Disastrous? Really? How so? So far it seems to be going rather well. There has been very few problems and...
... we have helped hundreds, thousands, millions. This sounds like a win to me.
I don't personally know a single person that has suffered at all, much less horribly. Do you? Or are you just listening to the voices in your head that tell you so?
Taking advantage of me? I'm offering them help, I expect them to take advantage of that.
Wow, what a weird world you live in. Are you so deluded that you think that it is hard to find suffering? Why would you not want to help them? How mean spirited are you? How hateful?
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Do you really believe that people give up everything but what they can carry on their backs to take a long and grueling journey, mostly on foot, though harsh and hostile lands, with out knowing where they will end up just for the hell of it? The people that are strong enough and willful enough to do so are exactly the people we want. Those are the people that are made of strong stuff.
My Grandmother came to America from the Soviet Union. My grandmother gave up everything, family, friends, and what little possessions she had to come to a country whose language she did not speak, and only had rumors that she would be offered sanctuary if she got here, and almost certain death if they did not. She was smuggled in a crate across the ocean, and spent the next 15 years paying off her debt as an indentured servant (which she didn't know was illegal in the US until my mom was old enough to tell her.) She would have been one of those people you rant against. She never learned much English, and kept mostly the Russian culture she grew up with, yet she loved this country with a fierceness that I've only ever seen matched in other immigrants.
I can only assume that you believe that these people are trying to take advantage of us because that is what you would do. The reality is most of these people are eternally grateful for our help. Most of these people love our nation and want to be a part of it. It is only when people like you show them so much hate that they become bitter.