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Yossarian

Lifer
Dec 26, 2000
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Originally posted by: TechBoyJK
Originally posted by: dartworth
nice...

yea, im pretty much in love. and I feel that she loves me too. only time will tell.

cut that sh!t out right now. that is the kind of stuff that will drive a chick away before you can say 'masturbate'.
 

isekii

Lifer
Mar 16, 2001
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The only way to score huge with her, is showing little interest.

Show too much interest and you're toast :p
 

DVad3r

Diamond Member
Jan 3, 2005
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It's normal, I don't see anything special about her letting you stay there. Obviously she knows enough people to make a judgement of you.
 

DVad3r

Diamond Member
Jan 3, 2005
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Originally posted by: TechBoyJK
Originally posted by: CStan
Reminds me of a time where I was out clubbing with a couple friends and one spotted a girl he knew from class. The bars were dead so we ended up at her house with her and her roomate to drink and stuff. One then had a phonecall and said that they had to go. They told us to stay if we want and that theirs beer in the fridge :| . This was 1 girl one of us knew only from a class. pretty trusting.

hell yea. id never do that. im paranoid just leaving my friends at my place alone. not that might steal or do anything malicious, just that....... i dont know, i got stuff I dont want messed with.

You just solved your own problem, your not a trusting guy, so if someone does trust you, it seems wierd.

 

jEct2

Golden Member
Mar 1, 2005
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just...lucky and that girl is great...unless she turns out raping, robbing and killing u...although i don't think the rape will really be considered....rape
 

Miramonti

Lifer
Aug 26, 2000
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Originally posted by: TechBoyJK
Originally posted by: Pepsi90919
Originally posted by: TechBoyJK
Originally posted by: suse920
foxtrot unicorn charlie kilo

NEF!

read between the lines there homeboy

i have absolutely no idea what you are talking about.

he's suggesting you have sex with her I believe...

Anyhow, I wouldn't be that trusting of a girl that is that trusting :p...it's just poor judgement to trust so much before knowing a person.
 

TechBoyJK

Lifer
Oct 17, 2002
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Originally posted by: ysperalda
Originally posted by: TechBoyJK
Originally posted by: dartworth
nice...

yea, im pretty much in love. and I feel that she loves me too. only time will tell.


Be careful man, being a nice guy can be a sign to some women that reads, "USE ME".

well, like the 3rd night we were chatting online, i asked he a question, and she said hold on. like 3 minutes later, i was like, "hello?" and she says "hold on" a couple of minutes later, "hello?" she respond with "hold on, sorry I've been on the phone"... so I said, "i gotta go, cya". I signed off, then the next day I sent her an email basically saying, "that was really fvcking rude. I like you, but if you think you can treat me like that, already, then we got a big problem. You could have easily said you had a phone call, rather than saying something that would have kept me sitting right there, thinking you might come back any second. So, unless you are going to apologize, don't bother talking to me again, cause I don't have time for shlt like this"

well, later that day, i get an im from her that starts out like "Screw you bla bla bla" i just let it sit and didnt respond. about 5 minutes, later, "well, yea it was rude, im sorry, it was an important call and it carried on longer than I expected. But you are right, i should have said something. " i didnt respond. about 10 minutes later, I get "look i am really sorry, please, talk to me already. damnit, talk to me. and other stuff to that effect.

haha, i respond with, "sorry about that, I was in the shower." if would have known you were waiting I would have set my away message to say so." And then she said something like, "oh, well sorry for all the frantic messages then." I was like its, cool, but can you hold on a sec? I gotta phone call" she was like, "thanks rub it in" then I said, sorry, it was a friend. What really got me was that she then said, "What did you tell him, that you were talking to your future wife?"
 

acemcmac

Lifer
Mar 31, 2003
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on my honor
I will do my best
to do my duty
to got and my country
to obey the scout law (trustworthy, loyal, helpful, friendly, curtious, kind, obediant cheerful thrifty brave clean and reverent)
to help other people at all times
to keep myself physically strong
mentally awake
and morally straight

:beer:
 

TechBoyJK

Lifer
Oct 17, 2002
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when she got back from class, we were sitting their watching tv, and somehow we got on the subject of different cultures. She was like, i remember studying this one culture, that had arranged marriages. and how the bride, when she was young, would have to go out into the woods, before the wedding, and basically give her future husband head and swallow as to "plant" a seed of fertility for the future, and then after the wedding, they would then go out into the woods and fvck. haha, all i said was, "sounds like fun to me"

 

TechBoyJK

Lifer
Oct 17, 2002
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Originally posted by: jndietz
oh wow she's gorgeous!

very. when we got back to her house, she didn't change out of her work clothes right away. haha, actually what was cute was right at her front door was a basket with all her underwear in it. well, we sat on the couch and talked for a while, and then she jumped up and was like, I need to get out of these clothes, goes over to her laundry basket starts going through her underwear right in front of me, then goes and changes. She came out in the cutest sweat pants and a shirt with cut off sleeves.
 

TNM93

Senior member
Aug 13, 2005
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Originally posted by: TechBoyJK
Originally posted by: ysperalda
Originally posted by: TechBoyJK
Originally posted by: dartworth
nice...

yea, im pretty much in love. and I feel that she loves me too. only time will tell.


Be careful man, being a nice guy can be a sign to some women that reads, "USE ME".

well, like the 3rd night we were chatting online, i asked he a question, and she said hold on. like 3 minutes later, i was like, "hello?" and she says "hold on" a couple of minutes later, "hello?" she respond with "hold on, sorry I've been on the phone"... so I said, "i gotta go, cya". I signed off, then the next day I sent her an email basically saying, "that was really fvcking rude. I like you, but if you think you can treat me like that, already, then we got a big problem. You could have easily said you had a phone call, rather than saying something that would have kept me sitting right there, thinking you might come back any second. So, unless you are going to apologize, don't bother talking to me again, cause I don't have time for shlt like this"

well, later that day, i get an im from her that starts out like "Screw you bla bla bla" i just let it sit and didnt respond. about 5 minutes, later, "well, yea it was rude, im sorry, it was an important call and it carried on longer than I expected. But you are right, i should have said something. " i didnt respond. about 10 minutes later, I get "look i am really sorry, please, talk to me already. damnit, talk to me. and other stuff to that effect.

haha, i respond with, "sorry about that, I was in the shower." if would have known you were waiting I would have set my away message to say so." And then she said something like, "oh, well sorry for all the frantic messages then." I was like its, cool, but can you hold on a sec? I gotta phone call" she was like, "thanks rub it in" then I said, sorry, it was a friend. What really got me was that she then said, "What did you tell him, that you were talking to your future wife?"


She sounds like she's into you, but only when it's convenient for her. At least that is what I'm reading from your reply. I've heard of girls who will date guys and lead them on for the purpose of using them. If she does that crap again, it's probably an indication that she's using you or is flaky as hell. I'm not telling you to run, just watch out.
 

yllus

Elite Member & Lifer
Aug 20, 2000
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Originally posted by: TechBoyJK
well, like the 3rd night we were chatting online, i asked he a question, and she said hold on. like 3 minutes later, i was like, "hello?" and she says "hold on" a couple of minutes later, "hello?" she respond with "hold on, sorry I've been on the phone"... so I said, "i gotta go, cya". I signed off, then the next day I sent her an email basically saying, "that was really fvcking rude. I like you, but if you think you can treat me like that, already, then we got a big problem. You could have easily said you had a phone call, rather than saying something that would have kept me sitting right there, thinking you might come back any second. So, unless you are going to apologize, don't bother talking to me again, cause I don't have time for shlt like this"

well, later that day, i get an im from her that starts out like "Screw you bla bla bla" i just let it sit and didnt respond. about 5 minutes, later, "well, yea it was rude, im sorry, it was an important call and it carried on longer than I expected. But you are right, i should have said something. " i didnt respond. about 10 minutes later, I get "look i am really sorry, please, talk to me already. damnit, talk to me. and other stuff to that effect.

haha, i respond with, "sorry about that, I was in the shower." if would have known you were waiting I would have set my away message to say so." And then she said something like, "oh, well sorry for all the frantic messages then." I was like its, cool, but can you hold on a sec? I gotta phone call" she was like, "thanks rub it in" then I said, sorry, it was a friend. What really got me was that she then said, "What did you tell him, that you were talking to your future wife?"
That's how you reacted after having to wait for all of 3 minutes? :confused:

No offense dude, but it's chicks who are supposed to get all bent out of shape after being made to wait a fairly minimal amount of time, not guys.