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TechBoyJK

Lifer
Oct 17, 2002
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Originally posted by: yllus
Originally posted by: TechBoyJK
well, like the 3rd night we were chatting online, i asked he a question, and she said hold on. like 3 minutes later, i was like, "hello?" and she says "hold on" a couple of minutes later, "hello?" she respond with "hold on, sorry I've been on the phone"... so I said, "i gotta go, cya". I signed off, then the next day I sent her an email basically saying, "that was really fvcking rude. I like you, but if you think you can treat me like that, already, then we got a big problem. You could have easily said you had a phone call, rather than saying something that would have kept me sitting right there, thinking you might come back any second. So, unless you are going to apologize, don't bother talking to me again, cause I don't have time for shlt like this"

well, later that day, i get an im from her that starts out like "Screw you bla bla bla" i just let it sit and didnt respond. about 5 minutes, later, "well, yea it was rude, im sorry, it was an important call and it carried on longer than I expected. But you are right, i should have said something. " i didnt respond. about 10 minutes later, I get "look i am really sorry, please, talk to me already. damnit, talk to me. and other stuff to that effect.

haha, i respond with, "sorry about that, I was in the shower." if would have known you were waiting I would have set my away message to say so." And then she said something like, "oh, well sorry for all the frantic messages then." I was like its, cool, but can you hold on a sec? I gotta phone call" she was like, "thanks rub it in" then I said, sorry, it was a friend. What really got me was that she then said, "What did you tell him, that you were talking to your future wife?"
That's how you reacted after having to wait for all of 3 minutes? :confused:

No offense dude, but it's chicks who are supposed to get all bent out of shape after being made to wait a fairly minimal amount of time, not guys.

i wasn't really bent out of shape. telling her I was upset was pretty much bs but served the point to lay the smack down. she told me later it was one of the things that made her really like, that I had the balls to be like, "Look, i aint gonna take your shlt"



 

TNM93

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Aug 13, 2005
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Originally posted by: yllus
Originally posted by: TechBoyJK
well, like the 3rd night we were chatting online, i asked he a question, and she said hold on. like 3 minutes later, i was like, "hello?" and she says "hold on" a couple of minutes later, "hello?" she respond with "hold on, sorry I've been on the phone"... so I said, "i gotta go, cya". I signed off, then the next day I sent her an email basically saying, "that was really fvcking rude. I like you, but if you think you can treat me like that, already, then we got a big problem. You could have easily said you had a phone call, rather than saying something that would have kept me sitting right there, thinking you might come back any second. So, unless you are going to apologize, don't bother talking to me again, cause I don't have time for shlt like this"

well, later that day, i get an im from her that starts out like "Screw you bla bla bla" i just let it sit and didnt respond. about 5 minutes, later, "well, yea it was rude, im sorry, it was an important call and it carried on longer than I expected. But you are right, i should have said something. " i didnt respond. about 10 minutes later, I get "look i am really sorry, please, talk to me already. damnit, talk to me. and other stuff to that effect.

haha, i respond with, "sorry about that, I was in the shower." if would have known you were waiting I would have set my away message to say so." And then she said something like, "oh, well sorry for all the frantic messages then." I was like its, cool, but can you hold on a sec? I gotta phone call" she was like, "thanks rub it in" then I said, sorry, it was a friend. What really got me was that she then said, "What did you tell him, that you were talking to your future wife?"
That's how you reacted after having to wait for all of 3 minutes? :confused:

No offense dude, but it's chicks who are supposed to get all bent out of shape after being made to wait a fairly minimal amount of time, not guys.


I don't think that reaction was getting bent out of shape. Some guys will wait on women, some won't. Same goes for women.
 

TechBoyJK

Lifer
Oct 17, 2002
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Originally posted by: ysperalda
Originally posted by: yllus
Originally posted by: TechBoyJK
well, like the 3rd night we were chatting online, i asked he a question, and she said hold on. like 3 minutes later, i was like, "hello?" and she says "hold on" a couple of minutes later, "hello?" she respond with "hold on, sorry I've been on the phone"... so I said, "i gotta go, cya". I signed off, then the next day I sent her an email basically saying, "that was really fvcking rude. I like you, but if you think you can treat me like that, already, then we got a big problem. You could have easily said you had a phone call, rather than saying something that would have kept me sitting right there, thinking you might come back any second. So, unless you are going to apologize, don't bother talking to me again, cause I don't have time for shlt like this"

well, later that day, i get an im from her that starts out like "Screw you bla bla bla" i just let it sit and didnt respond. about 5 minutes, later, "well, yea it was rude, im sorry, it was an important call and it carried on longer than I expected. But you are right, i should have said something. " i didnt respond. about 10 minutes later, I get "look i am really sorry, please, talk to me already. damnit, talk to me. and other stuff to that effect.

haha, i respond with, "sorry about that, I was in the shower." if would have known you were waiting I would have set my away message to say so." And then she said something like, "oh, well sorry for all the frantic messages then." I was like its, cool, but can you hold on a sec? I gotta phone call" she was like, "thanks rub it in" then I said, sorry, it was a friend. What really got me was that she then said, "What did you tell him, that you were talking to your future wife?"
That's how you reacted after having to wait for all of 3 minutes? :confused:

No offense dude, but it's chicks who are supposed to get all bent out of shape after being made to wait a fairly minimal amount of time, not guys.


I don't think that reaction was getting bent out of shape. Some guys will wait on women, some won't. Same goes for women.

yea, i'll wait around for her, but I'm going to let her make me wait around for no reason. Anyways, I know whats going on between us. its fun, she thinks i'm her dream guy, which is flattering, and its cute to see her do what she does to get me excited and wanting her. The only thing that sucks is that she is pretty tied down with school and work. She lives alone, and mentioned something about wanting a roommate to help her out. She says that if she had a roommate, she wouldn't have to work so much, and would have more time for a boyfriend. Basically, I'm going to try and move in with her, in good time (not like next week). I think she wants me to move in because of what she mentioned about the laptop, not to mention "our" friend Matt is looking for a roommate, and he apparently told her that he was hoping to get me to move in because he thinks I'd make the best roomie. And when she told me he said that, she apparently told Matt, Not if I get him first. But my idea is this, not fully move in, just tell her I'll be glad to help her out if I'm her boyfriend and I'm spending most of mytime at her place. All I really would need there would be food, my laptop, and some clothes and basic necessities. that will be the deal, not like, I'm her new roommate put my name on the lease stuff, hellz no. If she cheats on me, then I'm out the door.
 

Nitemare

Lifer
Feb 8, 2001
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Originally posted by: TechBoyJK
alright, im just amazed by something.... I met a girl, we talked online for a while and we eventually met up. I ended up staying at her apartment that night. I didn't sleep with her but we did have fun that night. anyways, she woke me up the next day and basically told me she had to leave for school. So I jumped up to get my stuff together to leave, and she was like, no, its cool, just go back to sleep, ill be back in an hour.

I was stunned that she trusted me enough to let me stay. She doesn't really know me, but I am good friends with the guys that are dating her best friends. And her girlfriends know me and all say I'm a great guy. She told me that herself.... anyways, I was amazed that she was trusting and willing enough to let me stay there while she was gone. I could have done anything. She even gave me her password to get on her pc while she was gone so I could check my email.

Is this that big of a deal? Ive talked to my friends about it and they are all pretty amazed that she let me stay alone too.

Im just wondering...

pics for you haters.

real girl
girl1
girl2
being sexy
OMG THANK YOU GOD

BRENDA got a big ole butt
I know I told you I'd be true
But BRENDA got a big ole butt
So I'm leavin' you
BRENDA got a big ole butt
I know I told you I'd be true
But BRENDA got a big ole butt
So I'm leavin' you :music:
 

TechBoyJK

Lifer
Oct 17, 2002
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Originally posted by: Nitemare
Originally posted by: TechBoyJK
alright, im just amazed by something.... I met a girl, we talked online for a while and we eventually met up. I ended up staying at her apartment that night. I didn't sleep with her but we did have fun that night. anyways, she woke me up the next day and basically told me she had to leave for school. So I jumped up to get my stuff together to leave, and she was like, no, its cool, just go back to sleep, ill be back in an hour.

I was stunned that she trusted me enough to let me stay. She doesn't really know me, but I am good friends with the guys that are dating her best friends. And her girlfriends know me and all say I'm a great guy. She told me that herself.... anyways, I was amazed that she was trusting and willing enough to let me stay there while she was gone. I could have done anything. She even gave me her password to get on her pc while she was gone so I could check my email.

Is this that big of a deal? Ive talked to my friends about it and they are all pretty amazed that she let me stay alone too.

Im just wondering...

pics for you haters.

real girl
girl1
girl2
being sexy
OMG THANK YOU GOD

BRENDA got a big ole butt (ahhh yea)
I know I told you I'd be true
But BRENDA got a big ole butt (ahhh yea)
So I'm leavin' you
BRENDA got a big ole butt (ahhh yea)
I know I told you I'd be true
But BRENDA got a big ole butt (ahhh yea)
So I'm leavin' you :music:


omg i havent heard that in forever. who does that song again? Same people that did OPP right?
 

Nitemare

Lifer
Feb 8, 2001
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Originally posted by: TechBoyJK
Originally posted by: Nitemare
Originally posted by: TechBoyJK
alright, im just amazed by something.... I met a girl, we talked online for a while and we eventually met up. I ended up staying at her apartment that night. I didn't sleep with her but we did have fun that night. anyways, she woke me up the next day and basically told me she had to leave for school. So I jumped up to get my stuff together to leave, and she was like, no, its cool, just go back to sleep, ill be back in an hour.

I was stunned that she trusted me enough to let me stay. She doesn't really know me, but I am good friends with the guys that are dating her best friends. And her girlfriends know me and all say I'm a great guy. She told me that herself.... anyways, I was amazed that she was trusting and willing enough to let me stay there while she was gone. I could have done anything. She even gave me her password to get on her pc while she was gone so I could check my email.

Is this that big of a deal? Ive talked to my friends about it and they are all pretty amazed that she let me stay alone too.

Im just wondering...

pics for you haters.

real girl
girl1
girl2
being sexy
OMG THANK YOU GOD

BRENDA got a big ole butt (ahhh yea)
I know I told you I'd be true
But BRENDA got a big ole butt (ahhh yea)
So I'm leavin' you
BRENDA got a big ole butt (ahhh yea)
I know I told you I'd be true
But BRENDA got a big ole butt (ahhh yea)
So I'm leavin' you :music:


omg i havent heard that in forever. who does that song again? Same people that did OPP right?

<---revokes your playa card....

LL Cool J did that, Naughty by Nature did OPP
 

KingofCamelot

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Aug 20, 2004
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Can't we just make a TechBoyJK's Relationships thread instead of having him create a new thread every time a girl looks at him?
 

TechBoyJK

Lifer
Oct 17, 2002
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Originally posted by: Nitemare
Originally posted by: TechBoyJK
Originally posted by: Nitemare
Originally posted by: TechBoyJK
alright, im just amazed by something.... I met a girl, we talked online for a while and we eventually met up. I ended up staying at her apartment that night. I didn't sleep with her but we did have fun that night. anyways, she woke me up the next day and basically told me she had to leave for school. So I jumped up to get my stuff together to leave, and she was like, no, its cool, just go back to sleep, ill be back in an hour.

I was stunned that she trusted me enough to let me stay. She doesn't really know me, but I am good friends with the guys that are dating her best friends. And her girlfriends know me and all say I'm a great guy. She told me that herself.... anyways, I was amazed that she was trusting and willing enough to let me stay there while she was gone. I could have done anything. She even gave me her password to get on her pc while she was gone so I could check my email.

Is this that big of a deal? Ive talked to my friends about it and they are all pretty amazed that she let me stay alone too.

Im just wondering...

pics for you haters.

real girl
girl1
girl2
being sexy
OMG THANK YOU GOD

BRENDA got a big ole butt (ahhh yea)
I know I told you I'd be true
But BRENDA got a big ole butt (ahhh yea)
So I'm leavin' you
BRENDA got a big ole butt (ahhh yea)
I know I told you I'd be true
But BRENDA got a big ole butt (ahhh yea)
So I'm leavin' you :music:


omg i havent heard that in forever. who does that song again? Same people that did OPP right?

<---revokes your playa card....

LL Cool J did that, Naughty by Nature did OPP

damn. i even have several LL cool j cd's. going back to cali is my all time fave, something about the groove....

 

TechBoyJK

Lifer
Oct 17, 2002
16,699
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Originally posted by: KingofCamelot
Can't we just make a TechBoyJK's Relationships thread instead of having him create a new thread every time a girl looks at him?

lol, all the other girls I just stalked. this one I stalked and got to kiss. ;)
 

Splork

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Oct 9, 1999
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Didn't you already post about this? In your Real Girl vs. Dream Girl thread? Why not just update.

-sp
 

Ciber

Platinum Member
Nov 20, 2000
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Originally posted by: Adica
A woman has a certain instinct when it comes to men and safety. (well I know I do)
No big deal trusting you for an hour, BUT I would never give my password out to ANYONE!;)

Are you under the impression that your silly windows password would keep US out? :p