
Originally posted by: Tiles2Tech
Originally posted by: dmcowen674
9-18-2004 La. Voters Approve Same-Sex Marriage Ban
NEW ORLEANS, Sept. 18 -- Louisiana voters overwhelmingly approved a state constitutional amendment banning same-sex marriages and civil unions.
(Neocons) had conducted an intense grass-roots lobbying campaign for the amendment.
The amendment would also prohibit state officials and courts from recognizing out-of-state marriages and civil unions between homosexuals.
Does that mean you'll be leaving the state now? Being that your rights are getting dissolved, there is no reason to stay there. Maybe Montana has more freedom at the moment.
How clever and witty!
As for marriage, why is government fooling around with it anyways?
Originally posted by: ElFenix
Originally posted by: cquark
I'm glad you've realized that the issue is same sex marriage; however, Section 1 also provides for equal treatment by gender. Your right to contract cannot be restricted to a member of a certain gender.
if that really says what you claim it does then why the fuss over the ERA?
Originally posted by: ElFenix
Originally posted by: dmcowen674
Great thread, typical Neocon response of sanctioning Government to tell you what you can and cannot do.
All your freedom belong to us :thumbsdown:
I suppose you're an anarchist?
It's not restricted by gender - both genders have equal access to marriage.Originally posted by: cquark
I'm glad you've realized that the issue is same sex marriage; however, Section 1 also provides for equal treatment by gender. Your right to contract cannot be restricted to a member of a certain gender.
Ah, but in some states, you can get married when you're only 16.Originally posted by: cquark
Marriage is a legal contract. 10 year olds are not considered to have the mental capacity to enter into such a contract. It's not an issue of discrimination, but one of capability. It's true that age is an imperfect measure of mental capacity, but it's one that we've agreed to use in many areas of the law, like driver's licenses, voting, etc.
Actually, court rulings have been extraordinarily specific in applying Amendment XIV. It was used to justify abortion in Roe v Wade because it says 'all persons born or naturalized.' If you're not born, then you have no rights? I'm sure that's exactly what it was meant for when it was written. :roll:Originally posted by: cquark
I haven't heard much about the ERA for 20 years. The history of how the 14th amendment has been applied inequitably is long and complex. Look at how the South got away with Jim Crow laws for a century, despite the primary reason for creating the 14th amendment after the Civil War being equality of races. However, it's clear that the use of "person" in Section 1 is intended to be general, as other sections of the amendment specifically differentiate between genders when such a meaning is so desired (such as Section 2, which gives men of any race the right to vote, but not women.)
The APA is hardly an unbiased group. If you actually read any of the studies that they choose out of the bunch when declaring something one way or the other on homosexuality, it's blatantly biased. Further, show me one such report stating that there is any indication that homosexuality is genetic.Originally posted by: Tmax13
The idea that Homosexuality is a mental disorder is a complete fallacy. First of all, scientists and researchers have been finding more and more evidence of a genetic link for the past thirty years. To acknowledge this fact, the Diagnotic and Statistical Manual (the DSM) pulbished by the American Psychological Association, which is the manual used in North America to diagnose mental disorders has not had homosexuality as a sexual disorder for a good 20 years. And for a good twenty years before that, its status as a classified sexual disorder was controversial because of the scientific evidence coming to light at the time.
When you see the clustering of prejudice in geographical areas you can, if you are free of it yourself, begin to appreciate just how ones environment influences ones adult attitudes. By this means one can begin the long difficult task of unlearning everything one was ever taught because it itself will be just another form of prejudice. This pile of cabbage we accumulate as we grow is called the ego and to truly unlearn it is a difficult as it is to die because that is exactly what it feels like. I think Jesus willingly mounted the cross in order to tell you this, that there is a resurrection when you're done.Originally posted by: Tmax13
More proof that the south is a bastion of discrimination, all in the name of the bible.
These are the same folks that fought desegregation.
Is it any surprise they are fighting this?
And this is twice now that in the past two months that I've had to clear up 'rumor' that have been spread by bible-belters---
The idea that Homosexuality is a mental disorder is a complete fallacy. First of all, scientists and researchers have been finding more and more evidence of a genetic link for the past thirty years. To acknowledge this fact, the Diagnotic and Statistical Manual (the DSM) pulbished by the American Psychological Association, which is the manual used in North America to diagnose mental disorders has not had homosexuality as a sexual disorder for a good 20 years. And for a good twenty years before that, its status as a classified sexual disorder was controversial because of the scientific evidence coming to light at the time.
Just because your 'Reverend' says its true doesn't mean it is.
Its really disturbing to me that they spread these false hoods to defend themselves against pure scientific fact, to the point that, as an example, evolution is a dirty word in the south, when we all know that most-likely we all were decendant from primates. What is so wrong about that? That it differs from the bible? Please.. both can co-exist.
And if you are questioning my background and the info I am presenting... I am currently getting my Masters of Arts in mental health counseling.
The APA is hardly an unbiased group. If you actually read any of the studies that they choose out of the bunch when declaring something one way or the other on homosexuality, it's blatantly biased.
Further, show me one such report stating that there is any indication that homosexuality is genetic.
Ahhhh, more spouting of dubious "facts" -- go ahead CW, show us these studies that are "biased." Give us one and point out why you think it's biased.Originally posted by: CycloWizard
The APA is hardly an unbiased group. If you actually read any of the studies that they choose out of the bunch when declaring something one way or the other on homosexuality, it's blatantly biased. Further, show me one such report stating that there is any indication that homosexuality is genetic.
Perhaps I've entered the Elfie spin zone, because unless you can redefine "ALL PERSONS" and "EQUAL PROTECTION" on the fly here, there's not much to talk about.Originally posted by: ElFenix
A) it isn't explicit what that line means in the constitution. see moony's answer of 'they can amend it' for proof of that. based on the Court's current jurisprudence, black people are more equal than women. does that really follow from the lineOriginally posted by: cquark
Originally posted by: ElFenix
Originally posted by: DealMonkey
BS. The majority has nothing to do with it if the laws the majority attempt to enact are unconstitutional. It's ludicrous to think the majority can thwart the explicit intention of equal rights of the U.S. Constitution and its amendments just because they're the majority.
explicit? where? quote a line.
Amendment IV, Section 1:
Section 1. All persons born or naturalized in the United States, and subject to the jurisdiction thereof, are citizens of the United States and of the state wherein they reside. No state shall make or enforce any law which shall abridge the privileges or immunities of citizens of the United States; nor shall any state deprive any person of life, liberty, or property, without due process of law; nor deny to any person within its jurisdiction the equal protection of the laws.
B) i was asking dealmonkey to do so because i think it would be good for him to read the constitution.
When you see the clustering of prejudice in geographical areas you can, if you are free of it yourself, begin to appreciate just how ones environment influences ones adult attitudes. By this means one can begin the long difficult task of unlearning everything one was ever taught because it itself will be just another form of prejudice. This pile of cabbage we accumulate as we grow is called the ego and to truly unlearn it is a difficult as it is to die because that is exactly what it feels like. I think Jesus willingly mounted the cross in order to tell you this, that there is a resurrection when you're done.Originally posted by: Moonbeam
Originally posted by: ElFenix
Originally posted by: dmcowen674
Great thread, typical Neocon response of sanctioning Government to tell you what you can and cannot do.
All your freedom belong to us :thumbsdown:
i suppose you're an anarchist?
Originally posted by: Rainsford
Originally posted by: LordMagnusKain
you don't have to hate anyone to be against not aproving of their actions.
No, you don't. You have to hate them, at some level, to think it's your right to force them to abide by your beliefs. If you don't approve of gay marriage, fine, we don't all have to agree on everything.
But when you think that gives you the right to tell gay couples they can't get married, that does in fact make you a hateful dumbass.
Originally posted by: dahunan
Marriage is a religious institution and therefore the Government should stay out of the issue...