Looks,personality or brains?

waylman

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no poll? : (

looks at first.........then once I get to know them personality (although how smart they are is a big part of their personality).
 

Codewiz

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That is too open ended. Physical attraction is what starts any relationship.

Then it is brains, personality, looks.

But if looks weren't there to start with I wouldn't find out about the brains or personality.
 

Rayden

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intelligence and personality go together...

but right now i wont settle for deficiency in any of those categories. :D
 

johnjohn320

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Personality. She doesn't have to be a genius or a supermodel, but I have to like talking to her.
 

Pilsnerpete

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All of them, but an excellent personality can overcome shortages in the other 2. Actually, personality without brains is a very shallow person. And if she's not a looker, she's got a hard life.:D
 

Zenmervolt

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Personality and intelligence go hand-in-hand as far as I am concerned. If she's annoying, it doesn't matter how smart she is. And if she's dumb as a post, then all the personality in the world won't help her. There needs to be a balance of both.

ZV
 

RagingBITCH

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Originally posted by: Codewiz
That is too open ended. Physical attraction is what starts any relationship.

Then it is brains, personality, looks.

But if looks weren't there to start with I wouldn't find out about the brains or personality.

What he said. You don't go up to a random person regardless of looks and hope they have a good personality or are very smart. Unless you meet someone not with the intention of dating them, or hear someone that a particular person said which you find interesting/attractive.
 

Cougar

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Originally posted by: Geekbabe
What is most important to you?


It's a tie between personality and brains. My friend and I were out last night and he introduced me to a couple of girls he knew and while the looks were there the brains and personality were non-existant. He told me that they were shallow and not too bright, but I gave them the benefit of the doubt and decided to see for myself. I kid you not the minute the one girl opened her mouth I think I could see a vacancy sign where her brain should be. Looks are great, but if you've got the IQ of a wet noodle then it's best to keep your mouth shut and just try to look pretty.
 

Swag1138

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Persons with a good personality usually have good intellegence, so they go together.

And thus, they would be my choice